What if my wife finds out that I have hidden a small vault?

1. If your wife finds that the other person's private money is only a small sum, then you can completely ignore it, because it shows that your other half does not intend to save such a small sum of private money, but just wants to have more discretionary funds. Probably to give you a surprise. Even if not, it doesn't matter as his daily expenses. Men should not be too strict sometimes. Proper relaxation will not affect the family's economic planning, but also allow the other half to enjoy a little economic freedom and make him feel happy. Why not?

2. Be open and honest.

If you find that the other person's private money is not a small amount, you should pay attention, which shows that your other half is hiding something from you or doesn't trust you in terms of economic income. In this case, you must control your emotions, and you need to master the way to make your other half honestly explain the source and use of this private money, instead of blaming him awkwardly as soon as your other half comes home. This will not only cause a quarrel between husband and wife, but also make him more alert to you in the future. It is suggested that the matter of private money be raised when both parties are in a good mood. For example, you can play dumb and inexplicably tell your other half that there is an extra sum of money at home, which makes you feel very uneasy. I believe that at this time, your other half will definitely not play dumb, but will feel guilty and confess frankly.