Parents have a stable pension. Do you still need to give money to your parents when you are a child?

First, whether the child gives money to his parents reflects whether the child has parents in his heart.

My parents are in the countryside. They raised me hard and got married. When my parents get old, they will lose their labor force. The loss of labor force in rural areas means no income. I have been sending money to the elderly since I started working. After my father was ill, my mother and brothers had to take care of him, so I paid for my parents' daily living expenses. I never waited for them to ask for it, and neither did they. I offered it to them. I used to mail it through the post office and then send it to their cards through the bank. I plan the money for my parents as my living expenses. I think it is our duty and responsibility to give money to our parents, that is, to provide for their old age. I think that only when parents are happy can our children be happy.

Second, life should have a sense of ceremony.

My parents-in-law used to have a salary, but now they have a pension, which is inexhaustible. No matter before or now, we usually visit them every time and never come back empty-handed. Be sure to give money on holidays, not only to give money, but also to buy them a lot of food, food and clothes. I think what we give to the elderly and what the elderly give us are two different things. What we give to the elderly is our respect for them, which also shows that we have them in our hearts. This is what I call a sense of ceremony. Let the old people know that we are thinking of them, caring for them and making them feel happy and satisfied.

Third, the wealth of the elderly has nothing to do with whether our children give money and whether they are filial. If it is not handled properly, it will often lead to contradictions between the elderly and their children.

That's my next-door neighbor, and his son's behavior is improper. Because of the high pension for the elderly, my son thinks that the elderly don't need to buy things for them, let alone give money, so he usually goes to see them with his mouth on Sundays and doesn't do anything for them. The old man bought food and cooked. As soon as his son and his family finished eating, he pushed the bowl and wiped his mouth.

The old man and his son are angry about whether to give money. Later, at the request of the old man, my son also gave money on holidays, but he was not so willing and always trembled. I remember the year before last, my son only gave the old man 500 yuan for the New Year. The old man got angry and gave 500 yuan back. The old man is quite picky. The old man means not giving a penny all the year round, and only giving 500 yuan for the New Year. Old people are too few and feel that their sons should not take so little. Because of giving money to the elderly, the relationship between the elderly and the children has not been handled well. The old man thinks that children are unreasonable. What do children think old people need so much money for?

I don't think my neighbor's son did it right. In fact, the elderly, especially those with pensions, are not necessarily interested in how much money their children give. What they care about is whether there are old people in their children's hearts. In a sense, giving money is just a form. If children can care more about the elderly at ordinary times and often think about what they eat and drink, I think the elderly will be warm in their hearts.