How to chat between middle-aged men and women may ruin your life?

Middle-aged men are always referred to as greasy uncles. Perhaps he has not reached the point where he is unshaven and has a big belly, but when he talks, he always makes people feel nauseous.

So, sometimes the fatness of middle-aged men really goes deep into the bone marrow. In fact, the greasiness of middle-aged men sometimes not only makes others feel uncomfortable, but also harms themselves.

Especially when chatting, it can best reveal whether a man is cultured or greasy.

If they always chat with women in the following way, their lives are doomed to be no better.

There is no taboo about the topic of chatting

Many middle-aged men like to play some vulgar jokes or say some colored jokes, or make fun of some women to make themselves proud.

If a serious woman meets such a man who has no sense of proportion, it is impossible to be interested in this topic of men. Most of the time, they will only stay away from these men.

But if some women will go along with such a man and show a shy look that seems to refuse to welcome him, in fact, they are already targeting such a man.

at this time, men are still silly to think that they have taken advantage of women, but they don't know that women are fishing for big fish.

So if middle-aged men don't want to capsize in the gutter, don't talk to women about some inappropriate topics.

After all, I have struggled for most of my life, and the peak of my life is coming soon. If my life is hit hard because of these boring topics, it is not worth the loss.

It's fun to chat in the middle of the night

Many men are obviously guarding their wives at night, but they still can't restrain their passion, so they start chatting with other women by using chat tools such as WeChat.

When people around them warned them, they didn't think so. They thought they were just chatting and didn't commit crimes. Why make such a fuss? In fact, such a man lacks moral bottom line and self-awareness.

They keep saying that it's just a chat, but in fact, what they yearn for is not just a chat, which is why many men always brush their guns off when they are holding them.

They are constantly testing on the edge of danger. When one day, the chatting partner really endangers their marriage and family life, they will regret it.

However, they themselves are not worthy of sympathy, because they are the ones who lead the wolf into the room. Men should also believe that a serious woman will not chat with a married middle-aged man in the middle of the night.

After all, Gua Tian Li Xia should avoid suspicion. Only those women who have bad intentions will come to you.

Chat regardless of occasion

Some men think they are full of charm, driving a luxury car, wearing a brand-name suit and carrying a big-name bag. When they go out for a stop, they look like a rich man.

so they always talk to women regardless of the occasion.

However, women are not very interested in such men.

If you are a handsome guy who is tall, handsome, sunny, knowledgeable and ambitious, then women may be willing to make fun of you. But as a middle-aged man with a big belly, no matter how rich you look, you are a greasy middle-aged uncle to women.

In their eyes, being rich in appearance may be just a tool to cheat girls, so they just want to stay away from you.

even if some women respond to such men, then these women must have their own shrewd calculations, and it is not necessarily who will benefit in the end.

Middle-aged men should remember that at this stage of life, they should have a certain vision, a certain mind and a certain level.

If he still chats indiscriminately regardless of occasions, objects and time, then to outsiders, he is just a man with an empty head and no ink in his stomach. Therefore, they can only be deceived.

Men must concentrate on their own lives and don't have any wild desires. After all, middle age is the most critical stage in life, and they have devoted most of their lives to what they have achieved now. At this time, a step up is heaven, and a slight deviation is hell.