Say "pest someone"

7 "Confrontation" is popular on the Internet. Anyone who does not follow other people's opinions is "complaint". In fact, the fourth tone of "怼" when pronounced means "resentment", and there is also the word "resentment". The original character of duǐ is "?", which means it makes people feel embarrassed when they speak. In Huarong dialect, it is described as "being hurt so much that the nose bleeds".

This kind of "?" is also called "杵" or "杵人" in Huarong dialect. Huarong has a joke about a son-in-law who is dull and not good at socializing. One day he met his mother-in-law while walking. He couldn't find anything to say hello, so he stammered, "Mother-in-law, are you walking?" His mother-in-law never had a good look at this son-in-law's cowardice, so she said angrily. : "If I don't walk, how can I walk on grass?" "Walking on grass" means that an animal is in heat. The mother-in-law said this to her son-in-law, which made her eyes turn white, but she also scolded herself, so it was passed down as a joke.

People who are good at "beating people" may think differently from ordinary people and have their own unique thinking. For example, when we meet someone walking alone, we often say hello and say, "Are you walking alone?" People who like to bully people respond like this: "Wouldn't I scare you to death if I walked out half alone?" Do you think this kind of thinking is very strange? Weird? Nowadays, many people keep their mobile phones in their hands, and many people also use their mobile phones when going to the toilet. But squatting in the toilet and playing with mobile phones is a bad habit. My wife saw that her husband always squatted in the toilet and played with mobile phones for a long time, so she asked him to stop playing with mobile phones in the toilet. The husband didn’t take his wife’s well-intentioned reminder seriously and said, “If you don’t want me to play with my phone when I go to the bathroom, do you want me to play with shit?” Such “rude” words are really not something ordinary people can think of.

Communication without good intentions will not only fail to achieve the purpose of communication, but will also destroy each other's mood, resulting in grudges and even estrangement, which will then create estrangement and affect the relationship between each other. Therefore, when we communicate with others, we should speak well and never show off our language talents in terms of "beating others".