How to deal with people who sow discord?

Talk about this with other friends when joking.

Some words between friends will spread quickly, especially if you talk about another friend with other friends, then your words will soon spread to that friend's ears. When you have friends who sow discord around you, you are in your circle of friends, pretending not to care, just like telling jokes. Let all your friends know what the people who sow discord say. In this way, you don't have to say much, and others can guess the purpose of those who sow discord. Even if others can't guess, then those who sow discord must know what to do and will properly restrain their words and deeds.

1, talk to the angered person.

In our life and work, such people can be seen everywhere, as if afraid of chaos in the world. Such people are also partly jealous. For example, if you have a close relationship with someone and get along well, they will be jealous and hate, so they will try to separate you, and then they will anger you and find your friends. In this case, you should take the time to casually mention this matter to your friends, let them know that others are provoking the relationship between you, and don't let them believe that others are provoking you. When you and your friend's words are right together, the purpose of others' provocation will naturally be exposed to the world, so that you and your friend will not be provoked by others and their relationship will deteriorate.

2, save your mind to know the truth.

Dudu has always been a trustworthy psychology for people who like to sow discord in my ear. If I pay attention to that matter, or I pay attention to that person, then I will be indifferent, I won't ask questions, I won't pretend I don't understand, it's just faint, so that the other party can't see what my psychology is. And I will quietly observe myself, quietly make an observation on this matter, at least let myself know that what that person said is true or false. If it is true, I will try to deal with it. If it is false, I will naturally try my best to make the person who annoys me understand that I already know what lied to me. Don't treat me like a fool. Only in this way can we accurately judge the character of things, the other party and the angered personnel, so as not to be a fool angered by Chen Gong, and not to be a fool who has been reminded and kept in the dark.

There are no close contacts.

When you are sure that this friend around you belongs to the type who likes to sow discord, you should pay attention to stay away from each other as much as possible in your daily life and don't have too many close contacts with such people. With such people, you will never have real friends, because all friends who are sincere and kind to you will be provoked away from you, and there will only be a "friend" around you who will never treat you as a friend.

What's more hateful is that after a long time, it is estimated that you will become that kind of person, because in the eyes of all people, those who are close to Zhu Zhechi are close to the ink and those who are black. If you can become friends with a person who loves to sow discord, then you are not a good bird. So please remember, try to stay away from such people, get into such a villain, and you will be troubled for life.