Why does my mother-in-law always look down on me?

A person's respect for another person can't be built by running away, but disgust can.

Whether the mother-in-law or daughter-in-law is accused or abused by the other party, it is through the acquiescence of this husband and son.

Without his acquiescence, it will not develop to the final state. As a representative of the failure to marry Phoenix Man, every time I turn around, I hate my former bad mother-in-law in the countryside.

She felt that her mother-in-law completely ruined her marriage, which was full of beautiful expectations and entered the abyss of chaos, full of quarrels and misfortunes, and eventually fell apart.

Her review often begins with her first visit to her mother-in-law's house.

After that, he was not only not warmly welcomed and entertained, but also forced to wash clothes, wash dishes and do all kinds of housework with cold water in the river in winter.

Even if she wants to take the dirty clothes home and wash them in the washing machine, it is considered immoral.

The future mother-in-law euphemistically says that all women here have to work, and men can't do housework, otherwise they will be looked down upon.

I don't know whether it is because of ignorance that my mother-in-law deeply believes that this theory is correct and forcibly implements it, or whether it is to give her a real scare when we meet for the first time, so that she can get rid of the Jiao Jiao spirit of city girls as soon as possible.

Anyway, she was discriminated against by sex, which made everyone feel reasonable, including her future husband who received higher education in the city.

From beginning to end, her husband didn't object.

By default, his mother's behavior is correct, and his future wife must do rough work at home, so as a man, she won't work.

The tragedy was doomed from the beginning, not because of the origin of Phoenix Man, but because of the way he treated his wife.

In this case, even if her husband stood up and said for him that it was wrong to criticize this idea, she would not be so hard and awkward under the guidance of this theory in the future. In fact, I always think that the unfair treatment of light light blue is not a mother-in-law's problem, but a husband's problem.

The mother-in-law's thinking limitation leads to her cognitive defects and backwardness in many things.

What she sees around her may be similar situations, and she thinks it is normal to do so.

But my husband is not!

He has received many years of education, has many years of experience in living and working in the city, and has seen more people and things different from the environment in which he grew up as a child, and his horizons have long been improved.

At least he has many classmates, friends and colleagues around him, and his lifestyle is not quite the same as that of his small mountain village.

But he didn't suffer unfair treatment to his wife, even if he had a little objection.

Similarly, when all her husband's relatives are unfair to her, women tend to take their anger out on the perpetrators, thinking that it is a problem of seven aunts and eight aunts, and its essence is the husband's problem.

Where was your husband when you were treated unfairly?

Did he do anything to protect you? Did he say anything to protect you?

Don't!

That's why others are getting worse.

If your wife is treated unfairly by strangers, do you think you should stand up as a husband?

Why is unfair treatment automatically acquiesced by relatives?

When there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the most helpless thing is the turtle husband.

I mean, a timid husband, hanging on his style, either turns a blind eye, listens but doesn't hear, or hides outside the door for peace, thinking that the world would be peaceful without his participation?

You are the key to this relationship. If you don't do it, the contradiction will further escalate and the relationship will further deteriorate.

You are the blending agent, the lubricating oil and the main force of coordination and communication.

Turtle Pie's husband is so noisy. This is between you two women, not me.

I don't care, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law naturally disappears, and the world is at peace.