Do some people look down on others because they are excellent?

Many times, people who look down on others don't look down on others because of how good they are, but because their mentality is bad and distorted. A person who looks down on you often has these performances:

First, I like to say sarcastic things.

Some people prefer chatting. When they see you doing a job, they don't like it in their hearts, so they will sneer at you, but if they are really asked to do the same thing, they will show disdain.

But if you tell him if you despise him, he will deny it, and at the same time, he will take this opportunity to satirize your lack of jokes.

In fact, it's not that we don't know humor and can't joke. It's just that joking like this is a personal attack for most people.

So, in the face of this type of people, don't try to change their inherent impression of you. Their subjective ideas are often paranoid, and no matter how hard you try to prove yourself, you can't get their approval.

Second, I like to speak ill of you behind your back

A person likes to speak ill of you behind your back. He has two ideas in his mind. One is that you are good enough to make him jealous of you, so he wants to discredit you.

The second is that he looks down on you in his heart and thinks that some of your practices are very low-level behaviors in his view, so he will spit out his views on you to others.

For the first idea, you don't need to pay attention to it. It is because he is not good enough and narrow-minded, so he will have such evil behavior. This is the embodiment of his small pattern, and your "don't argue with fools" is the embodiment of your big pattern.

For the second idea, if you really have disgusting behavior, it is your own reason, and you can use it as a mirror to judge yourself. If he charges for no reason, you don't have to pay attention to it.

Third, I like to show his superiority in front of you.

A truly excellent person is one who knows how to laugh at himself. They won't show their superiority in front of others, because they don't need him to spread it, and their power is already there.

And some people get some achievements and start to swell up, showing that they get along well with you, but they feel that you are not as good as him in words and deeds, so as to show their superiority.

I don't know, sometimes it's too cold at the top, and the temporary expansion pushes me to the top. If I fall, I may lose my reputation.

Life is not a label that can define a person, it is ups and downs, and it is precisely because of its uncertainty that we should strictly abide by our words and deeds and not look down on others.

At the same time, when you meet someone who looks down on yourself, don't be angry with him for this. Do your duty well and put up with him for a while until you can see him a few years later!