The jokes between these four lovers must never be played.

Couples are very close partnerships. This relationship sometimes even goes beyond parents and relatives to the point of talking about everything.

But any relationship needs some consideration. Even if the relationship is close, it is better to know yourself. It is difficult for us to guarantee that everything we say will have no other meaning in each other's ears.

But there are always some people who are willing to test the water, regard this closest relationship as an outspoken reliance, and even make jokes about each other's feelings many times. But feelings are limited, and every time you joke too much, you will slowly consume them. If the feelings are gone, there is no need to go on.

I believe this is not the clown's intention, but I don't know that I have touched each other's minefield many times. In order to manage love better, I list the following four jokes that couples must never make. I hope it is good for you.

First, don't make a fake proposal to your girlfriend.

Women always attach great importance to marriage. The same is true for the boyfriend's proposal. I saw some people joking about it on the Internet. The man pretended to kneel to propose marriage. Just as the woman was about to say yes, the man stood up and told her it was a joke. The woman was sad and angry, slapped the man and then turned away.

Men don't understand, it's just a joke. I've made so many jokes before, but I haven't reacted so much. He didn't know that he had stepped on a woman's pulse. Marriage is the happiness of a woman's life. Take a woman's happiness as a joke, which woman is not angry?

Second, don't give your boyfriend a fake green hat.

Men value face very much and have a strong desire for control. They regard conquering their women as a great honor. On the contrary, if a woman cuckolds herself, it will also be regarded as a great shame.

But there are also some women who don't understand, and often praise other opposite sex in chat and don't like their boyfriends. Maybe a woman will say, I'm kidding and make him jealous. Besides, it's not a green hat.

As everyone knows, such jokes are at the expense of men's dignity. No man wants to be compared after condescending to others. He will feel more inferior because of you, and he will have the illusion of being cuckolded.

I remember a reader once confided to me that his girlfriend always praised how good her heterosexual friends were, and occasionally joked that if only I married him. Every time the reader listens to it, he feels uncomfortable inside.

In fact, this kind of joke should be taboo for both men and women. Moreover, even friends of the opposite sex who have a good relationship should consciously keep their distance after having a lover, which is a respect for each other's feelings.

Third, don't test your love.

There are always some people who are insecure about their feelings and will be inexplicably worried that the other party will not be able to resist the temptation from the opposite sex. In order to verify whether your lover is sincere, they will try their best to test each other.

After watching a program that played tricks on passers-by, one party wanted to test his lover. The program group arranged for handsome men and beautiful women to take the initiative to talk to the "victims" and seduce each other through various means.

There are only two kinds of results, one is that the liar can't stand the temptation, and the other is that the liar sternly refuses.

In any case, their feelings have been damaged to varying degrees. In the former, both men and women had a big fight and broke up in discord. In the latter case, the deceived person is teased by himself, and the other party does not believe in his sincerity and will make some small emotions. Although we don't break up, there have been cracks in our feelings.

So, when you start to test your love, love will also test you.

Fourth, don't touch each other's weakness.

Everyone has his own weakness, which is also the source of his inferiority complex. These weaknesses are with them all their lives and can hardly be changed.

If you choose to be with him, please accept the weakness that the other person cannot change.

If the other person is overweight, don't talk about her weight when you know she cares about it.

If the other person is short, don't talk about his height when you know that he intends to avoid it.

You have to understand that the shortcomings of the other half should not be the talk you make fun of, but the flowers you hold in your hand to care for.

The four points listed today are all personal jokes that couples should never play. As the saying goes, you can't eat vegetables or make jokes. If you mess around, don't blame the other person for thinking too much.