Roommates never care about other people's feelings and do wonderful things. What should I do?

In the imagination of people who have never stayed, living in a dormitory together is a very happy and exciting thing. However, the reality is that only by finding roommates who are in tune with each other and have the same or similar views can we have a perfect dormitory life. However, having some roommates is also quite wonderful! Girls' dormitories are mainly reflected in stealing things, provoking gossip, not being clean and behaving abnormally. The boys' dormitory is mainly reflected in the mess and playing games late, which affects other people's rest.

I have many friends around me, and they never stop talking about their roommates. The general reason is the existence of such wonderful people as mentioned above.

I suggest that if you have such a roommate around you, you should do the following.

first of all, talk to him alone very sincerely and draw the key points. 1, sincere and serious, let him know that you are not joking but that his behavior has really seriously affected your normal life! 2. Alone. Don't embarrass him, young people are impulsive. This method is only applicable to those who have morality and shame. For others, it may not be feasible, for example, my friend's roommate, after my friend was serious and told him clearly, still knowingly committed a crime, acting like I just hit me.

when this polite and gentle method doesn't apply. At this time, you are faced with a choice, which is to continue to maintain the relationship between the dormitory and endure it silently, take a step back or fight to the end?

As for the former, I can only say that when he doesn't like cleanliness, you can choose to clean his share silently. When he is banging on the keyboard and playing games, you can silently choose to cover your ears or buy a pair of earplugs. Listening to music to sleep is also a good way ~

In the latter case, take tough measures. Apply to the counselor and ask him to be transferred from this dormitory, but you may have offended him, so my friend asked a particularly unsanitary person in their dormitory to move out of their dormitory. If you don't want to offend him, you might as well apply to the counselor to rent a house outside. Of course, the people around me haven't?

A good living environment can make you feel good. If you face a roommate who makes you feel bad every day, I believe you will become more and more unhappy and eventually lose your good mood. Therefore, I really don't suggest that you need to put up with it. Maybe if you put up with it, he will push his luck even more. Therefore, sometimes, it is a very lucky thing to meet a group of good roommates. Although there are some contradictions sometimes, it is more fun to change. My friends often envy my good luck. I hope my suggestion can bring great help to you who are facing troubles, and I also expect you to meet better roommates.

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