Children are not alone in the college entrance examination. Excellent parents can make their children get 50 points more. Do you agree?

The college entrance examination is not only a test for children, but also a test for a family. The college entrance examination is not only for your children, but for your family team. If your child has finished the college entrance examination, as a senior three parent, you can realize this.

Then you are a qualified senior three parent, and your children's college entrance examination results must be ideal. I am a successful senior three parent, and I have a strong interest in the study of senior three students and the life of senior three parents.

I often think of these things, so I have some ideas that I want to share with you here, hoping to add some color to your senior three parents' lives.

The college entrance examination is almost the biggest event for a family for decades, and it is also a national event. Perhaps, there are no great scientists in the college entrance examination now, and many people complain about it, but for so many years, the college entrance examination system has hardly moved.

However, please think about it, what is more fair, just and open than the current college entrance examination in China? Which ruler can make people stand upright more than the college entrance examination?

Experts are studying the college entrance examination, and the country is studying the college entrance examination. Before everyone has worked out a fairer, more just and more open method than the current college entrance examination system, the current college entrance examination system will remain for a long time.

I think we'd better study the college entrance examination, and look at what we can and should do from the parents' point of view, so that children can get dozens of points in the exam. It is no exaggeration to say that excellent senior three parents can at least let their children get 50 points more in the exam.

How to be an excellent senior three parent? Parents of excellent senior three parents should love your children first. Some people are small officials and have some money. I've been busy all day. I have no time. I feel sorry for my children. Please count these people calmly. What have you been up to all day? How much time is really spent at work and how much time is necessary?

If you are really busy at work and don't have time to care about your children, you don't have to worry, because we say that example speaks louder than words, and your children will work hard in their studies. I'm afraid your time is on the wine table and in the karaoke bars. Every day you come back full and full, red-faced and shouting, children come to talk to us ... Some people are so obsessed with their personal interests that they have no time to take care of their children. ...

Secondly, we should believe that through our own efforts, children's grades will be improved to a certain extent. Whether children's grades can be improved is the same as our daily work. If we have a good understanding, personal interest and leadership concern, we can't do any work well.

You always believe that as you sow, you reap. Believe in me and yourself, as long as you work hard, you will certainly get something. Children are seventeen or eighteen years old, facing the college entrance examination, psychologically, coordinating the relationship between teachers and facing many problems such as ups and downs in grades. Your participation will make children more confident and will make them more mature in dealing with various problems encountered in their studies.

Senior three parents pray for the college entrance examination. Being good at learning is a necessary condition to be a good parent. Only by studying can you know where your time, energy and money are spent. Everyone knows that parents are the only job titles without certificates. To be a qualified parent, you must master some scientific laws and principles.

How to learn? Where do you study? First of all, it needs to be clear that our children may not be admitted to Peking University Tsinghua. At present, most of the family education books in the society are the experience of parents who won the college entrance examination. We don't need to learn that kind of gifted education. You can buy relevant books in the bookstore and choose them carefully. One book is enough, but more is useless.

But keep reading. We can learn from the Internet. There are many good platforms on the Internet. Comrades are recommended to look at the elite blog posts in the parents' circle of the official WeChat account. The WeChat group in the parents' circle of the college entrance examination is also a place for senior three parents to communicate. Learn from the class teacher and substitute teacher, and learn from the parents of children and classmates.

Insist on sacrificing things that can be sacrificed, such as unnecessary work, canceling all parties that have nothing to do with children and so on. Fight side by side with children. What I am talking about here is mainly the father of the child, the most important father.

Because both sons and daughters, in their minds, dad is often the backbone of the family. In fact, if the hero works hard, the family will work hard, perform their duties, work together, and be invincible. We must have a celebration party after the senior three exams.

Did you set a goal in senior three? Some people think that setting goals puts great pressure on children's learning. Once the gap between children's achievements and goals is too large, it will dampen their enthusiasm for learning. The author's point of view is that parents should set a dynamic goal of advancing and retreating according to their children's actual situation, so that children can learn in a directional way. I'll tell you my child's personal situation for your reference.

My children's scores in the senior high school entrance examination exceeded the admission score of No.1 middle school by 7 points, ranking more than 600 in the whole school. Fortunately, at that time, many teachers said that there were more than 600 points in the senior high school entrance examination, and everyone was on the same starting line.

At that time, I just thought everyone was encouraging our children. When children finish high school, they realize that they are not just talking about encouragement. This is really meaningful. The glory of the senior high school entrance examination can never represent what high school will look like. The senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination are two different things, and there is no necessary connection between them.

According to the situation at that time, our common goal was to get close to two scores in the first year and do well in the second year. Why do you agree? We basically agree with everything that is older in our family. After all, children are learning, so setting such goals must be agreed by their families.

Top 300 in the first semester of senior one and top 300 in senior two 100. After entering the third year of high school, the child said to me, Dad, I took the X University of Finance and Economics (two good local ones) in my first year. I told my children that according to your current grades, the college entrance examination should be more than 10 to 20 points. We have set three goals now: the highest goal is that a book exceeds 15.

During the time when children were not confident about the last book, they learned very easily. Both his mother and I are in a hurry. Some parents said that it is not a good thing for children to study easily. Why are you in such a hurry? All parents and students who have gone through senior three know that studying in senior three is like sailing against the current.

So I broke down his college entrance examination results according to his scores and strength in various subjects. Mathematics 120, English 1 10, Chinese 100, science 220. He said there was no problem.

Through a period of communication and encouragement, the goal of getting more than one test line has been rooted in children's hearts. Because the number of freshmen in our county does not exceed 100 every year, we also know that it is difficult to get into one grade, but children's academic performance and learning status have already had the ability to impact one grade. If you don't adjust your goals in time, your child will lack enough motivation to learn.

The sweat paid will soon be verified in the college entrance examination. Before the end of the first semester of senior three, children's grades basically hovered around 50. Obviously, when children are in this ranking, our goal is even lower. So I negotiated with him that there is a 2 1 1 school in our province, and it will take its own entrance examination in March next year. Would you like to sign up? Let's analyze the advantages and disadvantages of taking the exam together. If we take the exam:

First, you can increase your examination experience; ?

Second, if the exam is successful, it can help us enter this 211; ?

Third, the study of senior three is very tense. Anyway, it's a Sunday exam, and it won't take long. By the way, this is an advantage. The main disadvantage is that once the exam is unsuccessful, it will be a blow to self-confidence, followed by a slight delay in study time.

After weighing the pros and cons, we decided to participate. In order to encourage him to take the exam, I mobilized a classmate with similar grades to my child, and I went through all the formalities for them. They all took the exam and passed.

At the time of the college entrance examination, my child got a ranking that had never been taken before, ranking second in the class and in the top 20 of the grade, which was the best ranking and the best result of my son's three years in high school. Successfully entered our ideal school and achieved "three ones" (one in the first year and one in the major).

It is one of the secrets of the success of our family team to set a goal for children according to their grades, adjust this goal appropriately according to the situation, and guide children to work towards this goal continuously.

I have many children of relatives and friends. When they entered the third year of high school, I asked the children how their grades were and what schools they planned to take in the future. They are all famous universities in Beijing and Shanghai. It is good to have confidence, but the set goals can't increase children's learning motivation and lead them to keep moving forward. In this way, the huge gap will leave a great shadow on parents and candidates when the test scores come down.

Keep proper contact with teachers. Why is it appropriate? Senior three teachers are very busy and time is tight. But they are still happy to contact their parents, because as an educator, his purpose is to educate students well, and home-school communication is a good way to educate students well.

At present, when it comes to home visits, many people's idea is to invite people to dinner and give gifts to curry favor with them. In fact, this is an irresponsible practice. In real life, many people have done this. Some people think that if I hire a teacher, he will definitely be biased towards my children, so he will relax and never look for a teacher again. As the children on the wine table say, "Please ask the teacher for advice."

After a period of exams, my grades dropped. So I exclaimed, "No! It's my treat and a gift! It shouldn't be like this! " A high school teacher told me that there were too many guests to remember them all, three days at most.

It is also realistic for everyone to think about it. No teacher walks into the classroom. Look around the classroom first to see which ones are invited and which ones are not. Is this not a joke?

If so, the children of rich people can go to good universities. In fact, teachers are not so secular. Your position in the teacher's mind is often determined by your children. The teacher hopes that your visit is to talk about the children's situation in order to improve the students.

When my child was in the third year of high school, to be honest, I wanted to invite the teacher to dinner, but I didn't invite him. They are very busy. I usually don't call, but go to the teacher. The effect of calling is very poor. Sometimes the teacher can't call the right number and who is who. I usually do it after every exam.

What are the advantages of choosing this time? After you communicate with the teacher, when the child gives you grades, you can analyze the exam with the child. Every exam, good or bad, we will analyze the exam together. Most of the exam information I got came from teachers.

When I first visited my teacher, I couldn't find it most of the time. Sometimes you find it, and the teacher doesn't have time to receive you. Slowly, I summed up the rules. Teachers in high schools generally like to exercise after school in the afternoon. After exercise, teachers have more time before and after evening self-study. Those who study at night are waiting for class, while others are ready to go home.

Talk to the teacher with knowledge, the length of time is determined by the teacher, and you should be good at guiding the teacher to talk, because the main purpose of finding a teacher is to understand the daily study of children and listen to the teacher's analysis of the students' gains and losses in the exam. If you listen patiently, the teacher will be happy to communicate with you. If you don't believe me, one day after you find a teacher, you will keep talking about your children. I can assure you that it will be difficult for you to visit this teacher next time.

My child's math teacher is a woman teacher. Every time I go to see her, she looks happy. Every time she talks about children, she is very happy and even talks about many small details.

For example, once the teacher said that it was impossible for a person to live in two rooms in one night, but my child said it was unnecessary. For example, Saddam Hussein had to change several rooms in one night to avoid bombing. The teacher said the whole class was amused by him. The teacher knew that he meant no harm, and instead of giving him a hard time, he praised his simplicity.

I said a word at that home visit. I said the child came home and said that the math teacher liked him as much as his mother. A word made the math teacher cry with joy. I went home and told my child the little story told by the math teacher, and told him that the math teacher liked him very much. The child just smiled, but I know what he thinks.

Once I failed the math exam 100, and the child came back and growled at me: I am the king of math in our class, and I am a giant! Why? I ... I didn't listen to what he said next. I know my children must be kings and giants. This is inseparable from the cordial care of the math teacher.

And my little moves in home visits should play a certain role. When I was promoted from primary school to junior high school, I got 19 in Chinese, but in the fourth grade of primary school, I was in the top three in my class. What is the reason? That is, the relationship with the fifth-grade Chinese teacher has deteriorated. To what extent?

He won't let me eat in class, but my mouth is moving. He told me to stand up and open my mouth to show him. There was nothing. Later, I was talking in almost every class, especially angry with the teacher. Results I got 19 in Chinese. What if my parents intervened a little at that time?

Students can't change teachers, especially high school teachers. Class is over, you are the mayor, and you have no right to transfer any teacher's class. As students, we'd better adapt ourselves to teachers. Parents should play a certain role in this.

It is necessary to keep abreast of children's learning status for a period of time. My child's Chinese exam has been below 90 points, and my child's Chinese subject should be his weakness. During that time, I went to the Chinese teacher after the exam.

The Chinese teacher just said: this is not your child's real grade. He didn't just get this grade. She says that every time she goes. Tell your child every time you come back that this is not your real grade.

Therefore, I am not convinced of this score, and the children are not convinced of this score. Our college entrance examination 104. In retrospect, how important this sentence of the teacher is to our "104" today.

Every time I go to the teacher, the child will say that you don't want to go, and there is no resentment if you really go to the child. Every time I went to see the teacher, I didn't let him know. When I come back, I should let him know that I went to see the teacher. I must let him know that he shouldn't know.

To have good communication with children and master their learning state, besides communicating with teachers, the most important thing is to have smooth communication channels with children and keep abreast of their thinking state and learning state. This kind of communication should grasp several principles:

1, you must not take this opportunity as a classroom to educate your children, or you will lose this opportunity forever;

2. Let this opportunity be an opportunity for children to talk or even vent. Children will say what they want to say, life, study, classmates' joys and sorrows. On the one hand, children will speak freely, on the other hand, they will ask for help. You should listen carefully. Some questions can't help, don't forget to judge; ?

3, talk and communication time fixed and random combination.

We have a fixed rest time every Saturday night, which is also the time for us to communicate together. We usually take a bath in a better bath with few people. We will take a long bath and soak in warm water. My father and I will rub each other's backs. The children will tell the nearest class teacher what's interesting in the class, which classmate is doing funny things, what's confusing in learning, and so on. I usually listen quietly, and sometimes I will insert a few words appropriately to stimulate his interest.

I don't know high school courses, especially math and physics, but I know that sometimes we just need to listen quietly. Children are sometimes a kind of catharsis and need an object to vent. In this kind of talk and venting, children often find their own solutions.

Successful parents must play this role well. Never be self-righteous and ask questions as needed. Sometimes I just need to answer him with some very high-sounding words, such as "don't worry", "take your time" and "it's no use worrying"

After taking a shower, on the way back to school, we sometimes sell some delicious food. My son likes to eat stinky tofu, and sometimes he goes to a fast food restaurant to eat a bowl of fried rice with eggs. Take a bath and eat. On the one hand, the children have a rest, on the other hand, we have strengthened communication. These are the programs we perform every Saturday.

Every time after the exam, there will be an analysis meeting, which is mostly arranged at this time. The analysis will be based on the principle that doing well in the exam is good for us, and that there is progress and retrogression. If we do well in the exam, I will say that this is your ability, which can increase our self-confidence and strive for greater progress next time. On the other hand, I would say that every progress is curved. The failure in this exam exposed our problems. We will do well in the exam next time. But we never shy away from the problems in our study and life.

For a while, I didn't get 90 points in Chinese for four times in a row, so I went to see his Chinese teacher several times in a row and found that the effect was not great. I contacted a teacher who took part in marking the college entrance examination last year and showed him the children's Chinese papers. I'm not saying that teachers must be smart. I thought at least he could look at the children's papers from a different angle. At that time, the teacher made it very clear that when your children were doing reading questions, they answered questions like an old woman's foot-binding cloth, which was smelly and long and was reading.

When I go back, I will tell my children that every time I answer such a question, I am always afraid that the answer is not comprehensive and I always want to write more. It is better to write less than to write more in your heart. The crux of the problem seems to have been found and accepted by the children. Our Chinese scores in the college entrance examination are still very satisfactory.