What do you think of the post-80s situation?

"This is the best time, this is the worst time." This is the first sentence that comes to mind after seeing this complaint that is said to describe the post-80 s life.

Complaining, right? Unconsciously cold hum 1.

I suddenly want to write something. In 2007, the 89th generation, born in 1980, is 27 years old, and there will be a rite of passage.

This is not the worst time.

Perhaps our generation has experienced too many similar sermons: "You caught up with the good times, then we were …" So we became disgusted, or rebelled, and we habitually blocked such remarks.

When my mother told me these words 20 years ago, the child was crying, heartbroken and angry; /kloc-when it was said 0/0 years ago, senior two students shrugged it off and scoffed.

Now, if she still says these words to me, I will listen quietly.

It's just that she doesn't want to mention those past events to me anymore.

Search some parents' growth experiences only by memory: walking to school or going to the seaside to save a few cents; Going to the countryside, transplanting rice seedlings is too tired to sleep; I have to give up something because of the hukou problem; In order to get up early and get greedy for the dark, I finally got a college diploma.

Too many people have no chance to go to universities that don't need money; The assigned work stifled the passion and dreams of too many people; Isn't the stock market where fools make money improving now?

A free house is a good thing. This is really a good thing, but compared with our childhood when we don't have to worry about food and clothing, we don't have to worry about teenagers who can't afford to go to school and young people who can't go to college ... Maybe this is not the whole story, but we must admit that our life is really not that bad, is it?

Has the post-80s generation really been spoiled to such an insatiable degree?

Of course not!

2. Now is not the time.

Whether we admit it or not, it is a fact that the times have not spoiled us.

This is a generation that lacks brotherhood, and this is a generation that grew up in a locked house. We have a color TV, a bully and a telephone, catching up with the rapid development of the Internet.

But these can't replace the feelings between brothers and sisters, which should be the feelings that everyone should have when growing up, and they are less out of thin air.

So some people who are disrespectful to the old people pinched their waists and lit cigarette bags, learning from Huang Shiren's emphasis: "Small sample, why are you people so fragile?"

Beaten all over, you can go home and haunt your brother, so we can only go it alone; You have troubles, and someone helps you clean them up. We have a crush on the girl in the next class, and no one dares to say. I don't believe that the word puppy love was invented after 1980, but it is completely different when it is known by brothers, sisters, teachers and parents. You don't have a game machine, but you can go out to play in groups. If we want to go out to play, we have to look at our parents' faces-"Who are you going out with? Are you a bad boy? How many acres of land does the family have? What are the ingredients of parents? "

The words "only child" and "spoiled" have become synonyms, which is the biggest joke in the world, and there is no one.

A brother who grew up together can really be replaced by a little extra love, a few game machines and a few beautiful schoolbags?

Not to mention the increasingly heavy burden of middle school study, the speed of enrollment expansion is directly proportional to the growth rate of tuition fees, but the universities with poor teaching quality and the diplomas already found in their hands.

3. Use your own way of fighting and take the road that no one has ever taken.

The post-80s have their own happiness and challenges.

People of every age have their own happiness and challenges.

After 80 is not a demon generation, a generation has a generation of demons. Don't take a few buffoons to measure the life born in the whole 10 year.

Even the most conservative people have to admit the fact that the shelf life of experience is getting shorter and shorter in this fast-rotating world.

It is unreasonable to divide a generation into 10 years, but since it has happened, so be it, although the name of the post-80 s is silly. )

Faced with such a world, even the most experienced and successful elders can't clearly tell us where to go.

Road, still have to go on by yourself.

We have to face unknown areas, such as industries and cultures derived from the Internet.

We have to face the bondage of conservative ideas, the most typical of which is being accused by the older generation for no reason in literary and artistic creation.

We have to face the attack of arrogance, which we know is self-confidence.

What we have to do is not to write a few words casually on the internet to prove our bloodiness and fighting spirit, but to do what we should do.

For most people, life and individuals are two-way choices.

The post-80s generation has its own unique side, but this uniqueness has nothing to do with fragility and femininity. The relationship between individual phenomena and the whole is often ignored intentionally or unintentionally, but we know who we are.

How to go depends on how you really want to go. This generation will naturally have losers, but it is destined to have more winners.

The most important thing is that this generation can support the future, which I firmly believe.

Forget the happiness and misfortune brought by the times, this is life, it is neutral, objective and calm, and will not be complained by change, but will only yield to courage.

The post-80s generation is nothing more than others and nothing more than others, isn't it?

"People go straight to heaven, and people go straight to hell."

After 80, we have the ability to decide where our toes point. "Heaven to the left, XX to the right", a bad sentence pattern, is not suitable for the post-80s generation.