The mother got mad when she was doing homework with her child, and the grandmother laughed at her mercilessly, saying they were all people who have been there before

Every September when school starts, people in every household are busy sending their children to school. As soon as children return to school, they have to hand in their summer homework, and many parents express headaches just by mentioning homework. There is a saying among netizens that is right: "If you don't write homework, your mother will be kind and your son will be kind, but if you do write homework, you will be like a chicken and a dog."

No matter which family they are in, parents will have a headache when their children do homework, especially parents who have kindergarten or primary school students at home. When tutoring homework, they will be as irritable as possible. Sometimes I even shed tears of anger.

Xiao Liu, a neighbor, has a daughter who has just entered elementary school. She can hear the roaring sound in their house every time. Xiao Liu said that every time when his children were doing their homework, the whole family would stop talking, leaving him alone and going crazy with anger.

One time, the child was doing a math problem. It was obviously a very simple question, but the child could not get it right no matter how he did it, and he made mistakes again and again. Ms. Liu finally couldn't bear it anymore and yelled at the child.

At this time, the child's grandmother laughed beside her and said that you were like this before, you are all experienced. I even rummaged through the boxes and found an old letter from home. Xiao Liu lowered his head after looking at it, feeling very embarrassed.

In fact, for children, the speed of receiving knowledge is relatively slow, and their learning ability may not need to be improved. If parents usually teach a problem a few times and their children still don’t understand the method of solving the problem, the parents will start to lose their minds and start a force-based education mode. But in fact, this is always bad for the child. So how should parents accompany their children to do homework?

1. Children are studying, and parents cannot stop their own learning.

Many people are willing to be housewives and stay-at-home mothers after giving birth to children. Why is this? ? Many people may not understand, saying that if you give up your job and return to your family, wouldn’t you lose yourself? Is it worth it? But this actually varies from person to person.

Some people give up their jobs not just for the sake of their children. They will also learn what they want to learn in their free time. They will become role models for their children, so that they can also become role models when raising their children. A better version of yourself. In this case, it can actually influence children in a subtle way and cultivate their good learning attitude.

2. Learn to control your temper and deal with it rationally

In fact, we all know that human patience has its limits. Therefore, parents sometimes lose patience when educating their children. But we must know that children's learning cannot be achieved overnight. In the process of repeated learning, children continue to learn things, and only in this way can they learn well over time.

Sometimes parents lose patience and resort to yelling or even powerless education methods. In fact, this will make children feel resistant and even create fear. This will make them more resistant to learning and is not conducive to their future study and life.

In fact, there is a little trick that parents can learn. When you can’t help it, you can count a few numbers silently in your mind to calm yourself down. If you really can’t calm down, stop studying for two seconds. Taking a break personally and letting the child relax may have the effect of getting twice the result with half the effort. No matter what, don't take your anger out on your child, as this will cast a shadow on your child's heart.

I believe parents also know how to deal with their emotions when tutoring their children with homework, so let’s use it in the future!