A passage from a future daughter-in-law

If one day I become a member of my family, first of all, I would like to express my welcome and thanks! I will treat you as my family and daughter in the future! You don't have to worry about the mother-in-law relationship. As the saying goes, I haven't seen my mother-in-law for ten years and my daughter-in-law for ten years. First of all, you came to my home and left the home where you were born and raised for more than 20 years. Everything is strange except my son, so what you need at this time is someone to care for you, care for you, love you dearly, give you warmth, and treat you as a member of the family, so that you will not get lost and integrate into this family more quickly. Both my son and I can give you these. But before becoming my daughter-in-law, as your future mother-in-law, I have some advice and suggestions for you!

1. First of all, you must love my son, so that you can tolerate his shortcomings, help him correct and make progress together, because this will also pave the way for your future life.

Secondly, you should all have a correct outlook on life, because a person with an incorrect outlook on life cannot be called a person. In addition, you should have the spirit of hard work, so that you can adapt to this society and get a place in it. To put it bluntly, you should have a fixed and good income every month. If not, it doesn't matter. Then two people discuss together, make plans and goals, and then work together to find ways to pay and achieve them.

Your relationship can only develop with the consent of both family members, because marriage without the consent of family members will not last long and the shelf life will not be long. Because marriage is not between you two, but between two families.

Daughter-in-law, why should I tell you this This is for the sake of your future quality of life and marriage. Think about it, getting married costs a lot of money! You have to have children after marriage! Children should be educated when they grow up! You should plan all these things in advance, and then your road will be easy. If you don't have a stable income, you will be heavily in debt, under great pressure and living in poverty after marriage. In the long run, you will all be upset and tired, slowly start quarreling about trifles, and finally have nothing to say until you are disappointed with each other and then break up. This is not what you want, nor what I want to see.

Besides, you have to work as a daughter-in-law. Even if you have children, you can bring them to me, to your mother and even to yourself. It's useless, but the principle is to work anyway. Maybe you will say that the mother-in-law is so cruel, it is hard to take care of the children, and she has to work while taking care of the children. Yes, it's really hard, but have you ever thought that if you don't work, you won't get any income, so your daily expenses and children's expenses are not a small amount. Even if you have a good income before marriage, you may get married and have children with 788! If my son earns a lot of money every month, it's ok to support you and your children, but if you don't go to work every day, you will cry, make trouble and catch a cold. If you don't eat well and sleep well, you will really lack energy and people will become more and more haggard. At this time, you won't have time to read books, watch the news, know nothing about the outside world, and you won't have time to get together with friends and dress yourself up. You will become more and more. Women should have their own jobs, be independent and work hard for their jobs, so that they can have confidence, find their own values and make progress. This is my original intention!

Why do you want a marriage agreed by both parents? Because both parents are their closest relatives and favorite people, if they can't get their parents' blessing! Will you be happy? There will always be a stalk in my heart. During the Chinese New Year and the holidays, you will think of them unconsciously and feel that they are old and healthy. Thinking about it will make you feel dejected, so your heart will not be practical. Only when the family is harmonious and happy can life be long and beautiful!