How about looking for a bank girl?

How about finding a bank girl?

How about finding a bank girl? It is often said that you don't marry a ××(IT or civil engineering) man, and you don't know why you don't marry a bank girl. Let's take a look. How about finding a bank girl? 1

Let's talk about the advantages of a bank girl first. Generally speaking, she has a good culture, good image and temperament, especially for the position of financial manager. Because she has to deal with high-end customers, she is basically the most beautiful girl in the bank. They generally have a good image, can dress up, and are sweet-mouthed, so it is easy to get customers' favor. If she can know a beautiful financial manager of a bank, it is something that many people talk about, just like buying a car. However, the beauty of the bank is superior in professionalism, so it is more attractive and close to people. It is precisely because of the above advantages that these beautiful women of the bank gradually become the objects of envy and hatred.

Let's talk about the problem of bank women again. I have been in the bank for more than ten years, from a part-time intern college student to an assistant manager in the lobby, to a counter post, a wealth management post and a president post, and I have witnessed many girls' situations and experiences. To sum up:

First, bank women are too busy to take care of their families.

My previous article once described the heavy assessment tasks of banks, so people in banks are both men and women. 5+2, white plus black, there is a joke that in the bank, women are men and men are cattle, which shows that women in the bank are really busy day and night. Every morning at dawn, they rush to work and punch in for a morning meeting. In the evening, they are usually busy until 9 o'clock to get home with a tired body. The time that husband and wife can be together may not add up to two minutes, and the home is like a hotel. Such a marriage,

Second, women in banks have been working hard for a long time, and their health is generally poor

All positions in banks are under high load. Female tellers sit for ten hours a day and have no time to drink water. Female account managers and financial managers often attend various meetings and entertainment for business, drink and stay up late. After several years, all of them are in a sub-health state, with frequent gynecological diseases, some obvious depression, some aging, white hair, forgetfulness and so on.

Third, women in banks have a strong concept of money, and the trend of keeping up with the joneses is heavy

Because their work revolves around money and they deal with rich people every day, girls in banks generally have a strong concept of money, and they personally realize the benefits of rich people, so they will gradually have a glimpse of a person's ability to have money and no money. Because it is linked to performance, they tend to be close to rich people and stay away from those who have no money, which makes bank women look snobbish. In addition, in the industry and communication circle, it is generally compared to wear brand-name clothes, buy brand-name bags, drive luxury cars and live in luxury houses. Whoever marries a rich husband and invests in stocks makes a lot of money. It is difficult for ordinary migrant workers to enter their field of vision, so they look a little money-worshipping.

Fourth, bank girls are prone to family problems

Because of the intensity of work, bank girls spend most of their time with colleagues and customers, especially with the opposite sex, so they often know more about their colleagues than their husbands, and in many specific circumstances, they are prone to male and female problems. For example, we often work overtime together, then eat together and send them home, or girls accompany customers to drink, which is taken advantage of by customers, or young female employees fall in love with smart male bosses, or male bosses hide their female subordinates through their authority, and so on, all of which are often seen in the news. In the sub-branch where the author used to work, four similar incidents occurred in two or three years, all of which led to the divorce of the original family. The reasons are related to the changes in the value of the whole society and the special industry of banking.

In short, there is a certain truth in "marrying a wife instead of a bank girl", but looking back at the whole society and industry now, similar stories are being staged everywhere, such as the "cheating of Greenland executives", which is now hotly debated. It should be said that as long as there are beautiful women, there are potential dangers, depending on how we manage the person around us. How about finding a girl in a bank?

Tell me about women who work in a bank. Bank work is different from other jobs. They often have to work under great pressure, and the bank has a lot of business. It is common to work overtime at the end of last month. Where can they spend time with their husbands? So many blind date men don't want to be with the female staff of the bank.

I think there is no good or bad occupation. Even though some jobs do take up a lot of time and energy, the people in these jobs have contributed themselves and achieved the great self. They are admirable. Men have the right to pursue their ideals and ambitions, as do women. In real job hunting, there are many examples of women being discriminated against, so they should not be discriminated against because of their occupation in blind date. On the contrary, everyone should respect them more. How about finding a bank girl? 3

Too busy to fall in love and take care of the family.

After seeing this problem, I sent it to my female friend Xiao Pao, who works in a bank. She was full of complaints and said that it was really difficult to marry a bank girl, especially our teller girl. Sometimes I really don't blame others for not wanting to marry us ~

Xiao Pao said that some time ago, someone said that she would introduce me to someone. When she heard that I worked in a bank, she said, At that time, I wanted to get into the bank to be safe, but now my intestines are regretful ~

Although the bank's external working hours are 9 o'clock, now I get a post after 7 o'clock every day to prepare for the cash truck, as well as the morning meeting and other trivial matters. We are closed at five o'clock in the afternoon, but we have all kinds of foreign exchange clearing accounts, and sometimes we have to work overtime for training.

now, there are all kinds of messy examinations, and exams are held every three to five. If there is something wrong with the reconciliation, it's really congratulations on winning the lottery, and it's better to stay up late. I haven't had a normal holiday, and I must be on duty every time. I went to work on the third day of this year.

Xiao Pao also said that they had a blind date with a sister recently. They had a good chat on WeChat, but when the man asked her to meet, the sister said that she was embarrassed and had to work overtime tonight. The second and third times were like this, which made people think that they were rejected by their sister, but in fact they were really working overtime. It was really dumb to eat Huanglian-there was nowhere to talk about it.

When one person enters a bank, the whole family helps

There is a saying in the banking industry that "when one person works in a bank, the whole family helps". Brother Jian's wife works in a bank. He often complains that the experience of being a family member of a bank employee is really bad, but sometimes he is helpless.

other people's wives' circle of friends are all taking selfies on dates. My wife's circle of friends is always about financial product announcements and various financial activities. I haven't left any APP downloads, deposits, credit cards, financial management and insurance behind. Anyway, there will always be various task indicators.

the key is that sometimes for the sake of performance, the whole family has to go out, and it is common for friends to forward it. Recently, it's even better. The bank's ETC is driving our whole family crazy. My wife also has 5 indicators on her back, and she has no performance and even deducted her salary. It's really speechless.

Now all the relatives, friends and classmates in our family have started their network, and we have contacted everyone we can, making everyone think that our micro-signal was stolen or we switched to Wechat business.

In addition to the main reasons for the above highlights, I also interviewed several single friends around me, and I heard some ironic answers, such as:

1. A bank teller is in a bad mood after working for a long time, and negative emotions are easy to accumulate. In case of strange customer complaints during the day, I can't lose my temper in the company, so I will become her punching bag or trash can when I go home that night.

2. When working in a bank, who will run the business and how much money is in the account are clear to all bank women. After a long time, their eyes will easily become higher. Once they meet a few local customers, it is easy to compare with their boyfriends/husbands, which ordinary people can't bear.

These angles are too strange. If a girl becomes arrogant when she sees rich people, she will take it out on her husband when she gets angry at work. I think her problem is not her professional attributes at all, but her personal mentality.

Of course, it is an undeniable fact that women in banks are busy at work. I have also heard old bank employees gossip that there are many new people who have caused family conflicts because they work too long.

I'm too busy at work to have time and energy to fall in love, and I don't have any new ways to meet others. Some people choose to cross-line digestion, and the hard-won blind date may be rejected because of their careers, and the married people may face the dilemma of not having time to take care of their families because of overtime work. Over time, bank women are list as "unmarried".

From an economic point of view, the essence of marriage is a transaction, and any transaction has risks, and the nature of work is only one of the risk factors. The "three don't marry" uploaded on the Internet, whether it's a bank woman, a teacher or a nurse, are just a job in society. Busy and tired may be the labels of their work, but how many jobs are there in this world that are not busy? If you want more achievements and money, except for the second generation, ordinary people need to exchange extra hard work and time as chips.

Furthermore, every coin has two sides. To put it another way, marrying a bank girl is equivalent to having a loyal and excellent financial planner at home. After all, they are familiar with many financial products and insurance routines, and it is certainly not difficult to increase family wealth.

There is no absoluteness in everything. The world of adults is already so difficult, so let's stop kidnapping each other with labels, right?