How incompetent is a man cheating?

Some men regard cheating as a skill and domestic violence as a skill, and feel that they are great. In fact, such people are the most incompetent. Do not know how to cherish, do not know how to protect, only know how to do things worse than animals, not ashamed but proud, and finally deserve a divorce. As long as women are not stupid, no one wants to stay with such men all the time, because they are not worth relying on, and even the most stable life can't be given to women. No woman will leave them if she is alive and comfortable.

What do women get married for? Every woman can say one, two and three. No one gets married to cheat and be abused. They all want to be good and happy. Even if it is not a happy marriage, at least they should be able to live well. But men can't do it, can't give it, and leave. Of course, there are also women who break the jar and fall, let them beat and scold, and let them cheat. You can indulge yourself so much, and you won't live happily anyway.

I once had dinner with several married men. They are always comparing who is cheating, who is in charge at home, who is cheating and who encourages others to be cruel to their wives. I really can't blend in with them. I left in the middle of eating and never contacted those people again. In their eyes, I may be an alternative. Alternative is alternative! I won't do what they do anyway.

Those people mentioned above are all people without strong points. Everyone lives a normal life and feels great. In their view, if you get married, you will succeed, and if you get married, you can do whatever you want. Actually, they are all incompetent men. The most incompetent person came to a terrible end.

This man's name is Quan. He is a typical person who dresses up as a pig and eats a tiger. He gets along well with those friends, but outside their circle, he can be said to be a useless person. But the more such people are, the less willing they are to jump out of that comfort zone. They only keep people who are worse than themselves and always compare with them, thus bursting with superiority and thinking that they are great.

He married a daughter-in-law named Xiaoyu through blind date. She is an honest woman who seldom talks and has traditional ideas about marriage. She felt that marrying Ah Quan was destiny takes a hand, and she had to obey.

Kohane's character further inspired Ah Quan's self-righteousness. Kohane has been very obedient. In order to show his "male chauvinism", he always yells at her in front of others, making others think that he is a man who is not afraid of his wife. Others will naturally give him a false compliment and say that he is "great". He thought he was very useful, so he got worse and worse.

His character, cheating doesn't consider the consequences at all. He thinks Kohane is obedient and cowardly anyway. It doesn't matter what he thinks, but Kohane can't care about him anyway. He not only cheats himself, but also encourages others to cheat him. He always shows off his "record" to his friends, saying that men should be like this and that men should not be with only one woman. He is right. He didn't finish his speech happily until his friends finally gave him a thumbs-up and said he was great.

Xiao Yu is obedient, cowardly and resigned, but after all, he is a man with thoughts and life. She can't be indifferent to her husband's infidelity. At first she pretended to turn a blind eye, but she couldn't feel comfortable. Especially when outsiders allude to something, she feels more comfortable. So she summoned up her courage and asked Ah Quan to stop cheating and return to his family.

Ah Quan, a supercilious person, certainly won't listen to Kohane. At first it was perfunctory, then it was pretending to be obedient, and then it was impatient. He began to fight back, saying that Kohane was meddling, that she was meddling too much, and that she should not tell her husband what to do.

Kohane didn't cry or make trouble, but asked him to go back to his family. This is the kind of calm request he has been asking for. As a result, he was completely annoyed, and he was violently abused. And this kind of thing is out of control, and he won't quibble after that. As long as kohane said to let him go back to his family, he would immediately start work.

Knowing this, the ignorant mother-in-law advised Xiaoyu to talk less and let her turn a blind eye instead of disciplining her son. But Xiao Yu is still asking, Ah Quan continues his domestic violence.

This state seems to be a normal state, but one day, the tortured light rain suddenly broke out. She quietly hired a lawyer to sue for divorce. Collected a lot of evidence of domestic violence and infidelity. As a result, Ah Quan was caught off guard.

No one expected that Xiao Yu would become a "few words" role. For a long time, everyone thought she was the kind of person who would be weak and bullied by men all her life. She divorced Ah Quan and didn't go home, so she went to other places and went to a friend's house.

Ah Quan, a self-righteous supercilious look, was finally sued for divorce, which seriously dealt a blow to his self-esteem and self-confidence. Incompetent, he felt that he had lost all his face and couldn't lift his head in front of others. The cows he had blown before eventually became an excuse for others to laugh at him.

In this case, he felt that the only way to save face was to remarry with Kohane, so he went to other places to find Kohane.

At that time, he felt that he could dominate everything, and that after finding Kohane, he would let her remarry anyway. However, Kohane's friends are boyfriend and girlfriend, and Kohane has been with them and won't let them run wild. His strength turned into weakness in front of everyone, not just pretending or from the heart. He cried and begged Kohane to remarry with him. "Wife, please, love me again, ok?" I must repent and never cheat again! "

He only mentioned infidelity, not domestic violence. Kohane didn't care. She just refused decisively and said nothing else. Ah Quan tried to pull her forward, but was stopped by Kohane's friend. They left with Kohane, but Ah Quan found nothing and had to go home despondently.

He thought that his friends would help him with advice, sympathize with himself and play with them. However, those people are snobs, just like he did at the beginning, and don't take him seriously because he is not as good as himself. No one respects him and secretly returns.

A truly capable man will strictly abide by the bottom line of marriage and his own principles. Not only will he not fail to keep up with others, but he also has a wife and his own marriage in his eyes, can recognize his role and will try to be a good husband.

A really good husband will protect his marriage and cherish his wife instead of destroying and betraying it. They will regard loving their wives and improving the quality of their marriage as their own ability, rather than taking such heinous mistakes as infidelity and domestic violence as their own ability.

Why can excellent men live better and better, and incompetent men live worse and worse? The above is the reason mentioned. A good man has self-knowledge, can recognize himself, do what he should do and make himself truly great. And incompetent men have no self-knowledge, regard ignorance as fearless, and always think they are great. Time tries all. Whether what you have done is right or wrong will eventually be known. Every man has the hope of being a good person, provided that you have the consciousness of being a good person, and I hope every man can reflect.