How to treat parents joking about their children's anecdotes?

Pay attention to a degree in everything, which is acceptable within a reasonable range. But often it will inevitably hurt children's self-esteem. This phenomenon exists in almost every family. Mainly because the generation gap between parents and children is relatively large, and because they live in different times, their social models are also very different. In addition, every parent is a partner in his social circle, so children will discuss more problems. Apart from children and family life, they can hardly find other topics to discuss. So they like to talk about children's behavior, whether it is good or bad, and evaluate each other. But they only have one goal, that is, to exchange views with each other, see how their families are, and then learn from each other's strengths and change their previous wrong views and opinions. This method is also helpful for parents to change their educational concept and learn advanced parenting experience.

Secondly, according to the children's own personality analysis, we can't discuss this issue too much, which is likely to affect the development of children's interpersonal relationship and self-esteem. For most families, their children's personalities are definitely different from those of other families. Parents' self-esteem not only hurts their children, but also makes them gradually escape their mistakes and doubt their abilities. In the end, he was depressed for a long time and gradually lost many opportunities for development. If a parent often jokes about his children's anecdotes in front of other parents, it will not only dampen their spirit of exploring new things, but also greatly increase their curiosity.

Finally, make fun of children's embarrassment and tell them selectively. Encourage children to face their mistakes. In fact, for the vast majority of parents, we suggest that they give their children embarrassing things, encourage them, and let them dare to face their own embarrassment. This aspect is not only to cultivate children's courage to face mistakes, but also to cultivate children's courage to correct them. Face up to your mistakes and embarrassment.