What do relatives say about going on holiday?

I believe that for most adults, the Chinese New Year is not a pleasant thing. Because there are always so many possibilities for young people who have just reached adulthood but have not yet reached middle age. They may not have a job, they may not have children, and so on, all of which are worthy of attention.

Among all the customs of Chinese New Year, what they hate most is to pay New Year's greetings, because then they will have to be questioned by various relatives. The connection between modern people is getting weaker and weaker. You can only say a few words during the Spring Festival all the year round, which makes you even more embarrassed to pay a New Year call.

0 1 Visit relatives for New Year's greetings. These relatives are the most annoying, and the farther away, the better.

Nowadays, old people always like to criticize young people, saying that young people are psychologically fragile and can't stand it, saying that young people are afraid of life and don't want to say hello to their relatives.

But they usually don't have much contact with these so-called relatives, and suddenly they have to face each other, and no one can accept it at once. Besides, some relatives really don't have emotional intelligence, and everything they say and do makes people uncomfortable. I don't blame everyone for not liking meeting him.

1, seemingly grinning relatives should stay away.

Many people are old, but they have nothing to do in their fifties and sixties, and their favorite thing is gossip. I like to tell others everything, regardless of the feelings of the parties and the influence of my own nonsense. My family is one of our own, so some things are always shared with everyone.

And if this kind of family affairs is known by these gossip people, it will be known immediately, and the parties will suddenly become a big joke and become people's talk after dinner. They also feel that they have done nothing wrong and will not have any intention of repentance, so it is better to stay away from such people.

2. Stay away from relatives who can't see you.

There is a very good saying, some people want you to live well, but they don't want you to be better than him. Many relatives are like this, or worse. Their greatest pleasure every day is to know what misfortune has happened to the people around them, which gives them a sense of superiority that they can't get at ordinary times.

If there is anything good in your family, they will immediately throw cold water on it, saying that you will not always be good, and jealousy is self-evident. And if you say something very plain, he will tell others in order to attract everyone's attention. In the end, the more outrageous it is, the more people who don't know it will take it seriously.

3. Two-faced relatives should stay away.

Such relatives are also annoying, for example. Maybe your family needs help now, but instead of helping, he says that he is poorer than you and you should help him. Even a slap in the face will make your situation worse. In fact, there are many reasons for not helping, but pretending to be poor is really harmful.

Not only do you not help, but you will also laugh at others behind their backs, saying that you are unhappy now because you don't listen to him. If he has money, he wants to show it off, even though he pretends to be poor in front of you. When others have money, he will show a flattering look, which makes people look down on him.

When they are in trouble, they try their best to get you to help them, make up various excuses to kidnap your morality and make you feel guilty. Don't talk about what he has done for you. If you don't help, he will speak ill of you everywhere and let your interpersonal relationship rot. Even if you help him, he won't appreciate it. Instead, he complains that you didn't help him effectively enough and in time. This kind of person is a vampire, as far away from him as possible.