In "A Dream of Red Mansions", why do the people in the Rongguo Mansion dare to despise the You family who has the imperial title?

Although You didn’t have a natal family background, she joined the Jia family. Although it was a second marriage, she still had a royal destiny. After all, she was the mistress of the Ning family. However, in the Rong family, she was always looked down upon intentionally or unintentionally. With.

Let’s start with the master. Mother Jia in Jia Mansion is naturally well-educated, but she also lacks patience with her. At the Mid-Autumn Festival banquet, You told a joke, but even though it was boring, Mother Jia fell asleep. , of course Jia Mu is the elder, no one can blame her.

When Jia Mu celebrated her birthday, the servants of the Rong Mansion offended Mrs. You. Sister Feng tied someone up. It was a courtesy and Jia Mu said she had done the right thing. But when Mrs. Xing questioned her, Mrs. Wang immediately let her go. He also said that Brother Zhen’s wife is not an outsider and there is no need for such false courtesy. This will naturally embarrass Sister Feng. But on the other side, Mrs. Wang didn't care too much about Youshi's feelings. Youshi is the master of suffering, so Mrs. Wang should always be polite to Youshi.

There is no need to mention Sister Feng. Regarding the matter of Second Sister You, Sister Feng was justified, so she made a big fuss in the Ning Mansion. She did not dare to do anything to Jia Zhen, and scolded You, saying that she was an individual, so there was no way she was polite.

When it came to the servants, it was even more direct. The woman in charge of the garden gate directly ignored Youshi's words and said that each family was in charge of their own affairs, which was obviously to say that Youshi was troublesome.

It was originally a good thing to have a meal at Jia Mu's place, but the servant brought the servant's meal. The mistress of the Ning Mansion ate the servant's meal. This was too disrespectful. It didn't seem like a slap in the face. Youshi is a slap in the face to Ning Mansion. Still Yuanyang couldn't stand it anymore, so she quickly asked him to switch over, but Youshi just said it was fine.

When I got to the garden, I washed my face at Li Wan’s place. Li Wan didn’t have any makeup. Li Wan’s maid went to the girls to find some. She was embarrassed to take her own. She can only say that it's okay. People don't respect her, so she can only keep a low profile.

Xichun had an argument with You about entering the painting. The little girl didn't like the chaos in Ning's house, but the chaos in Ning's house was not caused by You. The little girl did You a lot of harm. , and made his position clear, drew a clear line, and stopped interacting with each other, saying that Youshi was a confused person.

Youshi would go over to greet the old lady every day, and she was sincere. She wanted to close the relationship with the Rong Mansion, and she was also extremely polite to Mrs. Wang, Mrs. Xing. She was capable. Du Yan took care of the bereavement and took care of Jia Jing's funeral, but Jia Zhen couldn't fault it. Hosting Sister Feng’s birthday party, everyone said it was a festive and lively event. Later, we arranged the engagement between Xing Xiuyan and Xue Biao, which was also thorough and thoughtful.

Youshi is cautious and does her best, but she does not receive courtesy from the Rong Mansion. How can she have such a high status?