People can't be spotless all their lives. Which four "fig leaves" should be hidden?

1. I feel all the mistakes I have made for my career: "The ugliness of human nature is exposed, and the more I understand it, the more disgusting I feel." Therefore, don't expose it, that is, if you can't change it, choose to accept it silently, whether for others or yourself. Others envy Tang Zhu, who has a warm home and a beautiful career and manages thousands of people in the company. Speaking of infinite scenery, in fact, only Tang knows clearly that today's success is not achieved by his own efforts. At that time, he and another friend were fighting for the same position. The other party was only qualified and had more colorful work experience than him, but he was only willing to fight and fight with his own pragmatism.

Seeing that the opportunity will be empty, I don't know how long it will take next time. Tang Zhu had to pay, hit each other through some connections, and finally got the position. Despite his successful career, he has been restless and always feels sorry for others, which is also a stain on his life. If it weren't for the pressure of daily life, who would want to leave such a stain on themselves to follow their own lives? Since we have left some stains, we should hide the victim in this respect, bury him in our hearts and walk away in our memories.

2. past emotional experience everyone has a past and some pains that cannot be mentioned. But even if it hurts again, it can only be let it go, buried in my heart and become a secret in my memory. Kobayashi originally had a very warm home. Once a good girlfriend came to play and Xiaolin was cooking, so she asked her husband to chat with her good friend. I didn't expect my best friend to inadvertently talk about Kobayashi's first love many years ago and tell some short stories.

Although Kobayashi immediately interrupted their conversation, her husband heard something after all, and she could feel her husband's repressed anger. Because of this, her husband also had a few days of contradictions with her. Although everyone's emotional experience is not a stain, it is just not a person. But for your partner, as long as others participate in your past, it is a stain and a hurdle for him. Even if we can't avoid this stain, we should learn to hide it well, without mentioning it to anyone, and let it be our secret, so as to ensure that it will have little impact on our present life.

3. Contradictions between relatives Although we all hope that our lives will always be warm and happy, this is only our hope. As the saying goes, "every family has its own problems", and every family will have some problems that cannot be solved, which are actually contradictions between relatives. Deng Jun and his wife are always in conflict recently, and both of them will have a big fight over a trivial matter. In fact, the quarrel between husband and wife is inevitable. When you are in a hurry and have a lot of pressure in your life, you will naturally vent with the people closest to you.

This is accepted by Deng Jun, so these things will not be mentioned to others, and he does not want to incur some unnecessary losses. I remember quarreling with my wife once before, and he went back to his mother's house in a rage. In the end, he was exaggerated by others, saying that our relationship broke down, which must be unbearable. We all need to understand the truth that "domestic dirty linen should not be published". If you have problems at home, you can close the door and solve them yourself. Tell many things to others, others will not only be unable to help, but also laugh at you and see you make a fool of yourself. It is normal for people to have a little contradiction where everything goes well in life. Just remember to hide the victim in this regard.

4. Teenagers are frivolous and ignorant. When I was young, everyone wanted to change the world. After all, everyone has been changed by the world. When Xiaojun was about twenty years old, he wanted to make money but didn't want to work hard. He always found a job with quick money. Then I met some people and lost my way. In the end, I didn't make any money, but lost a lot. After such experiences and lessons, Xiaojun finally understood that there is no such thing as a free lunch. If you want to make money, you must do things in a down-to-earth manner and treat people honestly. In the next two years, he did a little business and his life became better and better. People around him praised him for his great strength, and he was stronger than many people of his age at such a young age. Xiaojun has always been glad that he can wake up in time and not let you go further and further on the incorrect road.

Xiaojun can only keep this stain in his heart all the time. It is not easy to mention it to anyone. He can't ruin his brand image, but he should always remind himself. When a teenager is frivolous, whoever has not made a mistake is incorrect. No matter what mistakes you have made before, as long as you can correct them in time, rethink your life and keep your feet on the ground in your daily life, you can say that you have lost your way. It is better to hide this stain yourself, instead of letting others catch hold of themselves and re-untie their scars. There is no deep understanding in this world, because you have given too much, and no one cares about your contribution, so don't open the wound and complain to others stupidly. There are many people with salt in this world. The more people go up, the more their hearts will sink, and their hearts will be practical and the road ahead will be stable.