Why don't some parents generally tell their children how much money they have at home?

This usually doesn't tell children how much money they have! You should be afraid of your children and think about their money! Mother-in-law never tells her son how much money she has, but tells us that they have no money, or they have no money when they buy anything. We never ask them how much money they have.

When paying the heating bill in winter, my mother-in-law told us that you have to pay the heating bill! When I come back, I'll give you half and you take half. As a result, we are finished, and people don't mention giving you money. We don't want her money either. If you don't tell us, we'll pay the heating bill. What's more, we can't let the child freeze! Don't say you get half the money! When we finished, you didn't say a word If you give it to us, we don't want it! My mother-in-law has done this several times, always telling us that she has no money. Hey! This is to endure living with old people.

My mother-in-law didn't ask if she had enough money to buy a car! If we can't get enough, we won't want it! Or my mother asked me if I had enough money! Took some money for us, but my husband didn't want it. My mother said, take it. If you buy a car, you will have no money. Children needed money, too, and finally we took it. After buying a car, my mother-in-law also said that the car was small and she wanted to buy a bigger one. Hey! Also speechless.

Anyway, we don't know how much money my mother-in-law has and don't ask.

On the subject, senior brother wants to ask, why do parents tell their children how much money they have at home? What effect will it have on children knowing how much money they have at home?

For most parents, they definitely want to leave the best for their children, give them the best education and the best living environment.

Master elder brother thinks that the fundamental reason why parents don't tell their children how much money they have at home is that they want their children to rely on themselves. If a child knows that his family is rich, it is very likely that the child thinks that there is so much money in his family. Why do they have to work hard to make a salted fish? This is the result that no parents want to see. If the conditions at home are not very good, if you tell your child the real conditions at home, the child is likely to feel inferior, which is not good for his growth.

It is good for adults and children not to tell their children how much money they have at home. Because children are not deeply involved in the world, it is easy for them to tell others the actual situation at home. It is easy to bring unnecessary troubles or disasters to the children themselves and the adults at home. For example, a boy of 14 years old always boasts about how rich his uncle's family is in front of other children and adults. I was kidnapped by the bad guys. Then the bad guy called the boy's uncle and asked for 654.38+0 million, saying that if he didn't give it, he would kill the ticket. As a result, uncle was not threatened by kidnappers, saying that he had no money to kill the ticket. In the end, the boy was brutally killed by the kidnappers and burned the body.

If the family is really rich, you can't tell the children how much money they have. On the one hand, we should guard against people's fears. The child said it out of ignorance. Another child knows that there is more money at home, so he will spend it lavishly and doesn't know how to save it. I have developed the habit of not caring about diligence and housekeeping since I was a child, and I still don't like being lazy. So the child has no motivation.

If your family is poor, don't tell your children how much money you have. In order to avoid the pressure in children's hearts, they feel inferior from an early age. This is not good for children's growth.

In short, no matter whether the family is rich or poor, don't tell the children how much money they have at home. It's no good letting them know. He is an introverted child. If children are cheerful, it may be less dangerous for them, but it is better not to tell them. It's not safe for children to tell others carelessly. Personally, don't spray if you don't like it!

This problem is better understood this way. As parents, it is mainly to give children a sense of ecstasy. There are several disadvantages if you let your child know about the saving card at home: First, too little money will hurt your child's self-confidence, make your child feel sorry for himself and feel that your parents are incompetent. Second, if you have more money, you can't tell your children happily. This will make children complacent. Have the heart of comparison, and have the habit of spending money lavishly. At that time, the parents will be more than one bargained for. Because Jinshan Yinshan will be idle and will regret it then. So, how much money do parents have in their pockets? You can only say one big word to your child. For example, have some money. Increased my income.

These things are personal privacy, not to mention parents, even your husband and wife, have personal money, private money. I only care about how much money I have and how to make money. It is tiring to stare at other people's money every day.

I guess you won't tell anyone how much money you have. After a long time, you will know that society is very complicated and people's hearts are very complicated. If you have more money, others will envy you. If you have less money, others will laugh at you. Everything still depends on yourself.

I don't know who said that, money is like underwear. You should have it, but you shouldn't show it to others, or you will be stupid and look down on you in private.

Everyone is a first-time parent, and most parents have no psychological foundation or educational background.

Many things about parenthood are explored step by step.

Some things are not deliberately hidden or avoided by them.

It's that they don't know if they should talk about it or if it's good for you.

In the face of these contradictions, human nature makes them shrink back, so I won't tell you.

Not only the savings at home, many parents don't even explain their work to their children in detail.

Because the real society is very complicated, not everyone has the ability to face all kinds of situations.

For example, if a child's father is a teacher, he may only tell you that he is a teacher of a certain subject in a certain school.

But he won't tell you that he has to stay up late every night to correct papers and give classes to students every day. Some very simple topics are said a hundred times and I don't understand them. They also have to bear the examination of the education group, the supervision of the academic director, the criticism of the grade director and the pressure of the principal.

Under these pressures, fathers sometimes don't even tell their mothers, let alone their children.

Because of these things, it is useless to talk about it, and the pressure will not disappear.

But I told my family that sometimes it will increase the pressure on their families and affect their children's physical and mental development.

Speaking of family savings, in the current economic environment, for ordinary people, most people don't have a lot of savings, because the burden of mortgage, car loan and living consumption is very heavy.

Dual-income families must have the pressure of mortgage.

For business people, deposit is the working capital of the next business.

These household savings can only be used to meet the needs of daily life and cope with unknown changes.

So, to be honest, it doesn't make much sense to tell children this.

Finally, it is really complicated to let children grow up healthily. Poor children at home tend to feel inferior, too rich and afraid of raising rich second generation. Middle-class families are even more uncomfortable, reluctant to be poor and unable to afford to be rich.

Of course, most parents still want their offspring to live better than themselves.

This also involves the guidance in the process of cultivating and educating children. Let children care too much about money from an early age, which will affect their study.

Tell yourself about a wealthy family, and children may lie on the family credit book and neglect their studies. If you always cry in front of children, it will lead to children's inferiority and timidity, which is not conducive to their healthy growth.

Parents are children's first teachers, and there will be parents' shadows on children. In addition to the external temperament of physical appearance, the internal quality is acquired. If you instill a pure view of money from an early age and regard money as life in your young mind, you will lead your children astray.

In a market economy and a money society, it is absolutely impossible without money. Making money, at least in the child's underage learning and growth stage, should not be involved too early, which will cause psychological stress.

Of course, it is a matter of principle to form the habit of not spending too much money in advance and enjoying life too early. Otherwise, the child is eager for success and is trained as a little emperor. The deviation in the process of growth is very unfavorable to the future development.

In addition, family deposits are private issues, which are disclosed to children in countless ways, as well as funds and personal safety and the participation of relatives. Children who are not sensible will inevitably reveal their family background to others intentionally or unintentionally.

Money is earned by parents, providing food and drink for children to go to school. As for how much money belongs to parents, it is yours if they are willing to give it to you, and it is their own if they are unwilling to give it to you. Moreover, parents are human beings, so they have to live and take more risks. Young people still have to work hard on their own in the future. Moreover, when children are very young, they have no concept of money and are not sensible. Tell him he can't tell, and he can't control it. If he goes out to show off again, it will be bad.

Thank you for inviting me! Yes, I am what you call' some parents'! My son went to work just in time for the welfare room. He lives in his own house, and his daughter-in-law is assigned to a building. I gave him 60 thousand yuan. The son said,' I didn't expect our family to be so rich! Now you ask me why, I'm thinking: nothing, not afraid of children, just that there was too little money at that time, and the passbook was 100 every year. The child is too young to know! Now that the child is older, if you don't tell him, he will be similar, because they all know how much salary they get, but they don't know the specific figures. Because they are not children and lead different lives, they secretly give some to those who need it.