What can teenagers do for the western development?

Jun who is doing propaganda work in a county of Lu Yu. Q: "Are you busy recently?" Yes, he said, "it's hard to travel around the mountains." I asked again, "Chun Geng has been busy consolidating the Party. Why do you have to run around? Why are you so at a loss? " Right: "Wen is a mountain, it must be the sea, and it is like swimming in mountains and rivers."

When you sigh, you complain bitterly: everyone says that propaganda work is important, but in fact you say "important" when you need it, and no one cares when you don't need it. Grassroots propaganda departments, in particular, want to do a few tangible things, but they can't. There is a simple reason. No matter the meetings held by Party committees, governments and their departments, the Propaganda Department should be called "lead" to show its attention. In fact, it should be for you to inform the meeting, hold up slogans, hang meeting signs, write slogans, clean up the venue and so on. Not only that, the propaganda department should "write carefully" at every meeting, otherwise it will be suspected of "not paying attention to or supporting a certain work"; When drafting documents, the propaganda department should "carefully scrutinize" the words, otherwise it will leave a bad name of "putting on airs and playing with attitudes". What's more, some leading comrades like to talk often and make long speeches, but when talking about necessary drafts, they must see the "weight". But if you see three or two pages, it will be regarded as "sloppy"; You feel "you have worked hard" when your hands are heavy. Jun finally said with great emotion and humor, "In this way, how can Wenshan not climb higher and higher and become a majestic mountain?" How can the meeting sea not accumulate wider and wider, and form an endless sea of suffering? And we went to Wenshan all day, swimming around in the sea, uninterested and exhausted, knowing that we were doing' things that don't compete for food' and had to do it. Bitter, hard! "

After listening to your speech, I felt a lot. Why can't we remove the "mountain" and fill in the "sea"? In the final analysis, the number of people who build mountains and seas has not decreased, but has increased day by day. The "mountain" is high and the "sea" is wide, so people who really want to dig the "mountain" and fill the "sea" naturally gather. In this way, those who really want to dig "mountain" and fill "sea" feel powerless, and can only look at "mountain" and sigh and look at "sea" in amazement. From this point of view, to stop the wind of "sightseeing", a leading organ must make up its mind to cut down meetings and documents and stop man-made "mountains" and "seas", so that "tourists" will naturally decrease; Second, the necessary meetings and documents will be kept simple, and people who want to "swim" will be discouraged; Third, the propaganda department, secretaries and other service personnel should also have some "strikes" and "demonstrations", that is, they should do well, but not resolutely, so as not to dig up unnecessary "tours." All parties cooperate, just like the old foolish old man takes the lead and his son, grandson and neighbors help him. Why are you worried that the mountain can't fall and the sea can't be filled? The mountain inclines to the sea, and those who swim in the mountains rest.

1986 May 2 1

At present, in rural areas, the peasant masses hate the unhealthy trend of some party member cadres who abuse power for personal gain. They earnestly hope that grass-roots party organizations will strictly abide by the party's discipline and seriously solve this problem in this party consolidation. Recently, the author conducted an investigation on this, and now lists the performance of 12 in this respect as a mirror for rural party member cadres.

Divide the land well and pull the cows well. Some people take the opportunity of implementing the contract responsibility system of joint production and take the method of competing for secrets to delimit flat land and fertile land for themselves and raise fat cows and strong horses at low prices. The masses dare to be angry and dare not speak, so they have to submit to humiliation. This is the first kind.

Get subsidies, not officers. These people rely on subsidies from the masses to run their own comfort zones. They don't learn or convey instructions from their superiors, and they don't listen to or ask questions about collective affairs. The masses said, "This is worse than using an open flame for personal gain." This is the second kind.

Relying on power, many people occupy Zhuangji indiscriminately. Obviously, the superior demarcated 3 points, but he stubbornly circled 5 points; Obviously, the superior designated this piece, but he wanted to build the house in that piece. When the masses react, they bully and don't correct. This is the third kind.

Make excuses and embezzle collective property. Houses, large-scale agricultural machinery and other things left by the collective are rented or sold, and daily funds are used for the welfare of the masses. In fact, they either occupy them for free or misappropriate or divide the proceeds. This is the fourth kind.

Corruption and theft infringe upon the interests of the masses. Or deduct money from the masses to enrich themselves; Or embezzle and misappropriate various fines to fill private vacancies; Or turn collective things into private things in the name of borrowing; Or cut down collective trees and steal in public; Wait a minute. This kind of thing has many names. This is the fifth kind. Deceive superiors and delude subordinates, and arrange recruitment for relatives of children. Higher-level recruitment, including private teachers, makes every effort to arrange children or relatives to go, and sometimes holds mass meetings, but it is just a formality. This is the sixth kind.

Fool the masses and give away the collective cause. When organizing the contracting of collective enterprises or other economic projects, such as automobiles, tractors, oil mills, etc. The masses are allowed to bid voluntarily in public, but the indicators are lowered in secret and contracted by themselves or to relatives and friends. This is the seventh kind.

Accept bribes and trade with the principle of party spirit. As long as you treat me as a gift, I will give you some benefits; Or illegally issue a certificate to obtain a marriage certificate; Or privately divide the wood indicators allocated by superiors; Or lie about the population and apply for Zhuang base; Or intercede for personal gain in a case; What's more, they use "party votes" as compensation. Vulgarize the principles of a political party. This is the eighth kind.

"Power" shares, grab ill-gotten gains. Take the power entrusted by the party and the people as shares, join the village-run enterprises, and pay dividends at the end of the year. Enterprise contractors know all the details, but they have to do so for convenience or mutual use. This is the ninth kind.

It's easy to get the moon first, and most of them account for preferential loans, subsidies and cheap materials. Interest-free or low-interest loans, difficult subsidies and cheap fertilizers, wood, pesticides and other scarce materials allocated by superiors are not published or audited, and are secretly distributed among several cadres. As for what the masses urgently need, they completely ignore it. This is the tenth kind.

Make a fuss about weddings and funerals to make money and things. Weddings and funerals are deliberately publicized and do a lot of things. It is said to be "reciprocal", but in fact it is just that it can't get in, or it can't get in more. This not only ruined the party style, but also polluted the social atmosphere. This is the eleventh kind.

Build private houses, use less materials to save money, and use labor for free. Bricks and tiles used for building repair are transported at will, with a nominal fee; The craftsmen and laborers used are unpaid. It seems that the villagers volunteered to help, but in fact it was because of power. This is the twelfth kind.

Due to the different levels of economic development in different regions and the situation of party organizations, the manifestations of unhealthy tendencies may be inconsistent and different, but they are incompatible with party spirit and contrary to party discipline. In the rural Party consolidation, the only correct attitude is for party member cadres who abuse power for personal gain to study hard, improve their consciousness, check and correct themselves, and purify their souls.

65438+August 0986

When talking about the unhealthy trend in the current cadre ranks, a comrade said, for example, "Some people volunteer and reach out for officials ... It is right to criticize those vulgar behaviors of those who do not want to do great things but seek to be big officials. However, this is really unfair to Shi Mao. As a diner of Zhao, he volunteered to go to Chu for help to help his master complete the important task of persuading the king of Chu to unite against Qin. In today's words, he is trying to do "great things". Although he was skeptical at first, he raised his sword on the stage at the critical moment and calmly went to the temple, stating the interests of the king of Chu in the joint anti-Qin campaign, and finally persuaded the king of Chu to form an alliance with him on the spot, which made great contributions to Zhao.

Between doing things and being an official, there are two kinds of morality and tolerance: standing and being a man. Mao Sui followed Ping Yuanjun for three years, but he never did anything great. The reason is that, in Ping Yuanjun's words, "a person is really talented,' If the awl is in the bag, it will never be seen', but you have followed me for three years, but you have not seen any skills." Mao Sui said, "I recommend myself to you now, that is, please put me in a cloth bag. If you let me in earlier, I will stand out. " Obviously, Mao Sui's unhappy thought is that the "superior" didn't give him a chance to do "great things", instead of reaching out for an "official" first and then doing "things" for people to see. I think this is what makes Mao Sui admirable!

Think about doing great things, not being a big official. This is very pertinent, but why is it so difficult to do it? In fact, the difficulty is that some people always value "officials" many times more than "things". In other words, he has no "genius" and "unique skills", but he always wants to be a more prominent "official" than his position. Just because my stomach is empty but I don't blink in the official position, I often compare my "skill" with others: XXX is lower than me and XXX is not as good as me, so why use him instead of me? As a result, rebellious mentality prevailed over reason: if I was not allowed to be an "official", I would be lazy, unable to do great things or small things. What do you do? This is really sad!

The construction of the four modernizations is the only way for a prosperous country and a prosperous nation, and it is also an era when all kinds of talents "stand out". In this great historical torrent, everyone has the opportunity to give full play to his literary and artistic talents, because there are many "great events" and "important things" in front of us that are done by people and also by people. In order to do a "great event" and "important thing" well, the organization can designate someone to do it, and "volunteers" can of course recommend themselves. It is worrying not to do things with bold and realistic spirit, but to reach out for an "official" with bold courage.

1August 7, 986

Some people think that reusing recruiters is "flattering son-in-law and offending son", but I don't think so.

As the saying goes, "a son-in-law is half a son." Recruiting people from good places to hard places, from large units to small units, in order to help us do a good job in production and increase economic benefits, we should work together, lose money, and benefit from it. This is the same as being a "son" at home. How can we treat it differently?

Generally speaking, when a son-in-law comes to the door, his family and neighbors should also pay special attention. Because I'm new here, I'm a stranger, and I haven't adapted in all aspects. It's not too much to give them some discounts locally. If you don't look at people's skills,

I don't want to marry my son-in-law, because I think he will always be an outsider in the eyes of others. Secondly, I will artificially freeze the relationship between son-in-law and son, which will lead to discord in the whole family.

On the other hand, as the head of the family, you can't kiss this, kiss that, you have.

The "son-in-law" forgets the "son". If the "son" has any difficulties in life, he should help them solve them in time. As for those "son-in-law", since they have settled in their husband's family, they should not always regard themselves as "son-in-law" but become real "sons" soon. A good relationship between "son" and "son-in-law" can lead to a harmonious family and a beautiful life.

65438+September 0986

Although newspapers in the Party sometimes applaud each other and call each other "comrades", there are always some leading comrades who have a low mood of life, not only "change their faces when they are lenient", but also especially like being called "a secretary" and "a director", otherwise they look sad, which is of course deplorable and must be corrected.

However, I also found that there is another typical "official" in life: his work is mediocre, he is jealous of others, his style is sloppy, and he often does business by abusing power for personal gain. But wherever he goes, he always calls himself a "public servant" and an "ordinary member", and he is good at saying "we" with this "long" and that "long". Even those who occasionally call them "officials". It's actually a show! The purpose is to build a reputation for being approachable and amiable. This is more hypocritical than people who are unhappy without their official titles.

However, how many people only pay attention to the appearance and not the essence! Once, several old friends got together to talk about a gentleman's work ability and achievements, and everyone agreed. However, when it comes to his treatment of people, it is full of arguments and many regrets. To sum up, one day "put on airs with friends after promotion"; The next day, "I heard that he likes to be called so-and-so long." A friend also said indignantly, "If he remains the same in the future, I will break up with him." At that time, I really admired my friend's character and sense of justice. However, after admiring him, I came up with an idea: if this gentleman is full all day and lives in a place where officials are fatuous, but everyone is either a brother or a brother, he is a lovely and naive person, and I don't know how people should evaluate him!

China people pay attention to ideology and despise reality, which is really a root cause. Some people work actively and seriously, and can create a new situation, but they are often discredited by some rumors such as "I like to hear people call him XXX"; Some people do smile "on an equal footing" when they meet people, but they are not sneaking around for "house, ticket, son" or the convenience of the baby's three aunts and six grandmothers, but are regarded as amiable and lovely leaders. Isn't this a strange phenomenon today? Yao!

Speaking of which, I really appreciate the virtues of heroes in water margin: although Zhang Shun refused to accept Li Kui jy when it came to the ranking of his own honor, "I drowned him half to death in Jiangzhou"; Lu Da looked down on Lin Chong. "The wild boar forest saved his life because of the stick." But, at ordinary times, they are doers who take the lead in every war. I think these doers are probably much more useful and pure than those who are good at planning for their own interests but are used to winning people's hearts with "self-modesty".

Of course, no matter inside or outside the Party, people who are "officials" should not be carried away by "long" voices, even if they have real talents and great achievements, because "killing people" will also kill people.

Inappropriate, it is for the sake of "anti-tune". I hope this "anti-tune" will stop singing.

1986 65438+February 17

From time to time, my family cut out words about the dangers of smoking from the newspaper and showed them to me, urging me to quit smoking. As for me, although I swore to give up, I also came to make up for the loss at home-to make my office and business trip a hero's place. Unexpectedly, it didn't take long to reveal the clue: once, in a rage, my wife took out my newly opened "golden monkey" from her pocket in front of the guests, crushed it into pieces, and pointed at my black and yellow hand and revealed, "Can it fool me?"

Nowadays, smoking has stopped, but the word "coax" has been lingering in my mind for a long time.

In one area, the reported planting area has increased greatly year by year, but after many years, barren hills are still everywhere, and soil erosion is serious, which has been "coaxed" badly; A county has a reputation of one thousand kilograms of grain per capita every year, and almost one-third of people eat the grain sold back every year, which is "coaxed"; A "civilized unit" handed down scriptures and sent treasures everywhere, but when it was really inspected, it found that management was chaotic and problems piled up, so it had to be delisted and inscribed, and it was "coaxed" into bankruptcy; A "dual-civilization enterprise" with various awards, but it happened that a big rogue theft gang broke out and was "coaxed" into a disaster; A well-known "reformer" appeared in newspapers and on the radio and turned out to be a real liar. "Coaxing" is inevitable ... It is not an individual fact similar to Arabian Nights, but it clearly exists in real life.

Because of work, I often encounter all kinds of report materials. Very strange! When it comes to experience, it is natural and mysterious. When it comes to experience, it's all A, B, C and D. When it comes to harvest, it's all 1234. But when it comes to problems and shortcomings, it's all vague words, which often make people ponder for a long time and fail to achieve their goals. Over time, I finally caught a glimpse of a big word between the lines: coax, and saw its "art"

This art is rich: first, coaxing and coaxing. For the superior, no matter what experience you want, I can write ten pages and eight pages at once, all of which I have done, not done, thought and heard, and I am not happy if I don't believe the leader; For subordinates, painting cakes to satisfy hunger means quenching thirst with plum. Second, coax before and after. It's quite innovative to make a confession of a "cause" and a "defect" and then make a lot of wishes for what I vowed to do before patting my chest. Third, coax inside and coax outside. Coaxing means treating the masses as sinus and not letting them know the truth; To deceive the outside world is to hide the shortcomings, the "defeat" and the dirty clothes, and the cheaters are also deceived. However, most people who "coax" have an obvious * * * nature, that is, coax the public not to coax the private, or coax others not to coax themselves. You can coax public affairs, but you don't pay taxes anyway; Self-interest is unsuccessful, even if you buy food in the market, you have to dig back a penny and never be careless.

I thought the wind of "coaxing" (and it was strong) was endless and was covered by coaxing. Knowing that subordinates are full of words, but not stopping them, laissez-faire is to tolerate "coaxing"; The greater your grades, the more nourishing my heart, because the greater your grades, the more proof that I am a good leader, and I like to "coax"; If you can coax and justify yourself, I will praise you a few more words, that is, "coax"; The material you submitted has the moisture of "coaxing". In order to fully affirm my achievements, I try to polish and add "weights" to help "coax"; You can fool me, but ask, "How did you report it?" There is progress and retreat, which is a vertical "coax"; When something goes wrong, the superior goes down to investigate the responsibility of his subordinates, and then stands up and says "the responsibility will be borne by me" to prevaricate. This is a cover-up.

In the ancient private school in China, in order to earn a bowl of rice, the pedant always found those rich children fooling themselves. He muttered, "You are fooling me, I am fooling your father's money!" Coaxed his wife, one by one, a figure occupying 30 places. What will happen to those people whose families are ruined and their lives are fragmented, who now regard coaxing as fun, pride and official airs? God knows.

In fact, "coaxing" is magical, and there is a good way to quit "coaxing". The best way is to truly restore the thinking and style of seeking truth from facts. Leading comrades at all levels denounced "coaxing" as soon as they heard it, became angry as soon as they saw it, exposed it as soon as they touched it, and thoroughly investigated it afterwards. It's strange that "coaxing" doesn't stop there!

1987 65438+1October 22nd

When I was a child, my family education was very strict. One of them warned me to be modest when meeting people outside. Grandpa often says to me, "Depend on your parents at home and your friends when you go out." Be sweet when asking for directions. Call your uncle when you meet your elders, and your brother when you meet your peers. It is impolite to talk to people for nothing. When I am old, I will do as my grandfather says, and adults say I am "sensible". After taking part in the work, I saw that others, regardless of age, regardless of gender, were all comrades. I want to call people "uncle", "aunt", "brother" and "little brother" again, but I feel awkward.

However, two things I heard and witnessed recently made me reflect on the issue of address. Once I went to Qujiangchi for a spring outing, I met a group of young men and women on the roadside. The man shouted, "Comrade, show me first." That one called, "Comrade, I'm in a hurry. Show me. " -competing to read the fortune teller's palm. Another time, when I went to the Eight Immortals Temple, I met a gentle young man and asked an old man, "Comrade, what god is worshipped in this temple?" The old man was unhappy: "We monks don't believe in God." The old-fashioned answer angered the young man, who shouted at the back: "It's nonsense to be a monk and not believe in God!" People need to tell fortune and ask sophisticated people for scientific knowledge, etiquette and common sense. Needless to say, the name "Comrade" is enough to make people laugh and cry.

The relationship between people in socialist society should be more friendly and harmonious. Nothing in our party is more cordial than calling yourself a "comrade". However, social members are multi-level, and the appellations in interpersonal relationships should also be diverse. If people can't listen to "comrades" and "teachers", it will be less harmonious with our colorful social life. Man is an emotional animal. A greeting of "good grandparents", "good uncles and aunts" and "good little brothers and sisters" will make people feel particularly cordial and natural, and it seems to promote the emotional exchange between people at once. So I thought, if in our public places, in addition to "comrade" and "master", there are some other humanized and different titles, which will be more beneficial to society! For example, there is a contradiction between the two sides for a little thing, such as one side shouting "Big Brother, let's forgive each other." It will help to eliminate contradictions.

China is recognized as a country of civilization and etiquette in the world. Of course, this kind of etiquette is reflected in the address of people, either "old man, old woman" or "eldest brother, eldest sister-in-law". It is really a harmonious feeling! Today, many of our revolutionary veterans have returned to their hometowns or places where they once worked and fought, and they still don't change the names they used to call people. In the new era of building socialist spiritual civilization and establishing new interpersonal relationships, it is precisely our hope that more cordial appellations will gradually return to people's daily lives and gradually form an atmosphere.

1March 26, 987

"Don't be afraid, I will be responsible for the accident." "The problem lies below, but the responsibility lies with our leadership and I am responsible."

As a leader, in the face of problems in work, he will not shirk, dare to take responsibility, reassure the masses and make the superior leaders happy.

It should be said that there are many comrades who are consistent in their words and deeds and dare to be responsible. However, for some leading cadres, such words are often mentioned, but the actual situation is another matter.

Please see:

A grand construction project was successful, but it was found that the quality was donkey dung eggs-the light outside. The problem was reflected in the above, and the competent leader stood up and said, "The responsibility lies with me, and I am responsible", and it will go away; The complete set of equipment purchased at a high price has been exposed to the sun and rain for a long time and has been seriously damaged. Relevant departments criticized this, and the directly responsible leader said, "Blame me for carelessness, I will review, and I will be responsible", and everything will be fine; Due to the lax discipline and dereliction of duty of employees, the judicial department should deal with major mechanical accidents according to law. An "enlightened" leader also privately wrote: "The responsibility for this matter is not below, but I will be responsible", reducing the problem to a secondary issue. This situation of replacing responsibility, punishment and law with words can be said to be common in life.

As far as the general public is concerned, there are indeed many people who have developed a certain habit. Although the interests of the state and the collective are watched helplessly, since the leader said "I am responsible", what can he say? As for the "negative" method, who will check it and who will get to the bottom of it?

As far as some leading comrades are concerned, it is the country that is damaged anyway, and many troubles will be wiped out in one sentence! Besides, "Don't wash your dirty linen in public", if things get too big, everyone will get hurt. Why bother? Therefore, "I am responsible" has become synonymous with "I don't want to be responsible at all" and is regarded by some people as a magic weapon to shirk responsibility. If you don't let go, you can only use these three words to prevaricate.

I think there should be a serious atmosphere in our social life. Whether it is reward or punishment, we should be meticulous and meticulous. Whoever should be fired will be fired, and whoever should go to jail will go to jail. Having done this, we will see who dares to shout "I am responsible" irresponsibly.

1987 May 1

When I first arrived in the south, my friend joked, "You old Shaanxi talk like a quarrel." I was very unhappy after listening to it, so I retorted, "It's terrible for you to speak loudly!" We didn't argue about whose words were good. It was not until later that I went out many times and got used to listening to the southern accent and made a comparison that I gradually realized a truth: both Mandarin and dialect slang can't lack elegance and excitement, but it's best to speak softly.

In life, there are often scenes where two people (or a lot of people) have conflicts because of something. Instead of humorously stating their reasons and letting the public comment, they are arguing loudly, cursing each other, constantly waving their arms, leaning forward and making a fight. Looking at their psychology is nothing more than trying to overwhelm each other with a high voice. To tell the truth, every time I meet this scene, my heart will tighten. In addition to austerity, it also adds a bit of bitterness, which is mixed with some sadness.

Interpersonal communication is about emotional integration. Speaking with gentle tone, soft tone and humorous expression is an important medium to enhance feelings. In the world, there will be no angry words and no happy words. Throughout the ages, why are the ways of doing business always based on the motto "Harmony is the most valuable way to make money"? I think this kind of "harmony" is a free emotional investment, because it only needs a smile, thoughtful service, humility and courtesy to customers. Since "harmony" can "make money", why not produce understanding, friendship, harmony and unity?

A comfortable and beautiful living environment is what everyone is eager for. But this kind of environment is not only surrounded by flowers and trees, pavilions and waterside pavilions, but also has fresh air and convenient supply. More importantly, the relationship between people has improved. If people meet, talk and buy and sell, talk more softly and less loudly; More elegance and tacit understanding, less frivolous and vulgar; More introspection and self-blame, less pretentious, and gradually form a. Universal language atmosphere, which is another level of beauty and comfort.

Besides, after living in a busy city for a long time, who doesn't want to find a quiet place to go? I am afraid of being too close to the road and being afraid of noise when I divide the house; Listening to radio and watching TV doesn't want to be too loud, but likes to relax; Even if the husband and wife talk back, they often accuse each other: "You are so loud and eat people." Hope for peace. You can see the exhortation of "quiet" in the hospital, the notice of "no loud noise" in the theater, and so on. All these directly reflect the wishes of the overwhelming majority of people and the sincere love of society for every citizen. In this case, we have reason to ask people: in order to "purify" and "beautify" the living environment, please speak softly, gently and humorously, and truly "speak beautifully"!

123 May 987

I remember when I was a child, I was often beaten by my father. Every time my father beat me, my mother always quarreled with my father to protect me. Mother said, "You broke all the dolls." Father retorted, "If you don't fight for three days, you will go to the house to uncover tiles and get used to it. I would rather give my baby a kind heart than a beautiful face. Don't you know the truth that' beating is pro, scolding is love'? " At first, I really hated my father. Later, I realized that fathers love mothers in the same way, but in different ways.

Now, I am also a father. But it's ridiculous. The older the child is, the less I know how to be a father: I do what my father taught me, and I've tried and tested, and I've read monographs such as How to Educate an Only Child, but all of them have no effect. I'm really confused.

One of the puzzles is that my parents' doting is far beyond my teaching. I don't understand. My father used to play "the king's law" on me, but now he dotes on his grandson in every way and doesn't let me make any noise. The child imitates boxing. He aimed at the chest and the child hit him in the chest. Instead of being angry, he praised: "Brave, come again!" "When a child wants to ride a horse, he will lie on the bed and let the child ride on his back. He usually goes to the streets to buy whatever his children want, and he doesn't hesitate to spend money. Once, I couldn't help it, so I questioned my father. Unexpectedly, my father said angrily, "It's a pity that you have read a few books. What time is it now? You want to teach your son the old-fashioned way! "

The second puzzle is that the banter of my peers has made my godson more effective. Official's uncle

When uncles and former relatives and friends saw the children, they asked, "Did your parents fight last night?" Some simply instructed: "You scold that uncle and I will give you a piece of candy."

Finally, there is endless swearing, swearing, and wild words to children. I was surprised to find that children can't remember a word after learning it several times, but they will learn swearing as soon as they learn it.

The third puzzle is that the loss of control in children's "small world" has increased the difficulty of my education. One day, the child came back from kindergarten, and the first sentence was directed at me: "Fuck you!" " Really posing as a "little emperor" makes me laugh and cry. As soon as he corrected it, one day he said to himself, "XX fucking big ass." After repeated questioning, I realized that I learned it from other children. Alas, the aunt in kindergarten also wants to take good care of the children. What can she say?

The fourth puzzle is that my wife and I have different views on children's eating, which makes me at a loss. I thought to myself, childlike innocence, hungry naturally want to eat. If the wife refuses, she will have to "fill the duck". At the beginning, it was "good boy, my baby is the mouth of the big white rabbit", and the children ate sweetly. Soon, the "white rabbit's mouth" will not work, and it will be replaced by the "wolf and elephant's mouth". Who knows how long this conversation will last?

The poor inherit the wind.

Watching the child grow up day by day, his wife is impatient: "You are a father, how can you teach him to succeed at this age?" In recent years, it is time to realize some truth. " My wife's words are right. It's time to wake up. However, I thought a lot, but I couldn't say one after all.