Lies and deception will be regarded as jokes.

There is no doubt that a lie itself is a lie. Lies, lying is cheating, cheating is immoral, immoral things are unpopular. These are all instilled by teachers since childhood. But we ask ourselves, who hasn't lied? For our relatives, friends or strangers, there are many purposes, but when we add "goodwill" to a lie, it seems that everyone can accept it, which is the concentrated expression of human weakness.

Mark? Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will make opponents embarrassed and reassure friends. " So the psychologist's point of view is: don't lie easily, even if it is a white lie.

Please note that even a white lie, as a lie itself, is a violation of honesty. Therefore, whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, as a lie itself will inevitably hinder honesty. So, I want to speak out here, let's reject white lies and build an honest society together.

Please note that there is a big omission in your defense. We think we should start with the definition to distinguish things and synthesize the interpretation of Kangxi Dictionary. A white lie is not seeking truth from facts, telling lies, exaggerating, covering up and distorting the facts. From the structural analysis of white lie phrases, it is a partial phrase and the head word is a lie, so white lie is a lie in essence. It is an indisputable fact that white lies are often used by some "professional liars" because of their uncertainty. A "lie" itself is dark, and the likes and dislikes of things are not measured by the purpose of things. A white lie itself is a lie. Although he has shed his beggar's clothes and put on his cheongsam, he still can't get rid of the essence of lies, which means cheating and hinders honesty. White lies have a good starting point, but once they are exposed, they will do more harm to each other. As a lie itself, it is already a violation of good faith.

Among the 20-character moral standards put forward in the Implementation Outline of Citizen's Moral Construction published by the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, "sincerity" is a very important criterion, and honesty is the pursuit of "truth" and justice. The ancients said that "true self" was sincere. Not refined and sincere, not moving.

As General Secretary Hu Jintao said in his speech: "The socialist harmonious society we want to build should be a society with democracy and the rule of law, fairness and justice, honesty and friendship, vitality, stability and order, and harmony between man and nature."

From the above analysis, we believe that no matter whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, being a lie will inevitably hinder honesty.

Asking the other party to argue that it is a lie? How can you have a good impression? ! It's goodwill! Why lie? !

Although a lie is well-intentioned, as a lie itself, it is a violation of good faith. Therefore, whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, making a lie will inevitably hinder honesty.

Looking back suddenly with the national spirit, it turns out that honesty is in the dim light. Thousands of years later, it can still be clearly heard that honesty is the virtue of the Chinese nation, just as the Great Wall is a symbol of the Chinese nation. If a person loses integrity, he will leave hypocrisy: if an enterprise loses integrity, it will face bankruptcy; And if a nation loses its integrity, it will degenerate and perish!

Keeping faith is the pure land of keeping faith, keeping faith is the success of keeping faith, and keeping faith is that the Chinese nation can last forever.

Here I want to ask other students, when a person loses integrity, is his starting point still good?

So-called white lies can also lead to unpredictable consequences. Give an example: someone is terminally ill. In order to let him spend the rest of his life safely, his relatives and friends have kept him in the dark. There is no malice or selfishness in this, but it is often unsatisfactory and deception cannot last long. On the contrary, patients lose the rationality of cooperating with treatment and the opportunity to deal with personal affairs. Sisera, a female philosopher? Polk warned that such a lie would put people on the verge of a great decline in personality. In the book Lying, Moral Choice in Public and Private Life, she wrote: "Psychological barriers have disappeared, the ability to distinguish between true and false is more blurred, and the concept that lies cannot be seen through may tend to be paranoid." Psychologists who study lying suggest that anyone who wants to tell some "white lies" to friends, relatives and colleagues should consider a question involving psychological reaction, that is, whether the other party knows the truth.

A white lie is an excuse!

Anyone who uses an excuse wants to use it to protect himself or others. Help us save face and let us endure setbacks.

Gasmel said: "It is quite common to think that you are better than yourself." The excuses people come up with are sometimes unexpected. Why should people deceive themselves? American humorist Ryder pointed out: "Most people don't live in reality, but in fantasy, especially their own fantasy." On the other hand, it is sometimes cruel to know the truth about yourself and your friends. Better not know.

However, most excuses are destructive. If you use excuses unconsciously, you will fool yourself even if you don't fool others. So I ask the other party to realize that more honesty and less excuses! At the same time, I want to ask each other, if everyone has this view, how can we build an honest society and make our country develop further in honesty?

I think that even if a lie is well-intentioned, its negative effects can be seen everywhere. No need for examples. This negative influence on honesty is often hidden and chronic poisoning. Ignoring this poison is undoubtedly a cover-up Excuse me, the other debater, you keep saying that white lies and honesty are two categories. Please give an accurate definition of white lies.

If a country or a nation can always treat and evaluate objective things with a fair heart, it will certainly create an atmosphere of honesty and integrity, rather than a vicious circle of intrigue.

Zhu? In the government work report made at the Fifth Session of the Ninth National People's Congress, Premier F pointed out that it is necessary to "strengthen the construction of social credit and gradually form a good fashion of honesty and morality in the whole society". Making friends in good faith is an important content of Chinese traditional morality, and it is also a fundamental move to maintain the normal operation of the economy, promote institutional innovation, and rectify and standardize the market economic order at present and in the future. At present, with the rapid development of economy and society and the evolution of people's values, the lack of credit in some fields and individuals has increasingly become a distressing social hazard, which must be highly valued. As the other side argues, a lie can't be white, because it hinders honesty. What is honesty, my friend? What is lacking in our society?

We believe that there are fundamental mistakes in the other party's understanding and understanding of some concepts. Honesty is based on the frankness of the other party. Any deception, even a so-called "white-hearted" lie, can be said to be completely sad and relaxed with frankness. I don't think the concept of "honesty" needs to be demonstrated here, and it has been analyzed clearly.

There is no doubt that a white lie is itself a lie. Lies, lying is cheating, cheating is immoral, immoral things are unpopular. These are all instilled by teachers since childhood. But we ask ourselves, who hasn't lied? For our relatives, friends or strangers, there are many purposes, but when we add "goodwill" to a lie, it seems that everyone can accept it, which is the concentrated expression of human weakness.

Mark? Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will make opponents embarrassed and reassure friends. " So the psychologist's point of view is: don't lie easily, even if it is a white lie.

Please note that even a white lie, as a lie itself, is a violation of honesty. Therefore, whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, as a lie itself will inevitably hinder honesty. So, I want to speak out here, let's reject white lies and build an honest society together.

We think we should distinguish things from the definition and synthesize the interpretation of Kangxi Dictionary. A white lie is not seeking truth from facts, telling lies and empty words, exaggerating, covering up and distorting the truth. From the structural analysis of white lie phrases, it is a partial phrase and the head word is a lie, so white lie is a lie in essence. It is an indisputable fact that white lies are often used by some "professional liars" because of their uncertainty. A "lie" itself is dark, and the likes and dislikes of things are not measured by the purpose of things. A white lie itself is a lie. Although he has shed his beggar's clothes and put on his cheongsam, he still can't get rid of the essence of lies, which means cheating and hinders honesty. White lies have a good starting point, but once they are exposed, they will do more harm to each other. As a lie itself, it is already a violation of good faith.

Among the 20-character moral standards put forward in the Implementation Outline of Citizen's Moral Construction published by the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, "sincerity" is a very important criterion, and honesty is the pursuit of "truth" and justice. The ancients said that "true self" was sincere. Not refined and sincere, not moving.

As General Secretary Hu Jintao said in his speech: "The socialist harmonious society we want to build should be a society with democracy and the rule of law, fairness and justice, honesty and friendship, vitality, stability and order, and harmony between man and nature."

From the above analysis, we believe that no matter whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, being a lie will inevitably hinder honesty.

Is it a lie? How can you have a good impression? ! It's goodwill! Why lie? !

Although a lie is well-intentioned, as a lie itself, it is a violation of good faith. Therefore, whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, making a lie will inevitably hinder honesty.

Looking back suddenly with the national spirit, it turns out that honesty is in the dim light. Thousands of years later, it can still be clearly heard that honesty is the virtue of the Chinese nation, just as the Great Wall is a symbol of the Chinese nation. If a person loses integrity, he will leave hypocrisy: if an enterprise loses integrity, it will face bankruptcy; And if a nation loses its integrity, it will degenerate and perish!

Keeping faith is the pure land of keeping faith, keeping faith is the success of keeping faith, and keeping faith is that the Chinese nation can last forever.

Here I want to ask other students, when a person loses integrity, is his starting point still good?

So-called white lies can also lead to unpredictable consequences. Give an example: someone is terminally ill. In order to let him spend the rest of his life safely, his relatives and friends have kept him in the dark. There is no malice or selfishness in this, but it is often unsatisfactory and deception cannot last long. On the contrary, patients lose the rationality of cooperating with treatment and the opportunity to deal with personal affairs. Sisera, a female philosopher? Polk warned that such a lie would put people on the verge of a great decline in personality. In the book Lying, Moral Choice in Public and Private Life, she wrote: "Psychological barriers have disappeared, the ability to distinguish between true and false is more blurred, and the concept that lies cannot be seen through may tend to be paranoid." Psychologists who study lying suggest that anyone who wants to tell some "white lies" to friends, relatives and colleagues should consider a question involving psychological reaction, that is, whether the other party knows the truth.

A white lie is an excuse!

Anyone who uses an excuse wants to use it to protect himself or others. Help us save face and let us endure setbacks.

Gasmel said: "It is quite common to think that you are better than yourself." The excuses people come up with are sometimes unexpected. Why should people deceive themselves? American humorist Ryder pointed out: "Most people don't live in reality, but in fantasy, especially their own fantasy." On the other hand, it is sometimes cruel to know the truth about yourself and your friends. Better not know.

However, most excuses are destructive. If you use excuses unconsciously, you will fool yourself even if you don't fool others. So I ask the other party to realize that more honesty and less excuses! At the same time, I want to ask each other, if everyone has this view, how can we build an honest society and make our country develop further in honesty?

You didn't answer the question of "Three Theories" directly. I think that even if a lie is well-intentioned, its negative effects can be seen everywhere. Why give an example? This negative influence on honesty is often hidden and chronic poisoning. Ignoring this poison is undoubtedly a cover-up Ask another debater, you always said that white lies and honesty are two categories. Would you please give an accurate definition of a white lie?

When two people were in love, they promised never to change their minds, but later they broke up. This was a white lie at that time, and later the injured party was severely hit. Whether we need people in this field to continue to talk about the truth is a very simple question. Just as white lies are an excuse for this view, Japan has ignored historical facts and distorted history, and achieved great results. When the German President sincerely repented the victims of World War II, he won not only the Nobel Peace Prize, but also the understanding and tolerance of people all over the world.

If a country or a nation can always treat and evaluate objective things with a fair heart, it will certainly create an atmosphere of honesty and integrity, rather than a vicious circle of intrigue.

Zhu? In the government work report made at the Fifth Session of the Ninth National People's Congress, Premier F pointed out that it is necessary to "strengthen the construction of social credit and gradually form a good fashion of honesty and morality in the whole society". Making friends in good faith is an important content of Chinese traditional morality, and it is also a fundamental move to maintain the normal operation of the economy, promote institutional innovation, and rectify and standardize the market economic order at present and in the future. At present, with the rapid development of economy and society and the evolution of people's values, the lack of credit in some fields and individuals has increasingly become a distressing social hazard, which must be highly valued. As the other side argues, a lie can't be white, because it hinders honesty. What is honesty, my friend? What is lacking in our society?

We believe that so-called white lies are harmful to integrity. Of course, the lies here are not what people usually call shocking scams, but lies that pretend to affirm or support (actually disapprove) the practices, opinions or opinions of spouses, relatives and friends.

Take Tom, the company manager in Southern California, for example. Tom spends Thanksgiving with his wife and son at his mother-in-law's house every year. In fact, he didn't like the "special" pumpkin pie made by his mother-in-law, but he told her how delicious her pie was so as not to hurt her feelings. "Is it wrong to do so?" Tom asked when consulting a psychiatrist. This is a question that many people will ask. The psychiatrist asked him to look at the lie from his mother-in-law's point of view. Suppose one day, Tom's son confided the truth in front of his grandmother, and her mother-in-law discovered Tom's true feelings. She will tell Tom, "Thank you for your kindness?" I also felt emotionally hurt and said, "How could you mislead me like this for so many years? What else are you hiding from me? " Besides, what questions will Tom's mother-in-law have about herself? Does Tom's son also want to imitate his father's lies? What would he think of his father's character? Will he still believe what his father said?

A novelist once wrote this sentence: "When we first tried to lie, we fell into a web of chaos that we woven."

We believe that there are fundamental mistakes in the other party's understanding and understanding of some concepts. Honesty is based on the frankness of the other party. Any deception, even a so-called "white-hearted" lie, can be said to be completely sad and relaxed with frankness. I don't think the concept of "honesty" needs to be demonstrated here, and it has been analyzed clearly.

Honesty has been advocated since ancient times. The history can be traced back to 359 BC, and Shang Yang's legislation in Qin Dynasty enriched Qiang Bing with honesty. The story of "South Gate Standing" was staged. Shang Yang has been engaged in legal work for ten years. "Everyone in Qin is happy. If the road is not left behind, there will be no thieves in the mountains, and the family will give enough to others." Today, with China's entry into the WTO and the growing market economy, it will do great harm to economic life and bring disastrous consequences to social life if fake and shoddy products are allowed to run rampant and lose their credibility. The turbidity current of dishonesty will erode the trust between people like a plague and hinder the pace of socialist market economy. It is urgent to advocate honesty, punish dishonesty and improve credit ethics and credit legal system.

Excuse me, how can a lie be good to a friend? If it is a lie, it will hinder honesty. Excuse me, what is honesty? What does our society need?

We should reject lies and stick to honesty. How can we avoid the embarrassment encountered by the other party in work and life? We want to:

If you refuse at the beginning, there will be no embarrassing situation later. We are now living in an open and unpopular era.

"Don't say that the hat worn by the aunt next door is ugly, do you hear?"

"You have to say to the new class teacher,' I'm glad you are our class teacher'!"

We don't say similar words from the heart, but choose nice words that don't make people sad. This is because we believe that there can be no shortage of white lies in life.

Shall we look at the problem from the opposite angle? Someone wears an ugly hat, and we can tell him realistically that it's really bad. This is because always telling white lies will also bring you trouble. So we should learn when to tell the truth and when to tell a white lie, otherwise it will lead to the result of not knowing the truth from the false.

For example, suppose you receive a birthday invitation from a friend who is not very close at the weekend. You don't want to go, but you refuse because you are afraid of each other's anger, and your promise is ambiguous. Time flies. It's almost my friend's birthday, and you still don't want to go. Now I'll find a reason to tell each other that you can't go. Think about it, what will the other party think of you at this time? The other party will definitely see that you don't want to go and will be very angry.

You didn't refuse at first, but you still made your friend angry. What will it be like to show your attitude when you receive an invitation?

"I'm glad to be invited, but I can't go because I have something in town that day."

If you refuse at the beginning, there will be no embarrassment later.

Opponents, you have not made an essential explanation for white lies. What you said is only a superficial understanding!

We know that people live in this society and bear many obligations, and sometimes there are contradictions between them. When one obligation overrides another, it is necessary to alleviate the other. Therefore, the essence of white lies is a more urgent and important obligation to be implemented at the expense of reducing the obligation of good faith.

Just now, when another debater was demonstrating, he also gave some examples to illustrate some functions and benefits of white lies. We also affirmed these effects and benefits, and also affirmed the examples of white lies you just listed. However, you must not ignore that the utility and benefits gained through white lies will eventually come at the expense of honesty.

I believe everyone has heard of opportunity cost! In other words, when you do one thing, you lose the opportunity to do other things at the same time. If you want to achieve the effect of white lies, you must sacrifice honesty, which is the opportunity cost of white lies!

In addition, modern psychological research points out that white lies can be divided into two categories: one is the white lies of the object, and the other is the white lies of the subject.

The so-called white lie of the object is a white lie whose starting point is completely for the benefit of the other party. It states the object of white lies more, such as praising a mentally retarded child and saying that he is smart and giving him confidence. This kind of object lies in goodwill and undermines honesty, which is a chronic poisoning.

The so-called white lie of the subject is a white lie whose starting point contains the elements of safeguarding or seeking self-interest. It states more about the subject who lies in good faith. For example, a child does not listen carefully in class. When he got home, his mother asked him if he had listened carefully. He didn't want his mother to blame him or feel sad, so he lied and said that he had listened carefully. This subject's well-intentioned lie obviously undermines honesty and is an acute poisoning.

Another debater's misunderstanding that white lies do not hinder honesty is nothing more than the hidden influence of white lies on the integrity of the object. You don't see the essence through the phenomenon, and you don't realize that this is a chronic poisoning.

Why is the object of white lies chronic poisoning? Psychological research explains that because the white lies of the object destroy the integrity, they will not be directly perceived by people, but will gradually corrode people's integrity system over time. The concept of dishonesty is hidden in their subconscious, and there is "for others!" This sentence will become his inner excuse for undermining integrity in the future.

For the above reasons, we believe that white lies hinder honesty!