I advise you to be a "cheeky" person.

As the saying goes: thick-skinned, eat a piece of meat, thin-skinned, can not eat.

People must not be too thin-skinned, otherwise they are embarrassed to do anything, such as getting lost and asking for directions.

People with thin skin will be sad for several days and depressed for a long time when others say something about you and criticize you.

Heard such a story:

A doctor was assigned to work in a research institute. Here, his education is the highest, so he never pays attention to those two directors who only have undergraduate education.

Once, he went fishing in the small pond behind the unit. The director and the deputy director were fishing there, just one on his left and the other on his right.

After a while, he saw the director put down his fishing rod and swished across the water to go to the toilet.

What the hell? Can you float on the water? Could it be flying skill?

As a doctor, he felt incredible, but because of face, he didn't have the courage to ask more questions.

After a while, he saw the deputy director get up, stretched his legs and feet, and then quickly drifted from the water to the opposite toilet.

He stunned his chin and thought he had come to a place where he was a master like a cloud.

After a while, the doctoral student was anxious, so he looked around and found that there were two walls in the pond. It is estimated that it will take a long time to go to the toilet opposite. He couldn't hold back, and he was too embarrassed to ask the two directors. Under reasonable circumstances, he also ran into the water in the direction of the toilet.

The doctor plopped into the water.

The two directors quickly pulled him up and asked him why he was diving.

He asked, "How can you all walk there?"

The two directors smiled at each other and said, "There are two rows of stakes in this pond. Because it rained these two days, it was flooded, but we all know the location of the stake. Sure, we can walk on it. Why don't you ask? "

This will make him feel ashamed.

This doctoral student can ask how the other party passed, but because of face, he was embarrassed to ask, which led to such an oolong incident. It's really ridiculous.

Many times, we need to be thicker and thicker. When you encounter problems, you should have the mentality of "not ashamed to ask questions", and don't be embarrassed to ask others, so it is easier to get twice the result with half the effort.

Not only that, thick skin can also cure blx.

And having blx is a particularly bad thing. You will find that people with blx are prone to lose their temper when they encounter something unsatisfactory, and then start complaining, torturing themselves and others around them, and are always pessimistic in the face of setbacks.

So we might as well be a little bolder and thicker-skinned.

It doesn't matter if you fail to do something. Pat the dust on your body and tell yourself not to be ashamed. Keep going.

Listen to what someone says if it makes sense. If it doesn't make sense, it doesn't matter. If you say anything, I am very satisfied with mine. I like what you say, but I don't like it. I'll go in one ear and out the other. I should eat and drink.

When you encounter a problem, if you can't solve it yourself, ask others for advice and help, and tell yourself that it's nothing to be ashamed of. Who hasn't met with difficulties yet?

As long as the skin is thick enough, life can be carefree.