The wife and husband live in the same room.

Because the background and reasons of the problem are very complicated, if your wife doesn't want to share a room with you, I suggest you respect her first, try to communicate with each other and understand her thoughts and reasons.

Sexual life is part of the relationship between husband and wife, but not all. The lack of sexual life may be caused by physical reasons, psychological reasons and living environment. You can discuss ways to solve problems with your wife, such as seeking medical help, improving your family environment and adjusting your mentality together.

In any case, respecting and understanding each other's wishes and feelings is the premise to solve the problem. At the same time, I suggest that you can seek the help of professional family and marriage counselors to solve problems together and build a healthier family.