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The true confession of a military wife

Dazhou Net News Center 20 10-3-8 14:54:08 Source: original hits on this site: 2889.

Reporter Zhang Fei's career as a soldier is lofty. Mentioning soldiers reminds people of integrity and courage, and military wives remind people of sacrifice and dedication. Military wife, a glorious title, a symbol of honor! Choosing to be a military wife means choosing hardship, loneliness, dedication and dedication. They wait on their parents-in-law, honor their parents, raise their children and do housework ... In the face of family difficulties, they always bear it alone, always quietly wiping away the sweat and tears on their faces and leaving a smiling face for their families and husbands. They said: if there is an afterlife, I will definitely choose a soldier and be a military wife for life. While warmly celebrating the100th "March 8th" International Women's Day, the reporter went into the military camp to listen to the true confession of an ordinary military wife:

The owner is Jie Zheng, an excellent people's teacher, who has been rated as an "excellent teacher" by Xichang City for many times. In 2005, he won the first prize of "Xichang Second Classroom Style Competition for Primary and Secondary Schools", the first prize of Xichang Theoretical Textbook Competition for Primary and Secondary Schools in 2006 and the first prize of teaching achievement in 2007-2008. She is the wife of Zhao Yazhou, the squadron leader of Xuanhan Squadron of Dazhou Armed Police Detachment, and was rated as one of the top ten "good military wives" by the detachment.

I want to be a military wife.

Becoming a military wife stems from a romantic encounter. 1998 On the occasion of the veterans' retirement, Zhao Yazhou, then the platoon leader of Dazhou detachment of the Armed Police, published an essay "Monitor, Go All the Way" on the radio. It happened that Zheng Jie, who likes literature, was deeply moved by her sincere words. Never listening to the radio, she actually heard and remembered this touching article. It seems that in the dark, the radio waves strung together their constant love ... It was the first time that Zheng Jie knew that there was delicacy under the determined military uniform, and she had a different understanding of the soldiers. However, this relationship is not optimistic because of the space distance, friends questioning and parents opposing. However, Jie Zheng knows very well that he is in Xichang, Zhao Yazhou is in Dazhou and his hometown is in Hubei. Taking the lead is really tiring. In Zheng Jie's words, it was just a simple love story, which made her stick to Zhao Yazhou and love someone for five years. In particular, Asians' love for military uniforms and their rigorous persistence in their work have always infected and moved Zheng Xiao. In 2003, they finally entered the marriage hall hand in hand and became a military wife, realizing their ideals.

Be a happy military wife

The work of a soldier is special. They have been living apart since they married Zhao Yazhou. Zheng Xiao is used to it and can understand her husband's work. One is in Dazhou and the other is far from Xichang. Usually, they have to contact each other by phone in order to bring more happiness to their husbands. Every time she calls, she always laughs, shares happiness, and tries to cope with her troubles by herself, reporting good news instead of bad news. In particular, whenever I see wonderful jokes and hear sweet music, I download them, and when I hear anecdotes, I try my best to convey happiness and beauty to my husband who works in a distant army, so that he can "work happily and live happily" with a good mood. In addition to her husband's happiness, every time Zheng Xiao went to the military camp to visit relatives, he insisted on mending clothes for squadron soldiers, giving full play to his advantages as a teacher, improving the cultural knowledge of officers and men and spreading happiness to squadron soldiers. The officers and men of the squadron affectionately called her "the intimate elder sister". In Xuanhan Squadron of Dazhou Armed Police Detachment, Zheng Xiao always chats with lovely soldiers, leaving a string of laughter. Harvest your own peanuts together and experience the joy of harvest; Sweep the playground together and feel the comfort of playing with water; Welcome the birth of baby Jessie, a police dog, and experience the magic of life: watch Avatar together and feel the visual shock; Let off fireworks together to welcome the new year. Squadron soldiers always kindly say to Zheng Xiao: "Sister-in-law, you have brought us happiness by coming to the squadron!" In fact, while bringing them happiness, Zheng Xiao also gained endless happiness, which can only be realized by being a military wife.

Be a strong military wife

At the end of 2008, Zheng Jie was still immersed in the joy of pregnancy, but a small accident made her unfortunately miscarry. At that time, it coincided with the fact that the veterans of the army were about to retire. She also knew the responsibility and pressure on her husband's shoulders, so Zheng Yi Jr. silently accepted this cruel reality. Physical and psychological pain left her breathless several times. Whenever she heard the tired voice of her husband on the other end of the phone, Zheng Xiao always gritted her teeth and swallowed all the grievances again and again. After her husband sent the veterans away, Zheng Yi came to the army silently, leaned on her husband's shoulder, and said to him with tears on his face, "I'm sorry, I failed to protect our children ..." Captain Zhao, who has always been strong, could no longer control his feelings and shed tears of apology. "Dear wife, a soldier's wife wronged you ..." Although she lost her child temporarily, she was deeply loved by her husband. In May 2009, Zhao Yazhou, as the leader of the first team, suffered from gallstones and postponed the operation for many times. Reducing inflammation by infusion is out of control. Under the repeated urging of the detachment leader, Captain Zhao finally received surgery in the hospital. When Zheng Xiao learned the news, he was very worried. what should he do ？ I am also the head teacher of grade three. I can't lose my job or my husband. So, after adjusting all the courses for a few days to one day, she stood in the crowded hard-seat carriage for one night and arrived at the hospital where her husband had surgery in time. Looking at the doctor pushing her exhausted husband into the operating room, Zheng Xiao was slightly relieved. After the operation, her husband looked at her and smiled foolishly. At this time, she felt happy and sweet, and all the hardships and grievances were worth it.

Be a gentle and filial military wife

It is the unshirkable responsibility of the military wife to be filial to her parents and in-laws and repay the kindness of raising for the military wife who left home. Zheng Xiao said so and did the same. As a team leader, Zhao Yazhou has a busy job, arduous tasks and great responsibilities. He usually cares about dozens of soldiers in the squadron, so he feels guilty for not being able to take care of his elderly and frail parents for a long time. Zheng Xiao knows his mind, so he calls his parents-in-law whenever he has time, chats with them, makes them happy, relieves the loneliness of the old people, and sends them a message on time during the Chinese New Year holiday. Especially on June 5438+065438+ 10, 2009, my father was unfortunately diagnosed with advanced gastric cancer, which caused the whole family to fall into pain and despair. This time happens to be the time when the veterans of the army retired. The management task of the squadron is heavy, and the pressure on my husband must be great. In order not to distract her husband, Zheng Xiao insisted on calling her haggard mother-in-law every day to comfort and encourage her, asking for treatment everywhere, searching for relevant information on the Internet all night, taking a round-trip train for more than 20 hours at weekends to get medicine for her father, and then sending the medicine to her hometown Yichang, Hubei ... With the efforts of her family, her father's condition finally stabilized. At this time, Zheng Xiao also felt some relief and sureness.

Zheng Jie said that she is just the most common one among the 10,000 military wives in Qian Qian. How much loneliness condenses into a firm belief, and how much praise turns into comfort and sweetness, supporting the clear sky in the hearts of soldiers. The glittering military medal hangs on the soldier's chest but soothes the military wife's heart. If someone asks me, who is the most beautiful woman in modern times? I will not hesitate to answer: military wife!