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What I have been doing has been very difficult. Sometimes I am very happy when I see my colleagues around me, and I feel that I am really nothing.

People who talk about misfortune are usually called "Sister Xianglin", so they avoid it, but few people can know the pain in their hearts. They talk about their misfortunes because their hearts can't hold other new things except the shock left by the unfortunate events at the beginning, and they can't enjoy other pleasures brought by life. Their hearts have been immersed in the traumatic events of the past. People around him took him to see the flowers and birds, the blue sky and white clouds, hoping that he could live a better life, but in his view, this was wishful thinking of people around him, but they could not understand their own pain and tried to pull him out of it without considering his mood.

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Misfortune is always talked about because people can only talk about what they care about. You can't expect a scholar not to talk about books, and you can't expect a gambler not to talk about dice, so you can't expect an injured person not to talk about his injuries, because the wounds haven't healed and his heart is still bleeding, so this is what he cares about most at the moment and the only thing he wants to talk about with others. I talk about misfortune because I hope to get attention and sympathy from others and accumulate strength for myself. When people are in a psychological crisis, it is easy to lose their psychological energy. At this time, people will instinctively seek help from their relatives and friends, and will heal their inner scars by telling and remembering over and over again. Relatives and friends will patiently persuade and empathize with tears, which will inject new strength into the parties to face and accept the reality.

Generally speaking, most people just see that the injured people like to talk about their sadness, but they don't want to get close to these people's hearts to understand why they do it and what they can do to make them come out faster. Naturally, they will come up and ask such questions. Always talking about misfortune is actually a kind of "violent addiction". Shan Wenxu wrote a story called "Duckworm". The heroine Kokura suffered from breast cancer. Although it was not life-threatening after the examination, she still had one breast removed. After that, she suddenly had a habit in her life, that is, from time to time, she would use the story of "Duckworm" as an introduction to tell others about her illness. She stirred up the party atmosphere, making strangers feel at a loss after listening to it, and making her boyfriend Bao Jie, who has been with her all the time, more and more bored. In fact, Kokura is really a poor person. At the age of 26, she should have enjoyed a good time of youth, but the sudden cancer made her fall into physical and mental torture, and her boyfriend at that time was scared to run away. But she is not a miserable mess. Her new boyfriend, Bao Jie, is with her and her parents have always loved her. In the end, she escaped the clutches of death and her life can be continued completely.