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The first time I went to the man’s house, the woman brought 4 things. Unexpectedly, the man said: Just 2 things!

When discussing the bride price before the marriage, the woman’s family asked for 60,000 yuan, but the man’s family was only willing to give 30,000 yuan.

The woman felt that she was losing face, so she asked the man’s family to give another 10,000 yuan as a return gift, but the man did not agree.

After a quarrel, the two broke up.

The two later got back together...

This time, the woman’s parents said, since I went to your house last time to get four items, then I will go there this time. Bring two kinds of things at your home!

But when we arrived at the man’s house, the woman couldn’t care less, so she said: That won’t work! It’s the first time we come to your house, how can we bring two kinds of things? You also You don’t take me seriously!

Then the two sides got into a quarrel and ended up breaking up...

Actually, this example is quite common. When many people get married, they will be confused about "what gift should I bring to my mother-in-law's house for the first time" or "what gift should I bring to my mother-in-law's house for the first time".

Today we will talk about this issue~

First of all, we need to clarify a concept, which is "betrothal gift" and "dowry". These two are two different concepts. Generally speaking, before getting married, if the relationship between the man and the woman has not been formally established, there is no need to prepare betrothal gifts and wedding gifts. But once the relationship is confirmed, preparations are needed. Because this is respect for the other party. Regarding these two concepts, we have talked about them many times in previous tweets, so we won’t say more here.

Secondly, let’s talk about the first question. Generally speaking, if you are coming to propose marriage (that is, if the wedding date has not been set), you usually bring some wedding candies and the like. But if you come to propose marriage after setting a date, it depends on the conditions of the other party's family. Some families may not be too particular and will just bring out all the wedding candies, cigarettes, alcohol, etc. that they have prepared. Some families may pay more attention to etiquette and prepare 4, 5 or even more things to entertain guests. After all, this represents their sincerity! So at this time, it depends on everyone’s choice!

Finally, let’s talk about the second question. Under normal circumstances, if you go to the other person's home, you should not bring more than 5 gifts. For example, in the case mentioned above, the girl brought 6 gifts, which was a bit too much. While this may be done out of politeness or for other reasons, it is generally inappropriate. And if the other parent really cares about your feelings, they won't let you carry so many things so casually. Therefore, it is recommended that you control it within 5.

In addition, one thing to note is that no matter what kind of gift it is, you must ask clearly in advance what the specific content is. For example, as mentioned above, are they 2 types or 4 types? Are these things necessary for the other party’s home, etc. This way similar situations won’t happen!

That’s all for today~ I hope everyone has a happy weekend!