Which is more important, tenderness or humor?

Tenderness is more important. Gentleness is a person's inner cultivation and beautiful quality, and humor is a way for a person to entertain others and create a pleasant atmosphere.

Even if a person doesn't know humor, she can get applause and applause from others as long as she treats the people around her gently and what happens to her. Because this is a kind of inner kindness, I have a friend. She is such a person. Maybe you can't find her beauty when you put her in the crowd at first, but after getting along with her for a long time, you are so lucky to know her and become friends. Her temper is always unhurried, so at first, she was more introverted in our minds, but as I got closer, I found that no matter what happened to her, whether it was good or bad. Whenever we are in trouble, she decides to be the first person to lend a helping hand. She can work hard on her own, but she will also tell us that she is still with us when her friend needs help most. Even if some people who don't understand her treat her badly, she won't care. Next time she needs help, she will still be enthusiastic. She also likes small animals. Every weekend, she will take a big bag of dry food and go to a fixed place to feed them. I am very good at thinking from other people's point of view. Everything will be considered thoroughly. From the overall situation, I will make proper arrangements and won't let others have any dissatisfied opinions.

She is gentle, but not very humorous. Sometimes we play with several good friends, and she is the serious listener, so that she can't tell a humorous thing. I don't know humor either. We tell a joke. Maybe it will take her a few minutes to react. So we like to call her Miss Slow-paced. She just smiles.

Perhaps it is such a gentle person who treats the whole world and makes us all want to be friends with her, because many people can't imitate her quality. You are a noisy and tasteless person, you can learn to be humorous, but a gentle person is cultivated from the heart, changes from the heart, and is at peace with everything in this world.