How to honor parents

Question 1: What can I do to honor my parents? Filial piety to parents can't stay in words, but should be reflected in every little thing in life. Filial piety should start with small things, correctly distinguish the specific requirements of filial piety on different occasions, and do it according to these requirements. Filial piety is manifested in all aspects. Love parents, heart? Miss parents, understand and care about parents; Help parents in action and share their worries; Study hard, make positive progress, and make parents happy ... these are all manifestations of filial piety. Affection is a comprehensive expression of a person's kindness, love and conscience: it is the duty of being a human being, an innate virtue and a prerequisite for the formation of various virtues, so it has always been praised by people. Imagine, if a person can't even honor his parents and repay his upbringing, who will believe that he is a person? Who wants to deal with him? There is a saying in the new three-character sutra: Be warm, be fragrant, love your parents, and be meaningful. Among them, Xiao was a dutiful son of Hubei Province in Han Dynasty, who honored his elders and left his name forever. At the age of nine, he unfortunately lost his mother and knew how to respect his father from an early age. Whenever it is hot in summer, he fans his father's sleeping pillow to drive away mosquitoes and close the curtains to make his father sleep comfortably. In the cold winter, the mattress was as cold as iron, so he slept on his father's mattress first, warmed the quilt with his own body temperature, and then let his father sleep in a warm bed. Huang Xiang Jr. is not only famous for his filial piety, but also diligent and knowledgeable. At that time, she was praised by a Chinese Odyssey and Jiangxia Huang Tong. In a person's life, parents' care and love are the most sincere and selfless, and the kindness raised by parents is endless: sucking the mother's milk and leaving the baby; Take the heart of parents and take the first step in life; Sleep in sweet children's songs and grow up in meticulous care; How many sleepless nights have parents endured because of disasters and diseases; How much effort do parents have to make in order to study and raise tuition fees? How hard it is for parents to get married. It can be said that parents have been raising children all their lives. This kindness is higher than the sky and thicker than the earth, and it is the greatest force in the world. If human beings should have love, then they should love their parents first, and then they can talk about loving others, the collective, the society and the motherland ..... To be filial to their parents, they should not only bear the obligation to support their parents, but also try their best to meet their spiritual and emotional needs. Especially for elderly parents, we should take care of them carefully and comfort them patiently. In other words, most of the old people in the city are full of children and grandchildren, and there is no shortage of food, clothing and money in life. However, children are hardly around because of work, and I am afraid they rarely meet each other at ordinary times. Therefore, what they want most emotionally is to reunite with all their relatives. There is not a song that says that you should always go home to see it. Even if you help your mother to rub her back and shoulders, the old people don't ask their children to make much contribution to the family, but only seek peace and dreams! So wherever we go in the future, we must remember our parents. We should pay more attention to them when we are around them now. Those who grow up in ordinary families should pay attention to their parents; If your parents are still alive, whether you live with them or not; If one day, you find that your mother's kitchen is no longer as clean as before; If one day, you find that the dishes at home don't seem to be cleaned; If one day, you find that your mother's pot is no longer on; If one day, you find that your father's flowers and trees are gradually abandoned; If one day, you find that the dishes cooked by your mother are too salty and not delicious; If one day, you find that your parents often forget to turn off the gas; If one day, You find that some habits of your parents are no longer habits of ............................................................................................................................................................. If one day, you find that your parents no longer like to eat crispy fruits and vegetables; If one day, you find that your parents love to eat rotten vegetables; If one day, you find that your parents like to eat porridge; If one day, you find that their reaction to crossing the road is slow; If one day, you find that they always cough when eating, don't mistake it for a cold or a cold (that is the phenomenon of swallowing nerve aging); If one day, you find that they no longer love to go out ...; If one day, I want to tell you, you should be alert, your parents are really old, and the organs have degenerated to the point where they need to be taken care of. If you can't take care of them, please find someone to take care of them and visit them often, so as not to make them feel abandoned. Everyone will be old, and our parents are older than us. We should use roles ... >>

Question 2: How to honor parents? 1

Always be grateful to your parents.

It is wrong to have no parents. We must be grateful to our parents and respect them. This is not what parents say with their eyes closed. No matter what and how wrong they are, there are no wrong parents. Many parents who are not, we still have to respect them; Not to respect and agree with their mistakes, but to respect him as a person. We can disagree with his mistakes, and we can talk to them about his mistakes to solve the problem. But we should respect his attitude. Without them, there would be no you. Always look at them with grateful eyes.

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Treat parents with care.

When it comes to filial piety, basically, the most important thing is not what you have done for your parents, but what is your relationship with your parents? Although many people have done a lot for their parents, their relationship with their parents is not good. Someone said, "Why am I not filial? I send him money every month, I am not filial? " I have a friend who goes to see his parents every Sunday and invites them to dinner. In today's Shenzhen, this is very rare, where is the average person can do it! A son who can do this already wants to give him a thumbs up. However, once at a dinner like theirs, I happened to be eating in that restaurant, so I went over and said hello. I have a deep feeling that what he did was right, but he didn't do it with his heart. Why? Because I saw his attitude towards his parents, he was just doing what he should do in business, and he didn't use this time to establish a close relationship with his parents at all-no intimate conversation, no relaxed atmosphere, no warmth of family gathering, which gave people an obvious feeling: Well, I did what I should do, and then we went our separate ways. See you next week.

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You will be the leading role.

Many people can't honor their parents because they are not independent. Each of us needs to leave our parents. Leaving your parents doesn't mean ignoring your parents, declaring independence and never listening to your parents again. Leaving parents, the most important concept is to live independently, be responsible for everything and be a mature person.

Many people get married and have children, but they never leave their parents. Why? Because he is not independent, economically independent, emotionally independent, and many things are not independent; As soon as he saw his mother, he became a three-year-old child. I am a parent myself, but I still can't be independent. How can you honor your parents without independence? It's hard! He thinks that many things are natural, and that my parents still have to take care of me even if they are 70 or 80 years old, because they have taken care of me since childhood.

If you don't know that you have grown up, you are an independent person, and it is difficult for you to honor your parents. It's hard for you to think that it's my turn now, so this is also a very important reason that often prevents us from honoring our parents.

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Parents are old.

Parents are no longer superman. I am getting old. Many people can't honor their parents because they have unrealistic expectations of their parents. When we were young, we all thought our parents were superman. When children quarrel, they often say, "My father is better than your father." But when we grow up, we will know that parents are not superhuman, and parents are very limited people. And if we still have a superhuman expectation, we will often have a lot of great dissatisfaction with our parents. No matter how much progress our parents have made, we feel that it is not enough.

I know some people who are cruel to their parents. I said, "How can you treat your parents like this?" He said to me, "Oh, you don't know!" He began to speak ill of his parents. There is something in what he said. However, many times, I found that he was too demanding of his parents, and it was impossible for them to meet his requirements. You know, parents are human. His energy is limited, his time is limited, his money is limited, and everything he has is limited. How can he satisfy you infinitely? However, there are also many children who are very angry because their parents have not satisfied him. From the beginning of "anger", the relationship with parents is not good, and it is getting worse. So we should know that our expectations of our parents are reasonable and unreasonable.

Nowadays, many people spend a lot of money for themselves every week, such as eating well, dressing well, going to the movies and shopping ... people in rural areas can live for a month by buying a pair of sneakers casually.

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Question 3: How do young people today show filial piety to their parents is gratitude. Gratitude is a kind of strength, gratitude is a kind of responsibility and gratitude is an obligation! "The Book of Songs" and "Er Ya Zhong" say: "Parents are filial when they do good deeds". Mencius also said: "To be a dutiful son, the biggest thing is to respect your loved ones". In other words, to support and serve parents wholeheartedly, respect and care for the "shun" of the elderly means to obey and act according to the wishes of the elderly, mainly in the way of providing for the elderly, living habits and hobbies. It can also be said that "Shun" is the concrete embodiment of "filial piety". Children are born and raised by parents. Feed them from birth, nurse them, wash them, and take care of them when they are sick. If it is an incurable disease, they are willing to give their lives for their own safety; A little longer, teach basic life skills, provide reading, care about its growth and never stop. Parents' love for their children is lifelong, which can be described as: family affection is priceless and deep. Children are always in debt in front of their parents. Filial piety of children to their parents is a basic morality and the foundation of social morality. Filial piety is human nature. The true meaning of filial piety is: "report its source, respect its life and seek its development." Parents should do: "respect and care, obey their wishes, eat and live without loss, keep their clothes clean and warm, and see a doctor if they are sick." Let parents "live with self-esteem", "live healthily", "live happily" and "live profitably". "Gold is not enough, and no one is perfect". Parents' faults should be gently persuaded, patiently and gently pointed out, and parents should never be rudely reprimanded and accused, let alone maliciously ridiculed.

Question 4: How to honor parents (junior high school politics)? Honor your parents, not just verbally ... honor your parents, but start with small things.

Thinking about parents, understanding and caring about parents; Help parents in action and share their worries; Study hard, be positive and make parents happy.

Filial piety needs to be paid. We may spend time, emotion, physical strength, and even wronged ourselves ... but filial piety is sweet.

Our filial piety to our parents is not a foolish filial piety in ancient times, nor is it ... a reward for our parents' hard work and upbringing.

We should not only honor our parents, but also honor our elders.

Question 5: How to be filial to parents? First of all, we should remember the kindness of parents:

We know that parents, whether they are rich or poor, whether they are smart or stupid, whether they are successful in official career or down and out all their lives, have the same hardships in raising their children and spent their precious energy all their lives. From the conception of 10 to the birth of the baby, all of them worked hard to raise their children and were overworked. In order to bring up their children, parents have never complained about suffering. Children's food, clothing, housing and transportation will always be a matter of concern to parents. Some of our little brothers and sisters are already parents, and you will deeply understand the difficulty of raising children! So it is difficult to express the kindness of parents in words.

Our life is given to us by God through our parents, so we should remember the fertility of our parents. Tim 5: 4 says, "If a widow has children or grandchildren, she should first honor her parents and repay her kindness in her own house, because this is pleasing to God."

However, in the process of growing up, many children in the world often forget their parents' nurturing grace, ignore their family ties and adopt an attitude of beating, scolding and abandoning their parents, which seriously corrupts the social atmosphere and defiles the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation.

Exodus 2 of the Old Testament, 17: "Anyone who curses his parents will be put to death". In the New Testament era, Paul also said in Romans 1, 30-3 1 that "they don't listen to their parents, are ignorant, break their promises, and have no feelings for others." Paul not only teaches his husband and wife how to take pictures, but also exhorts children how to treat their parents, which is also a great challenge facing our church today.

Therefore, when we honor our parents, we should first remember the parents' nurturing grace, let the Lord's grace inspire us constantly, let us respond to their love again, thus creating a feeling of respect for the elderly and comforting and satisfying our parents who have raised us so much all our lives.

Second, listen to and obey parents:

Nowadays, most young people advocate "personality publicity", and it is difficult for them to "obey" or "obey" their parents. This has been a problem since God created man. When God gave human beings free will, people chose to "disobey" God's words, and the actions of ancestors Adam and Eve plunged the whole world into sin. From that day on, this behavior affected everyone. It is not surprising that "disobedience" has become a serious problem after human beings rebelled against God and fell.

Now some children don't listen to their parents' advice, gambling, drinking, puppy love, stealing, playing truant … doing nothing all day and disobeying their parents' discipline. It is the most pitiful and sad thing for parents to encounter this situation.

When teaching children to treat their parents, God said, "Those who laugh at their father and despise their mother will have their eyes pecked out by crows in the valley and eaten by young eagles" (Proverbs 30: 17). These words warn us that disobedience and filial piety are abhorrent to God and unacceptable to heaven and earth. God's words are really scary. Indeed, we should fear God and listen to his teaching. Ephesians 6:/kloc-0: "Children, it is natural that you should obey your parents in the Lord." The apostle Paul said more clearly in Colossians 3: 20: "Children, you should obey your parents in all things, because this is pleasing to the Lord." He also said: because you are Christians now and have new wisdom in Christ, don't be ignorant and no longer cut off from the life given by God, so "you must get rid of your old behavior, which is gradually getting worse because of the confusion of selfish desires." Change your mind and put on a new man, who is made in the image of God, with truth, justice and holiness. "(Ephesians 4: 22 ~ 23) later made it clear:" All bitterness, indignation, anger, uproar, slander and all malice should be removed from among you, be kind to one another, be compassionate and forgive one another, just as God forgave you in Christ. " (Ephesians 4: 3 1 ~ 32).

In short, children should obey their parents because of our position in Christ. We are people in the Lord, and our lives are no longer served by ourselves, but bought with the precious blood of the Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, we should glorify God. To listen to your parents in the Lord is to listen to your parents in truth. True filial piety also includes admonition. The Bible says, "Don't punish an old man severely, just persuade him to be like his father." (5: 1 in advance). "Don't be demanding" means asking people to have love and respect when persuading.

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Question 6: How do all virtues honor parents first? The most important thing is to respect parents, but respect is not blind obedience. If those parents' behavior is wrong, we can also point it out.

Filial sons and grandchildren are virtuous children who are filial to their parents.

Filial piety is a traditional virtue of China. As the saying goes, "Filial piety is the first virtue". Our bodies are grown and developed by our parents, who give us opportunities to come into this world and nurture us to grow up. What we should repay most in this world is our parents.

Young people are not filial to their parents, probably because of adolescent rebellious psychology. At this time, young people often show impatience with their parents. Lose your temper with your parents.

The other is that after some people get married, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and the man is afraid of his wife, so it is also unfilial to run away from home.

Question 7: Honor your parents. How to write 20 points to honor parents?

Life in this world and growth in this world all originate from parents. It is our parents who give us life and nurture us to grow up. We should repay our parents' kindness all our lives.

As the old saying goes, "All virtues and filial piety come first." It means that filial piety to parents is the most important and the first virtue among all kinds of beautiful virtues of human beings. This is a natural thing for children. Our Chinese nation has had this fine tradition of respecting the elderly for thousands of years. In ancient times, the story of burying a child as a mother and abandoning an official to find a mother was enough to make people cry. Today, the story of donating a kidney to save a mother and dropping out of school as a mother is even more touching. Different times have the same theme, that is, filial piety and rewarding parents.

In fact, today, we don't need to do anything earth-shattering to honor our parents and repay them, as mentioned above. As long as we pay more attention to the little things around us and start from bit by bit, we can fully fulfill our filial piety to our parents.

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I am very filial to my parents. At home, I insist on helping my parents do housework once a day and greeting them. During the holidays, I will have a heart-to-heart talk with my parents and rub their backs and wash their feet. Because of my mother's work, I don't have much time with her. But when my parents celebrate their birthdays, I will carefully prepare a gift for them to make them happy. In order to realize parents' expectations, we should study hard at school. When my parents are busy at work, I cook and do some housework by myself to lighten their burden. When my parents are sick, I will care about their health, send them water and medicine, and be caring and attentive, just as they care about me. When I quarrel with my parents, I will make some necessary concessions. When I do something wrong or have a conflict with my parents, I will take the initiative to admit my mistake and apologize to my parents. I often tell my parents a joke and tell them about my school, so that they can rest assured of my study.

Our parents broke their hearts and gave us a lot. They are tired and need a chair to sit on; They are thirsty and need a cup of green tea to quench their thirst; Their hearts are tired and they need a sincere heart of gratitude to comfort them. We should never take everything our parents do for granted; We shouldn't turn a blind eye, be indifferent or even angry about our parents' hard work and infinite care. Because I understand my parents' needs, I want to act now, move my hands, move a chair for my parents to rest, and pour a glass of water for my parents to drink; Move your mouth and say a sincere and warm word to your parents to relieve their fatigue and dispel their heart disease. Filial piety is that simple. Such an easy thing will definitely make my parents happy, happy and happy. What have I done?

Affection is a comprehensive expression of a person's kindness, love and conscience; Filial piety to parents and respect for elders is the duty of being a human being, a natural virtue and a prerequisite for the formation of various moral qualities, so it has always been praised by people. Imagine, if a person can't even honor his parents and repay his upbringing, who will believe that he is a person? Who wants to deal with him? Therefore, we should honor our parents and repay them with excellent grades and healthy growth.

Gratitude is meaningful. Love makes the world go round. Parents' efforts are far higher than mountains and deeper than the sea, but as us, we only know how to ask for food and clothes. Let's become selfish and forget our parents' efforts. Learning to appreciate others is a kind of conscience and filial piety, because only in this way can there be harmony, happiness and mutual respect. With a grateful heart, look at the society, parents and relatives, and you will find how happy you are. Let go of your mind and let the drizzle wash away the pollution in your heart. Learn to be grateful, because it will make the world better and life more fulfilling.

Question 8: How should students honor their parents? 1. Listen to your parents' instruction and live up to their expectations.

Second, help parents share the housework within their power; Parents sometimes feel unwell, so children should take care of them wholeheartedly.

Third, develop good living habits, pay attention to daily diet and keep healthy.

Fourth, develop good study habits, study hard and work hard.

Let parents know their activities at any time. You must explain to your parents when you are away. Be honest, put an end to lying, and don't do anything against discipline outside.

6. Go out and say goodbye to your parents. Say hello to your parents when you go home. When you eat, please let your parents sit down first and provide them with good food.

Seven, primary school students should not only honor their parents, but also honor their grandparents. When you come home from school, you should go to your grandparents' room to meet them, help them do some small things like lighting cigarettes and handing tea, and tell them what they have seen and heard on campus. When eating, they should be helped to sit down first, and bowls and chopsticks should be respectfully handed.

Question 9: How should we honor our parents? How should we be kind to our parents? Send my previous answer here.

Filial piety is not easy to do.

1. Don't add economic burden to them. Ask them voluntarily. Parents are unlikely to talk to their children with money. You should take the initiative to ask.

Old people tend to be lonely after their children get married, so they should take more time to see them and accompany them. When you get home, don't let the old man worry about cooking. You'd better buy food. If you want old people to cook and buy food, don't go. If it's really far away, you must call regularly, for example, for three or five days, and settle down. Don't say you don't have time. No time to call, parents are not important in your heart.

In case of emergency, just follow them, even if their demands are unreasonable, temporarily agree, and then find a suitable opportunity to solve or make it clear, don't force it, otherwise it is easy to have an accident.

4. Don't tell your parents easily when you encounter unpleasant or difficult things, they will be very anxious and can't eat or sleep well. There is no other way. . . Unless they can help you.

Treat both parents equally, there is no obvious difference.

Be filial in time, don't think about it, the old man is gone. No place to cry. 、

7,。 Honor parents all over the world.

8. Do your filial piety and don't force others. If you have brothers and sisters, you can only remind them, not force them.

9. Father, you can gently remind you of what you did wrong, but you have no right to blame your parents. You do your best. They did their parents' best

10. If you have children, you must cultivate their filial piety and don't treat them as parents, which will bring disaster. You are filial to your parents, and your children will be filial to you, because they are watching. If you are unfilial, it is unreasonable to expect your children to be filial.

Be filial, and you won't have too many regrets when your parents are gone. .

Said a lot. I hope it helps you. I believe you will do well.

To our parents and all the parents in the world. . .

Question 10: As children, how should we honor our parents? All virtues put filial piety first, and filial piety is the best reward for parents. Listen to your parents, not only to meet their material needs, but also to meet their spiritual needs. After studying and working, I often go home to have a look, spend time with my parents and let them enjoy their family.