Don't play malicious jokes on children during the Chinese New Year. It's really annoying, okay

The Spring Festival is the most anticipated festival in China. However, we have to admit that our expectations for this are getting smaller and smaller now. Today's Spring Festival can only be regarded as a long holiday at best. In the past, the "annual flavor" of the Spring Festival, such as buying new year's goods, wearing new clothes and watching the Spring Festival Gala, has changed.

For children, the Spring Festival is not only faced with gaudy questions from relatives from all walks of life, but also may be teased by relatives.

I remember last Spring Festival, when I sent my relatives out to wait for the elevator, my uncle picked up his son and prepared to get into the elevator. He also said to him, come back to my hometown with me, and I will never see your parents again. Say goodbye to them. My son believed it, broke away from his uncle's hug, burst into tears in an instant, shook off his hand and asked me for help, shouting mom, mom.

It took him a long time to calm down after taking his son home. When he went to bed at night, he asked uneasily whether he would be sent to his hometown. At that time, I knew that harmless jokes in the eyes of adults would make children feel scared and think that they would be abandoned by their parents.

Please don't play malicious jokes on children.

"Joking" and "teasing" are completely two concepts. Joking means that children can also feel fun, while teasing brings shame, anxiety and loss to children.

Adults deliberately use vicious jokes for the sake of their children's mental immaturity, such as: taking you away, parents not wanting you, having a second child not loving you and so on. It will make children cry and be afraid. This kind of behavior will cause psychological harm to children. Most adults who watch their children cry and feel fun instead of distressed are of poor quality.