How to correctly understand self-concept composition

Since ancient times, no one is perfect. Only by learning to look at yourself comprehensively can we make progress and improve.

We believe that we can't just focus on our own advantages and deliberately hide our mistakes, so we will be complacent and self-righteous and naturally will not make progress. Just like some students think they are the best after seeing their own advantages and some achievements, they don't accept others' suggestions and opinions with an open mind, and they won't remind you if they don't correct them several times. You will stay on what you have achieved, make no progress, and finally fall behind others like a "tortoise and rabbit race". So I think: we should pay more attention to our own shortcomings and mistakes, accept others' suggestions and opinions with an open mind, and correct them in time. Only in this way can we make rapid progress.

We must be careful when looking for our own problems and mistakes. Because both problems and mistakes appear unconsciously, we must find the root of the problem. Of course, we should not just find problems and mistakes without dealing with them, but "find them early and treat them early" It is necessary to come up with countermeasures that can play a fundamental role in prevention and control in time and stick to your own measures for a long time in order to successfully and accurately diagnose and treat problems and mistakes.

Dealing with problems and mistakes with the right medicine will inevitably encounter some difficulties. When you encounter difficulties, you should take the initiative to ask others, that is, people often say "don't be ashamed to ask." Some students will be embarrassed to ask others and hide their questions in their hearts. With the accumulation of problems, their interest in learning will be less and less, which will eventually lead to a decline in their grades. Therefore, we should hold an open mind and sincerely ask each other for learning methods, learning skills and other experiences.

When parents teach you knowledge, learning methods and the truth of being a man, we should also listen patiently. We should not be satisfied with what we seem to understand, but should "get to the bottom of it" and "know what we know, don't know what we don't know, and know what we are". I think as long as we look at ourselves comprehensively and thoroughly through the above methods and seriously correct our shortcomings and deficiencies, we will make progress and progress.

In short, only when people realize their own problems and mistakes, look at themselves in an all-round way and accept others' opinions with an open mind can they become real "people" and pillars of society when they grow up!

The power of time has penetrated the towering stone tablet next to Master Hongyi's bone tower, which is shaded by trees. The four dazzling red characters of "Sorrow and Sorrow" stand still in the bleak pine sound. What does it tell people year after year? I have no ability to reveal any light feather of this mysterious inner track, and maybe neither can you-but I remember that year, the master meditated in the study and a woman came with her friends-that was known before the master debuted, and maybe we haven't seen each other for more than ten years. When the disciples at Manshanmen were expecting a family performance, the master insisted on ordering her to be driven away. This move once attracted the sigh of the world, and only the master himself.

The realm of life is made up of one's own consciousness, and the flashy world seems to be more and more blurred. Too many outsiders are looking forward to it, and everyone has waited. Too many people's expectations have enriched our lives and left our ideal world blank. This blank is too wide and too big, like a bird flying over Wang Yang, which makes people hesitate. In the dead of night, imagine clearly what your childhood dreams and dreams are and where they are in your present life.

There is still room for one person, and we can't help but find that the self-consciousness of the ancients is quite clear. Too many scholars and poets seem to care little about other things besides writing and painting. Li He said: "I was born at the age of twenty. When I was frustrated, my heart was full of sadness and gratitude." Only twenty years old, his mind is in tatters. At his age, it is the age when others are eager for promotion and promotion, and it is the age when others expect to be an official. However, he doesn't care about these leisure time. Later generations opened the product of his spiritual world and found it was sad and magical-such a magical spiritual fruit was not covered.

Following the expectations of others can make you famous and strive for the prosperity of the material world. In fact, this has become a trend. Like the ancients, self-entertainment has long since disappeared in this society where the spiritual world is disappearing. But only when there is no utility, quiet inside, and no obstacles, Sima Qian is completely useless in others' eyes. Socrates drags his fat body around every day, and Beethoven is deaf in others' eyes, but they all exceed others' expectations and become great men. We can't help but reflect on their self-awareness of life. All people with great spirit have a self-awareness heart, and a strong spiritual consciousness can help them get rid of external interference. In their minds, the direction they choose is a shortcut to the spiritual hall. No matter what the world is like, they will never give up the path they have chosen. "It's hard, it's hard, it's perfect." They shine in the paradox of others' expectations.

Some people spend their whole lives looking for successful people expected by others.

Students, businessmen, politicians, only those who have the heart will trace back to the source and salvage successful fish from their spiritual homes. In the end, he will pull his successful life longer and longer like a fisherman pulling kelp, and finally pull down the whole sea.

Copernicus used the test of fire to let mankind know the mistake that "the sky is round and the earth is round"; Fabres devoted his life to understanding the exquisiteness of the insect world. Tolstoy used the simplicity of the tomb to let people chasing in the materialistic world know the true meaning of life; Gandhi made the world realize the importance of peace and independence with his unremitting struggle all his life. The people of China realized the correctness of socialism in China with the blood of several generations.

The process of cognition is long, but the result of cognition is beautiful. However, the most difficult thing to understand is the understanding of self.

People, whether noble, obscene, excellent, despicable, clever or dull, often lose themselves in the rush of people. Under the ideology of no time for self-reflection, people often feel good about themselves. Who knows, when you feel the sky is gray, the most important thing is to wipe your eyes that are not very clear.

People who are good at self-knowledge abound. The great Lu Xun has always been self-disciplined. He loves and supports young people and even jokes about mending their boots. But when he found that "there are worms among young people", he did not go his own way because he wanted to save face, but reflected on himself in time and dissected himself, which was more respected by future generations. Shi Tiesheng, a great contemporary writer, correctly recognized his own defects and values in the struggle against stubborn diseases, and was able to treat the ups and downs in life with a peaceful attitude. He wrote: "I often think that ugly women make beautiful women." I often think that cowards set off heroes. I often think that fools lead to wisdom. I often think that all beings have become Buddhas. " "

Great men are often wise men. They not only discovered the truth for us, but also set an example for us to dare to face ourselves. For ordinary people, knowing yourself is not that simple. "9? After the "1 1 incident", some American governments and schools began to sing the national anthem and swear every day to arouse people's national consciousness. However, some Americans who can really reflect on themselves realize that this practice shows that the American government is keen on war, not peace, and that the American government is wholeheartedly fighting terrorism, but it has not been able to calm down and think about whether some problems in the United States have caused this situation.

The best quality of a person is that he can know himself and correct his mistakes. Only in this way can human beings discover the beauty of life and the advantages of others.

What should we do first to know ourselves? Believe in yourself, of course. I think everyone knows this truth, but what do you believe in yourself?

Believe in yourself, that is, believe in your own ability and potential, believe in your own correctness and strength, and believe that you will succeed through hard work. Self-confidence without inferiority is the first step to know yourself.

But confidence is by no means arrogance. Arrogant people can't see their own shortcomings, nor can they see the advantages of others. So, how to be a confident person?

Confident people should treat others and themselves correctly. They should not only inspire self-confidence with their own strengths, but also warn themselves not to be proud with their own shortcomings. They should learn from others' strengths and make up for their own shortcomings.

It is said that people should be confident, self-respecting, self-reliant, not inferior, and not give up on themselves. The other, people also; Here, people also. He can, but I can't.

Life is an art in a broad sense, and everyone's life history is his own work. Whatever the material is, whatever it is used for. If it is a radish, try to make a radish with more water and crispy meat; If it's Chinese cabbage, try to be a good Chinese cabbage.

Remember, you are not confident because of difficulties, but because you are not confident.

In fact, each of us should have such self-confidence: I will be able to shoulder the responsibilities that people can bear; I can take on responsibilities that others cannot.