How to make words more vivid

Speaking is really an art, the same thing, someone can spit lotus flowers on his tongue, which is very vivid, can make people laugh, can also make people cry, and make people feel immersive; But some people can't. They talked for a long time and didn't know what to say. How to make words more vivid? Let me take you to find out!

First, have a sense of humor.

Humorous language is humorous, witty and meaningful, which makes people feel spiritual pleasure and satisfaction. A sense of humor may have a natural flavor. Some people are born with a sense of humor and can make people laugh when they open their mouths. Others may never say a word that can make people laugh. But in any case, it is ok to be humorous as long as you are willing to learn and imitate. Here are some ways to create humor.

The first is to tell the truth in vain, and to deliberately confuse the original meaning with the extended meaning; This can be achieved in the following ways: first, the original metaphor is difficult to understand as metaphor ontology or vice versa; Second, abstract concepts are difficult to concretize, and concrete things are also difficult to abstract, or they are regarded as one thing.

The second is to use homophones to create humor. This kind of humor can only be played orally, but not written. It takes advantage of the fact that the speaker speaks a word, but the listener listens to it as another homonym (or deliberately listens). For example, after the doctor examines a patient named Jiao, tell him that you can't share the same room in the future. The patient is a farmer in a remote mountain village and doesn't understand the meaning of sharing a room. After the doctor explained it again, he just couldn't * *, and the patient didn't understand. In a hurry, the doctor said, "I just can't * *!" The patient was even more anxious and said, "My father's surname is Jiao, my grandfather's surname is Jiao, and they have been named Jiao for generations. Why can't I be surnamed Jiao? ! "The patient listened to" * * * "as" surname Jiao ".

The third kind deliberately does not complete the words, leaving room for imagination and extension for others. Before the reform and opening up, some units in Beijing regarded organizing bathing in bathhouses as a kind of welfare. On one occasion, the trade union of a certain unit organized two activities, one was to take a bath in the bathhouse and the other was to visit the museum. Because there are many people, they will be divided into morning and afternoon and men and women groups. The chairman of the trade union announced at the meeting that "lesbians take a bath in the morning and gay men visit." In the afternoon, gay men take a bath and lesbians visit. Be disciplined and don't take pictures! "The chairman of the trade union intentionally or unintentionally didn't tell the whole story, which formed a strong humorous effect. When the young female leader just took office, the former leader introduced every comrade in the unit to the female leader at the welcome meeting. When introduced to me, I said, "No need to introduce, we are old friends-"There was a deliberate pause here, and the word "old frame" must have popped into everyone's mind. I slowly went on to say, "I'm an old acquaintance" and everyone laughed. This is neither more nor less, creating some humorous atmosphere.

The fourth is to steal the concept. Directly use an extreme example to illustrate that Ah Hong has something to do tomorrow and asks the unit leader for a day off. The leader will settle accounts with Ah Hong like this: You can work for 365 days a year. 52 weeks a year, you have two days off every week, leaving 26 1 day to work. You are absent from work every day 16 hours. If you subtract 170 days, 9 1 day remains. Spending 30 minutes on makeup and going to the toilet every day adds up to 23 days a year, leaving 68 days. The time you spend on lunch every day is 1 hour, 46 days and 22 days. Usually you take two sick days a year, so your working hours are only 20 days. There are 9 holidays every year, no work. You only work 1 1 day. The street also generously gives you annual leave of 10 days a year. After calculation, you will work 1 day, and you still need to ask for leave on this day? ! I haven't calculated last year's wedding leave with you. !

This is the concept of stealing, stealing the actual 24-hour solar day into an 8-hour working day.

Fifth, deliberately use ambiguous words to form humor. The so-called ambiguous words refer to words with several different interpretations or even opposite meanings. The ambiguity of Chinese can best satisfy the contradiction of humor. Deliberately choosing ambiguous words causes contradictions in thinking logic and produces humorous effects. This is the most common way of humor. For example, you may have seen such a notice in the parking lot: "Stop for less than an hour, press it for a full hour". At this time, you can ask the owner of the parking lot to give him a quiet. You don't have to pay, and you can ask him to do your feet for an hour. Didn't the notice say "press for an hour"! His foot means enough, and we deliberately understand it as a hand and a foot, which leads to humor.

Sometimes you can also use dialects, or Mandarin is not allowed to create humor. This is also a kind of homophonic humor. If there is such a joke, a group of freshmen are in military training. On this day, the instructor said in dialect, "Today, class one kills chickens and class two steals eggs. I will cook porridge for you! " "The students looked at each other, don't know what is this training content. Later, a classmate didn't understand until he saw the instructor's movements: "What he said was shooting in class one and playing in class two. I'll show you!" " "

There are many ways to be humorous. Here are some common and easy to learn.

Second, pay attention to the rhetoric of language.

It is not enough to have a sense of humor to say good things, and if you are humorous in solemn occasions, people may think that you are glib and shallow and uneducated. So we should also pay attention to the rhetoric of language. Generally speaking, the commonly used rhetorical devices in oral expression are analogy, exaggeration, parallelism, numerical induction and so on. These methods, if used properly, can make the speech lively and interesting, rather than dry. For example, I want to praise Hong. I can say "Hong, you are so beautiful" or "Hong, you are as beautiful as the snow lotus in Tianshan Mountain". Hong definitely prefers to listen to the latter sentence and then use metaphors. Of course, the metaphor should be fresh, repeat what others say, spit on others, and it will be tasteless. Everyone has heard the saying that the first person who compares a woman to a flower is a wise man, the second person who compares a woman to a flower is a mediocre man, and the third person who compares a woman to a flower is a fool. Exaggeration is also common. One of my former colleagues has a bright forehead, and we often make fun of his shiny forehead. On a trip to Hebei, he asked me to take a picture of him on Baodu Mountain. I looked at him with my camera for a few seconds, then put it down and stared at his forehead, so that he noticed that I was looking at his forehead, and then said, "I can't take pictures, it's too reflective." This is exaggeration. And peace of mind. Parallelism can give people an imposing manner and a feeling of having to listen.

Third, we should have certain literary accomplishment and historical knowledge.

Proper use of idioms and allusions, poems and songs, famous sentences of celebrities, etc. in your speech can make your speech appear knowledgeable and high-level. By the way, it's right to be proficient in culture, but you can't help pretending to understand and joking. Some words that are not sure about pronunciation must be looked up in the dictionary. Now some friends don't care about reading typos, which surprises me. When speaking at appropriate times and occasions, using idioms, allusions and famous sentences intentionally can achieve unexpected results.

Fourth, you'd better have some philosophy when you speak.

This difficulty is relatively high, but it is not unattainable. The so-called philosophy is that it can embody a comprehensive and dialectical point of view, grasp the essence of things, point out the internal laws, be forward-looking, concise and enlightening. Philosophical language, a seemingly simple sentence, often contains profound content, which makes people chew more tastefully. A few examples can be cited: Hegel, Marx's most respected dialectic master, once said, "the same is a maxim, and young people and old people have different broadness when they say it." This is a very philosophical statement. It means that young people can say the same life motto, and so can old people. But the meaning of their experiences is quite different. Although young people can correctly express this motto, he will never realize the profundity and broadness in its connotation. Because for an old man, this motto is not only a language, but also embodies his whole life experience and life experience. For example, the motto "failure is the mother of success" is understood as "constant struggle" in the minds of young people at most, while when the elderly speak, their minds will be filled with countless scenes of life failures and successes, in which the bitterness and joy of success will come to mind and make footnotes for this motto. You see, his words contain so much content. This is philosophy. Let's quote another sentence from Hegel. He once said that it is not easy to achieve early results in philosophical research. He said: "Philosophy is like an owl sent by Minerva, which takes off in the evening." This sentence has rich connotations. This means that philosophy is not like mathematics or physics. In their twenties and thirties, they can achieve results even earlier, and even become famous and married. Philosophy is more a summary of life and experience, and a summary of various disciplines and knowledge. Therefore, it takes a lifetime of energy to produce results. Evening is a metaphor for old age, so it takes off in the evening. I studied philosophy, and I didn't get any results when I was young, so I comforted myself until my later years, but I still couldn't fly.

5. Silence is golden

There are indeed many people who believe this sentence and even regard it as a philosophy of life. I also appreciate the philosophy contained in this sentence. It should not be said that "silence is golden"; When you shouldn't say it, "silence is golden"; On occasions that should not be said, "silence is golden"; Should not say the object, "silence is golden"; When expressing silent protest, "silence is golden". Other than that, when will you be silent? Is that you will be silent when you don't understand, don't know, are uncertain and have nothing to say. So not all silence is golden. Too much silence will make people feel that you don't know anything, have no opinion and position. Therefore, exports are still necessary. You can take silence as the principle, but principle should also be combined with flexibility.

In order to succeed in business, many of us need to improve our eloquence. Above, we talked about some problems that may be encountered in eloquence. So, how to improve your eloquence? Today, I will share with you my experience and methods of improving my eloquence.

First, make plans and study systematically.

All the above points are very important. More importantly, you should have an improvement plan. Specify how long it will take you to practice your eloquence. Then, combined with the system for systematic learning. Start bit by bit and take your time. Natural eloquence is getting better and better

Second, take action and persevere.

In addition to the above methods, the most important thing is to have a confident heart and persist in practicing with practical actions. No matter how beautiful the expectation is, no action will always be in vain at the corner. Therefore, self-discipline and self-discipline are also crucial.

Third, read books and master knowledge.

Just like cooking requires cooking first, without knowing and understanding the content and the development and changes in various fields, you will only have an empty mouth and still have nothing to say all the time. Therefore, mastering various knowledge is the premise of improving eloquence, and it is very important to have ink in your heart.

Fourth, make more friends and make more contacts.

Don't limit yourself to a few colleagues or girlfriends, which will only lead to a small circle and is not conducive to the improvement of your eloquence. Make more friends, make more contacts, make different kinds of friends, discuss different topics with them, and absorb their language and knowledge when they speak, which is very helpful to improve their eloquence.

5. Be good at listening and study hard.

The improvement of eloquence is far from enough to speak with your own mouth. Listen to other people's speeches and learn other people's languages when appropriate. Only by studying hard can we really improve ourselves. Whether it is a speech on TV or an activity in daily life, you should find your own learning point in it and get as close as possible.

6. Open your mouth and never stop.

The improvement of eloquence ability can not be achieved by thinking alone, but also by speaking more, especially by exercising more. Eloquence is the art of speaking with your mouth open. If you don't speak, your eloquence will never improve. There is a first time for everything. You should be brave enough to appear and speak in public. Even if you don't succeed at the first time and are laughed at by many people, you should talk more and practice more.

Seven, improvisation, language accumulation

For example, the practice of reading poems, novels and newspapers aloud is a kind of language expression training, the accumulation of various sentence patterns, and the actual experience of word-breaking, sentence-breaking and emotional expression; At the same time, you can improvise eloquence exercises for different groups, including unfamiliar salesmen. As long as you keep training, you will get a good improvement unconsciously.

Eight, wandering the sea of books, knowledge accumulation

Talking aimlessly is not a good eloquence, nonsense is not a skill, and speaking with theoretical basis is the real skill. The improvement of eloquence still needs the accumulation of knowledge. Reading more books and taking more notes are absolutely beneficial to the improvement of eloquence. When you talk endlessly, quoting classics will make the audience envious and improve their eloquence quickly.

9. Participate in activities and look for opportunities.

College students can participate in speech contests and debate contests organized by the school; Or friendship competitions or exhibition competitions organized in the community; Annual meeting programs, cross talk, sketches, etc. Organized by the company; Other public welfare activities organized by social organizations can be attended as long as people gather and the atmosphere of language and thought exchange is active. This form is different from self-reading training, which is very effective in actual combat and will be a good exercise and improvement for self-coping and on-site control.

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