How to correctly guide junior high school students' comparison psychology

Correctly guide the growing-up middle school students' psychology of comparing with others, make them form a correct consumption view, grow up healthily, and add icing on the cake for the school to transport qualified talents.

1. Parents' correct role model demonstration

As the saying goes, "If you go near Zhu Zhechi, you will be black." Family environment is particularly important for students' growth. As a child's first teacher, the influence of parents on children is subtle and indelible. Therefore, parents should correct their behavior, form a correct view of consumption and set an example. Children may learn knowledge at school and become a "material" person, but only in the family can they learn to be a man completely, and everyone who enters the society will be branded by different families. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's good consumption habits, put an end to the expansion of their vanity, and avoid the situation of comparing consumption psychology.

2. Teachers' correct guidance

Teachers need to realize that they are the students who have the most contact with each other in the school environment, and their words, deeds and manners are revealing their own ideas. Students naturally regard teachers as objects of worship and imitation, so teachers should guide students with words and deeds of striving for progress and thrift. Professors should follow the trend and adjust students' mentality. Because they are in the critical period of forming their outlook on life and world view, it is very important and feasible to use positive typical cases to change students' comparison psychology, so as to arouse students' attention to "learning knowledge and mastering ability through comparison"

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3. Develop a good attitude and constantly surpass yourself in positive comparison.

On the basis of fully understanding yourself, encourage middle school students to compare themselves with those who are taller, stronger and more advanced than themselves. Set an example to motivate students and surpass themselves in comparison. Then we have to solve the problem of "how to compare with what". If we always compare our own shortcomings with the advantages of others, we will form an inferiority complex. However, if you always compare your own advantages with others' shortcomings, you will form an arrogant and conceited psychology. Therefore, we should surpass ourselves, know ourselves and others in positive comparison, and compare ourselves with a healthy attitude, so as to avoid detours.

The phenomenon of comparison among middle school students has aroused the concern of the family. For the phenomenon that students have caused adverse effects, at the same time, under the guidance of the school, we should get the support of parents, society and other parties, carry out healthy aesthetic education for students, implement correct consumption concepts and behaviors, and guide their behaviors correctly.