How to chase girls?

I have known you for a long time, but I am still a stranger. It pains you when the other person tells you who he likes. You don't understand! You've been so kind to her, and that's what you get! I still ignore you after talking for a long time.

Why is this happening? If you want to find the answer to this question, then this article will help you find your own question, so that girls will sit up and take notice of you in future chats and attract her immediately.

Some of us often make mistakes in chatting. People who can't chat are just appearances. The internal reason for not chatting is that he has no sense of chatting. He just chats in your way.

We know how a person's behavior quality is and how his external performance will be reflected. For example, a person with poor quality will always curse. The same frustrated man always talks to death when chatting naturally.

Therefore, girls have no feelings for you, and often judge who you are through your behavior, and whether you are a person worthy of her in-depth exchanges.

So you will meet some questions asked by women in the chat, such as your test. Do you always ask girls that? Wait, there are no examples here? . Click on the link: Learn more about the chat test and reply correctly! If you make these seven mistakes in chatting, the girl will definitely send you away.

The first one: always chatting around girls.

If you can't cause a topic that your sister will be interested in, and you really want your sister to respond to you, then your topic will continue to cause topics around your sister.

For example, if you always ask girls questions, or if girls say something, you just say it, so the topic is boring. The most important thing is that you give the woman the initiative.

Then there will be two problems:

The first is that you are always asking the value of girls (always asking questions);

Second, your topic is boring.

Girls will find it boring to chat with you. How can they have feelings for you? In addition, you should know that there are three aspects (very important) to attract a person's interest, the first appearance, the second personality and the third understanding. Click on the link: how to improve your attractiveness!

You can take the initiative to use some descriptions of state and feelings to make a chat topic. For example, I just finished working out in the hotel and have a meeting today. Now I'm lying on the sofa in the coffee shop drinking coffee. Be happy. What are you doing? "

Well, this sentence reflects your state and life. It is through this sentence that I feel that your life still has some flavor. At least you still have spare money to drink coffee and exercise, and you are not very poor. This is all to let the other person know your conversation.

I also got rid of the embarrassment of telling you directly how much money you have and what job you have when you are dating. The correct way to chat is to talk about yourself, each other, yourself and what the third party knows.

The second one: girls keep asking if they don't reply.

This is the most common problem for us, including me, and it has often happened before! When the girl didn't reply, she was very anxious, so she was anxious to ask her sister or send her a lot of information.

Maybe that girl came again at that time. What will she think when she looks back at so much information? First of all, your worry actually exposes your sense of need. Girls can feel that you may have no other women to talk to, or that you are free.

An idle and fearful person will be a boring person.

So, girls have no feelings for you. If the other party doesn't reply to you, remember not to exceed three messages. No matter how much news there is, they won't reply to you.

You can wait, or even start the conversation in three days, which is no problem. Give the other person a feeling that I won't bother you if you don't reply. If you keep posting, then the other person may be really busy at this time and have no time. As soon as you look up and see that you have sent so many messages, anyone will feel that it is a kind of pressure and the impact on you will be reduced. This is an overexposure requirement, which should be noted here.

Third: the number of chat words is not equal.

In the process of chatting with my sister, many people may only return to 1 line and line 2. But he replied five lines and six lines. Your chat words are not equal, which makes the girl feel that you are wordy and exposes the sense of demand.

Fourth: the response time is not equal.

Similarly, if it takes a few minutes for my sister to reply to you, but as soon as my sister replies, you reply once every second. There is a saying that seconds are true love.

You love her, but she does not necessarily love you. What's the point of your persistent reply?

It will only make girls feel that they have got you and get you done without doing anything. Then you can't motivate her to want you.

Fifth: Be too polite when chatting.

For example: hello, thank you. Or when you're not talking, you're busy now. I'll talk to you later. It looks really polite, but because it is too polite, it makes your atmosphere even weirder. But this does not mean that chatting is impolite.

You can think about it. When you are with your brothers and friends, do you say hello and thank you for it?

So try not to make the topic so rigid and polite, which will indirectly bring your relationship closer and create a good chat atmosphere.

Sixth: Always chatting without an appointment.

Many people send WeChat to their sisters and have been chatting, but they can't make an appointment or dare to make an appointment.

After you just added a girl, you both have a strong sense of mystery. The desire for contact should be the strongest at this time. If you don't go on a date, there will be no intersection over time.