How to make men calm down?

Have you noticed that when we are angry, we are particularly reluctant to mention what we are angry about, and we are unwilling to mention it, so try to avoid this thunder point and talk about other interesting topics in communication.

Get rid of this embarrassment completely. There are too many interesting topics, such as jokes you like to see and hear around you, funny stories on the Internet, his funny stories, your embarrassing stories, your friends' funny stories and so on. Anything interesting is used to resolve embarrassment, let the freezing point melt and make feelings warm.

During this period, even if you are talking to yourself, he is silent, but he is definitely listening to your heart, because at this moment, he is eagerly waiting for your actions and words. He is quietly observing your every move, including your eyes and emotions, and he will care very much. You make the atmosphere so interesting that his mood is easily aroused by you.

Once he gets involved in your topic, he will forget what he was angry about just now. Even if he does not forget, embarrassment and embarrassment will gradually weaken, so that difficult contradictions and disputes can be calmly handled and resolved.

Interesting, humorous and vivid communication can easily ease the tension and embarrassment between each other. If you want a long-term and stable relationship, you have to say more interesting words, which is a kind of beauty for people and yourself.

Step 2 keep an interesting distance

Besides talking and doing things is more interesting, you should also learn to keep an ambiguous distance from him.

The angrier a man is, the less you can coax him. At this point, men and women are very different.

For women's anger, we must not be indifferent, indifferent, alienated or ignored.

But for men's anger, we must learn to be moderately cold, indifferent, far away, ignore a little, and try to keep a little ambiguous atmosphere and distance, so that he will realize his identity.

Men are more emotional, and their bones are still dominated by reason, while women are more rational and easy to be emotional, so it is much easier to deal with anger.

When a man is angry, you'd better not wait to talk to him, let alone rush to coax him, but stay away from him moderately, give him some space and freedom, let him have a good rest and think hard, and smooth out the problems and contradictions between you, even if these disputes are trivial, don't follow him. This way can only be counterproductive.

The smartest way is to keep an interesting distance from him. Don't rush to find him, don't rush to explain to him, and don't rush to make up. When he has thoroughly figured it out and figured out the whole story, you will show a little concern and concern. It was a fatal blow to him, because he was waiting for your warmth and thoughtfulness, and you just came.

When you get along with men, remember to be reserved and interesting, so as to win the game. No matter how angry and emotional he is, as long as you are sure that he loves you and only loves you, then your interest is a fatal temptation to him.