Tips on dealing with being trafficked (how to prevent yourself from being trafficked)

1. How to prevent yourself from being trafficked

Children are young and have weak identification ability, so it is possible for them to be trafficked. However, if we do a good job in prevention, this kind of trafficking can be prevented. So, what should we do to prevent children from being abducted?

Methods/Steps

Educate children. In fact, everyone knows this. In normal times, children should be educated not to talk to strangers, not to eat food given by strangers, etc. Let your children remember these reminders again and again, and they will avoid most possibilities of being trafficked.

Self-help awareness. In daily life, teach children more self-help methods and awareness. When a child is accidentally abducted, the child will remember the parent's phone number and call or attract passers-by to save themselves. This must be mastered by every baby.

Sometimes, when parents are shopping with their babies in their arms or in crowded places, some women will come up to chat with you. At this time, you should be nervous and be on guard against others. It is possible that these people will grab the baby and run away while they are chatting with you. Generally, it is best to hold the baby tightly when you are outside. It is recommended to tie it around your waist in a bundled way.

If you go to some shopping malls or vegetable markets, remember to use your snack eye at this time. Because there are so many people in these places, you won’t be able to find those with two or three crutches if they are picked up by the traffickers. Therefore, at this time, you can use some ropes or clothes to tie the baby to the stroller, or tie something to the baby that makes a sound when it moves.

Educate children not to stand alone outside the school gate when school is over. If they need to wait for their parents, they need to be accompanied by a teacher or protected by security before they can wait for their parents at the school gate. Of course, if the school gate is to be closed at this time, try to tell the children that they will wait in the school communication room for their parents to pick them up.

When parents go out, they should also remember not to give their children to strangers. It may seem that these strangers are very kind, but these people will take the child away. Therefore, even if you go to the toilet, you should take your child with you, or if you are going out with someone, leave it to someone familiar to help look after you.

Children themselves like to run around. In this case, children should also be educated to try not to play in unfamiliar places and to play in familiar environments. If you are around, be sure not to let the child escape your sight, otherwise the kidnappers will take the opportunity to come.

When a child is lost in a public place, you must immediately find the nearby uniformed staff and ask them for help. Of course, if there is a radio, you must Try to broadcast there to find the child, so that even if the child is abducted, it will give those people some tension. After they hear it, they may be afraid and abandon the child.

2. How to improve children’s anti-trafficking awareness

1. Parents need to create a good family atmosphere. Harmonious relationships among family members can prevent children from being immersed in conflicts and neglecting the care of their children. At the same time, it can also prevent children from having the urge to escape from the family due to internal conflicts in the family. In addition, a harmonious family atmosphere can make children feel the warmth of home and help them develop a healthy sense of self-worth, self-esteem and self-confidence, so that they can have higher psychological energy to resist temptations and dangers from the outside world.

2. Faced with children at different stages, parents need to adopt different educational methods to cultivate their children’s anti-abduction awareness. For infants, parents need to carefully observe the baby and respond promptly to the baby's crying. When taking the baby out, it is best to use a baby carrier to carry the baby on your back.

For children in early childhood (2-6 years old), parents should teach their children the following basic self-protection common sense: 1) Do not eat food given by others when family members are not present; 2) Follow Parents need to be informed when others go out. "Others" here include teachers, relatives or neighbors, etc.

In this regard, parents need to set an example and tell their children when going out and coming home; 3) When in danger and parents are not around, ask for help from the military, police or the crowd; 4) Remember the parents’ phone number and home address. These anti-trafficking awareness needs to be instilled in children by parents in their daily lives. It is best for parents to regularly take time to simulate some possible scenarios with their children through games, so as to cultivate their children's ability to identify and respond to dangerous situations.

For school-age children, parents need to strengthen communication with school teachers and ask teachers their children trust to spread some safety knowledge. At the same time, parents can also discuss with their children how to deal with dangerous situations, affirm their children's correct ideas, understand and guide their children's inappropriate thoughts.

For adolescent children, parents should establish their anti-trafficking awareness on the basis of fully respecting their children’s psychological independence. For example, when children are out of school or out, parents can make an appointment with their children on a time to go home, and they must also be notified of emergencies in a timely manner. In addition, same-sex parents should start to consciously communicate with their children about the physical and psychological aspects of sex, or provide their children with relevant scientific knowledge to prevent their children from having misunderstandings in this regard and being deceived or led astray.

3. Parents need to establish a good parent-child relationship with their children. A good parent-child relationship can help children develop a sense of trust in their parents and be willing to share their joys, sorrows, and sorrows with their families, which facilitates effective communication and guidance between parents and children. It can be said that a good parent-child relationship is an effective guarantee for children to establish anti-trafficking awareness.

4. Parents should actively learn relevant safety knowledge. Parents can consult relevant information to learn how to identify risk factors around their children, so that their children can develop behavioral habits to avoid danger points. You should also know how to respond when your child is in real danger. After a crisis, parents also need to pay attention to the mental health of themselves and their children, and seek help from psychological counseling experts for intervention when necessary.

3. What are the places where children are most likely to be abducted and how to deal with them

There are often friendly-looking middle-aged people in front of communities, parks, green spaces, hospital parks, communities, shopping malls, supermarkets, and hospitals. The woman came up to chat with her, praising her child for being smart and beautiful. She stretched out her hand to hug the child, but she picked up the child and ran away.

Some people cooperate with each other. One person is responsible for deliberately leading the child away from the parent's sight, while the other person takes advantage of the parent's inattention when talking to others, hugs the child and disappears into the crowd or jumps into the accomplice's car on the roadside. Most parents cannot react in time to this sudden incident. When they wake up, their children and the traffickers are gone. When approached by someone asking for directions or the like, be sure to keep your child on hand.

Do not give newborns to unknown medical staff in the hospital. Traffickers sometimes dress up as medical staff and take the baby from the mother or her family and disappear quickly. 2.

In large shopping malls, supermarkets, wet markets and other places, traffickers pretending to be shopping among the crowd will pick up the children in the trolleys and disappear at extremely fast speeds while the parents are selecting goods. in the crowd. When shopping, parents can use straps to tie their children's clothes to the trolley, making it more difficult for traffickers to take away their children.

Don’t let your children go out of your sight in a shopping mall. If you find a stranger holding your child, don’t hesitate to call for help. Rush to grab the child and ask people around to grab the trafficker. Call 110 to call the police. Try to use a special baby carrier to hang the child on your chest.

Children riding in strollers must wear seat belts. When children can speak, train them to memorize their home phone number, the name of the city and community they live in, and their parents' names. Educate children to immediately find uniformed staff if they get lost from their parents in public places such as shopping malls, supermarkets, and parks, etc. Recite the phone number.

Don’t cry, lest you attract the attention of traffickers lurking around, and don’t go with anyone who isn’t wearing a uniform and is “well-meaning to help.” 3.

It is best for school-age children to have family members to take them to and from school at the school gate or on the way to school. Otherwise, they should go to and from school together with their classmates. When walking, it is best to walk on the sidewalk opposite to the motorcycle lane, and try to walk as far in as possible to prevent human traffickers from using motorcycles or vans to kidnap people at speed.

4.

Traffickers often "camp out" in places like the park toilet entrance.

Specially pretend to be kind and "help you" to hold your child. And then it's gone forever.

Therefore, do not leave your child in the care of any stranger, including people who claim to be fellow villagers, as well as friends and colleagues who claim to be family members or relatives. Traffickers are very good at disguising, so do not think that the person who robs the child must be They are vicious, and some traffickers are smiling and wearing sheep's clothing. 5.

In recent years, cases of children being abducted by nannies have become common in my own home. Many human traffickers take a long-term approach, lurking into their employers' homes as nannies or part-time workers, and then abducting them.

Therefore, be sure to hire a nanny from a regular nanny agency, keep a copy of the nanny’s ID card and clear recent photos of her life, verify her home phone number, address, family and other information, and pay attention to frequent contacts with the nanny. Once a nanny abducts a child, the police can use this information to find the perpetrator as soon as possible and rescue the child. .

4. Prevent abduction

Precautions for primary school students to prevent being abducted (48-character formula) (1) Hold hands! Children are very curious and always feel fresh and interesting about everything outdoors. They will get lost if they are not careful in streets, playgrounds and on the road. When going out, parents should explain clearly to their children the possibility of getting lost and various dangers. When walking, children It’s best for parents to walk hand in hand.

(2) Return to the original place! If a child is found missing, you should immediately return to the place where the child was last seen and search quickly. If there is a loudspeaker system in the place, such as an amusement park, theater, cinema, etc., you should ask the staff to use the loudspeaker to assist in the search. (3) Call the police early! If none of the above methods work, you should go to the local police station to call the police as soon as possible and provide the police with detailed information about the missing child, such as name, age, gender, clothing, skin color, height, accent, characteristics, etc. After making an appointment with the police at a meeting place, , you should stay there and wait, and send someone to coordinate the search with the police.

(4) Check acquaintances! Call the homes of family, relatives, friends, neighbors, colleagues, and classmates as soon as possible to search. (5) Keep a list! In daily life, children should be taught to name their grandparents, parents, maternal grandparents and the child's own name, home address, parental unit or home phone number, and teach children to make phone calls.

If you encounter an emergency, you can call 110 to call the police for help. (6) Don’t accept gifts! Parents should always educate their children not to accept money or objects from strangers at any time and in any place, nor to follow strangers to other places.

(7) Ask for help! When parents go shopping or playing with their children, they should repeatedly tell their children what to do if they are separated, and teach them how to find the traffic police, patrol officers, store clerks, or grandfathers and grandmothers wearing red armbands, etc. (8) Reject strangers! Parents should always teach their children that they should not obey if an adult who is not a member of the family tells them to do anything or go anywhere.

(9) Stranger! Always explain clearly to sensible children what a stranger is. Although the child may have seen this person in other people's homes, he is still considered a stranger. (10) Be alert! When telling children stories or watching movies or TV, often explain to children the various criminal activities that abduct or kidnap women and children that are currently occurring in society.

Enable sensible children to improve their ability to identify human traffickers and kidnapping criminals. (11) Waiting for family! Residents who live in cities and towns must have their parents or relatives pick them up and drop them off on time whether they go to school or go home after school.

(12) Remember the sign! Families should keep the most recent photos of their children and remember what they wear every day. It’s easy to call the police and find you if you get lost. (13) There is an agreement! Parents should contact the head teacher or teacher of their child’s school and ask that no one else be allowed to pick up or drop off your child except you, your spouse and the person you designate.

(14) Early report! Keep a spare 2 yuan coin in your school bag. If you need anything, you can call your family on the public phone.

If children have a temporary emergency after school, they should call or ask someone to tell their parents in advance, and they should not go out to play with other people on the street.

(15) Don’t open the door! If there are no adults at home and a stranger knocks on the door, do not open the door to receive them. You should tell the stranger to contact you again when your parents come home. (16) No ride! When going out or on your way to and from school, if someone you don't understand asks you to ride in his car or motorcycle, don't take it.

5. How to prevent preschool children from being abducted and defrauded

Nowadays, society is complex and incidents of abduction of young children occur from time to time. Parents should teach their children how to Preventing getting lost or being cheated, as well as self-rescue methods that some children can implement after being abducted, can come in handy when babies encounter emergencies.

Common abduction tactics and countermeasures: Scene: A 3-year-old baby was playing in the community playground. A strange middle-aged uncle came over and gave her a lollipop and said he would take it with her. She goes to the zoo to play. Countermeasures: Educate your children not to accept food, food or toys from strangers when their parents are not around. If a stranger wants to take you to an amusement park or zoo, don’t follow them.

Tell strangers that mom and dad are around, scare strangers away, or scream to attract the attention of people around you. Lost in a public place Scenario: The baby and his mother are walking in the shopping mall. The mother only looks at the beautiful clothes and leaves the baby alone. The baby is attracted by the colorful things and walks farther and farther away from the mother.

Countermeasures: Tell the child that the mother cannot be found at the moment. The baby should stand still and wait for the mother to find her, or find an uncle or aunt in uniform. If the supermarket has a radio room, you can ask the uncle or aunt in the radio room for help. Find mom. Scene of being followed by a stranger: The baby is walking alone on the road. A middle-aged man comes over and says, baby, you are so cute. Uncle, let’s play with you. After playing with the baby and getting familiar with it, the middle-aged man starts to ask the date of the baby’s home. How many rooms.

Countermeasures: Parents should tell their babies that if they find an adult following them while walking alone, they must find a way to get rid of him. You can go to the nearest intersection and ask the traffic policeman on duty for directions, or simply tell him that there are bad guys following you.

If a bad guy threatens you to follow him, you should scream and run to a crowded place to attract the attention of people around you. If you know that no one is home at this time, do not run home. Scene of a stranger asking to open the door: The mother went out to buy groceries and left the baby alone at home. Then someone knocked on the door and the baby asked who it was. The person outside said: "I am your mother's colleague. Please open the door and I will give it to you." Bring a gift.”

Countermeasure: Tell your baby that if there is only one person at home, as long as it is a stranger, the baby should not open the door no matter what the reason is. Tell strangers that the door can only be opened when mom, dad, grandparents are back.

How to prevent your baby from being cheated. When taking your child out, make sure that the child is within sight at all times. Try not to take your children to crowded places to avoid getting lost or abducted due to crowding.

When hiring a nanny, be sure to find out her true identity and obtain relevant information. Never let a stranger babysit your child, even for a short time.

Don’t let the nanny take your children out to play easily. Teach nannies and the elderly not to disclose their home address and contact information to strangers easily.

Be sure to pick up your child from the kindergarten in person or by other family members on time to avoid strangers picking up your child. Teach your children to refuse drinks, candies, gifts and hugs from strangers, and not to follow strangers.

Let your children memorize their home address, phone number, and parents’ names, and provide regular emergency safety education to them. Children should be warned not to play in desolate and remote places.

Cultivate children's anti-fraud awareness and learn to sing safe children's songs. Children's songs are easy to learn and remember, and the lyrics are easy for babies to understand. Moms and dads should teach their children to sing some safety-conscious children's songs in their daily education. For example, everyone The familiar "Little Rabbit Be Good".

Tell anti-fraud stories. Parents can compile some fairy tales about anti-trafficking and anti-fraud, and tell these stories to their children every night when putting them to bed, so that the children can firmly remember some anti-fraud common sense, such as not talking to strangers. Although the child may not understand things like talking, not opening the door to strangers, etc. when he is young, he has a strong mechanical memory, which will be beneficial to him throughout his life.

Teach children to recognize directions. When your baby is about three years old, you can teach him to recognize east, west, north, and south. During the day, you have to teach him how to look at the sun. We say that when the sun sets, it is in the west, when it rises, it is in the east, and at 12 noon, it is due south. If the child understands this, he will know the direction.

Then write down the house number at home, so that he usually knows where his home is. Small phone book: Let the baby remember the phone numbers of his parents, home phone numbers, and good neighbor phone numbers. These numbers should be remembered by the baby.

You should also teach your baby how to call family members and call 110 for help. When an emergency occurs and danger occurs, you can notify others as soon as possible.

Scenario simulation drills When playing games with your baby, you can appropriately add simulation drills of being deceived and asking for help, allowing the baby and family members to play different roles, simulating the scene of the baby being deceived, and allowing the baby to practice how to escape and how to Asking for help, shouting for help, and struggling to escape from dangerous situations. Anti-cheating nursery rhyme: Don’t open the door to strangers. Little rabbit, open the door. Open it quickly. I want to come in. No, no. No. No. No. I won’t open. Mom is not back. No one is coming. No. No talking to strangers. Little White Rabbit, go to school. When you meet a stranger, be polite and don't say anything. Smile, jump, and walk away quickly. Don't go with strangers. I have a little flower dog at home. When strangers pick it up, it won't go away. It shakes its head and waves its hands. I didn't leave until I saw my mother.

6. What is the knowledge to prevent abduction and fraud?

1. When you are at home alone, be sure to close the doors and windows.

If someone knocks on the door, first look through the peephole or crack in the door to see who is coming, and then decide whether to open the door. 2. If you get separated from your parents when you are shopping or visiting the park, you should go to the police or security uncle immediately. It is generally safer to go to an uncle or aunt in uniform.

3. When going out alone, do not drink various drinks from strangers, do not eat candies or other foods given by strangers, and do not play in desolate or remote places. 4. Please remember your home address, parents’ workplace, phone number, and mobile phone number.

5. Do not accept invitations from strangers. Don't be playful. If someone you don't know says a fun place, don't just follow them.

6. Don’t keep a large distance when going out with classmates to avoid getting lost. 7. Able to roughly describe the physical characteristics of classmates and others.

8. After school, if there are no family members such as parents or grandparents to pick you up, you should go with your classmates and go home as soon as possible. 9. When going out or on the way to and from school, if someone you don’t know asks you to ride in his car or motorcycle, do not take it.

10. If you know how to surf the Internet, please do not post your name, school, phone number, address, age, photos and other information in QQ or chat rooms, including your parents’ names, workplace, When sharing your mobile phone number and other information with people online, be sure to keep it safe and confidential. .

7. How to provide anti-abduction education to children

Many parents believe that such things as their children being abducted are too far away from them and cannot happen to their children, so they do not care about it. , and there is a lack of education in this area.

There are also some parents who are too nervous, put many restrictions on their children, and monitor them closely at all times, but their children have lost the ability to exercise and cultivate their own coping skills. Such children are accustomed to taking orders from their parents and authorities, and are more likely to be deceived.

How should parents correctly educate their children to prevent abduction? New Express reporter Song Dao and correspondent Zhang Yitao have three methods we can learn from: 1. Even older children cannot make rational judgments and think in many aspects. What they like to hear most and are easiest to listen to are some intuitive words, such as " If a stranger gives you something, don’t take it”, “A stranger tells you to follow, but you can’t follow”. At the same time, you can tell stories together to let your children understand what they can do and what they shouldn’t do.

2. Tell a case. You can tell your children some cases of child abduction reported in the news, test what the child thinks, and then help them analyze it in detail. Keep the good ideas and point out why they are wrong if they are wrong. What should be done.

3. Simulation exercises. Schools and social groups can organize such activities to enhance children's intuitive understanding and let them know what to do if they encounter such a thing.

It needs to be emphasized that the authority method and the temptation method are the most commonly used methods, and special attention must be paid to prevention. Parents can also teach their children the following points: 1. Ask their children to remember their detailed address, parents’ names, phone numbers, and workplaces, and to memorize them.

Children can also remember relevant information about relatives, friends or people they can rely on at home. This information is very useful if you want to verify your identity and find your parents if you are abducted.

2. It is not necessary to give children a mobile phone, but it is best to give them a small amount of pocket money, which can be used to call for help in emergencies, or to ask others to call the police or contact their parents. What the police phone number is should also be taught to children so that they can remember it.

3. Make an agreement with your children in advance. For example, you must not go with strangers without parents’ notification, go to classmates’ homes or play outside with classmates, and report your whereabouts to parents in a timely manner. If parents suddenly What to do if you are unable to pick up someone, etc. These must be discussed in advance. In particular, children should be reminded “Don’t get in the car with strangers.”

Sometimes, when a kidnapper has further criminal intentions, he will prepare a vehicle and then lie to the child by saying, "Your parents asked you to get into my car" or "I brought good things to your dad. You go and have a look." Once a child gets in the car, he or she will be controlled and kidnapped.

4. Parents and school teachers also need to make an agreement. For example, parents or relatives at home must pick up the children after school, otherwise the children must never be allowed to leave. Make sure to follow up with the teacher to avoid misunderstandings.

8. How to strengthen children’s anti-trafficking awareness

Every year at the end of the year, various safety issues occur frequently. I saw a news report a few days ago that said: "A young man in Jiangxi, who is usually more vigilant, stopped a suspicious person holding a child at the school gate. Later it was confirmed that the man was indeed a "Human traffickers."

When I saw this report, I was filled with gratitude and joy. If there were more people like this around us, we could pay attention or call the police when we feel something is wrong. It takes a lot of effort to save a family, but no pair of parents can bear the pain of losing a child. I hope that more people will lend a hand in emergencies to prevent tragedies from happening.

In addition, it is also very important to strengthen children's awareness of anti-trafficking.

This year, some kindergartens and schools in Guangdong Province have carried out "anti-trafficking games" drills for young children, inviting volunteers to pretend to be "strangers" and bring toys and snacks that attract children, or take children to an amusement park. Inducing the children to follow her, even though the teacher repeatedly emphasized the day before that "you can't go with uncles and aunts you don't know."

But after the game was over, two-thirds of the children were still tricked out of the classroom. Many mothers feel aggrieved because they have not fallen behind in their children’s anti-trafficking education at home. But such theoretical knowledge is really vulnerable when it comes to practice.

How to improve parents’ more efficient education methods? We can do this:

Focus on "role playing", because this is one of the most important cognitive modes for young children.

Parents can incorporate common deception tactics in life into role-playing games with their children, such as: What should you do when an unfamiliar person gives you candy? How to resist when being forcibly taken away, how to find help, etc.

It is said that such simulation games are very common among German children, whether in school or in life. Therefore, surveys show that 99% of abducted children in Germany can return home safely. .

If you have the conditions at home, you can also buy appropriate props, set up scenes and play this kind of imaginary game with your children. They will be familiar with the road since childhood, and they will be able to deal with accidents better when they encounter them seriously.

The most important thing is that parents should also pay attention to protecting their children's privacy at ordinary times, and do not disclose their children's school information and related activities in Moments at will. This will provide an additional layer of security.

When we educate children about safety and fraud prevention, we try not to use the word "stranger". It can be said that we are unfamiliar with people, people we don't know, or we can only talk to our father. , this can also help children distinguish better.

9. How to save a child after being abducted

1. Wait for work.

Eat, drink and sleep to recharge and maintain your strength. 2. Fake madness but not epilepsy.

Don’t show your edge and conceal your identity. 3. Make friends at a distance and attack at home.

Divide enemies and win sympathy. 4. A smile hides a knife.

A battle of wits and courage, and a battle of wits. 5. The golden cicada sheds its shell.

Cleverly disguised and decisively escaped. "Waiting for work" means that once the child is caught by the bad guys, you must eat and drink, and you must not be afraid.

There is a real case where criminals kidnapped a child. The child said "Uncle, I am hungry, you have to give me something to eat", and then said "Uncle, I am hungry". I'm thirsty, give me something to drink." He acted calm and when the police came to rescue him, he was still healthy and running fast.

\"You can pretend to be crazy but not crazy, and don't show off your edge." Once the bad guys ask you about your family situation, you must not say anything. You can pretend to be poor, or say you don't know. \"Befriend far away and attack close by, divide enemies and win sympathy." This is a bit difficult for children, but if parents have taught him in advance, maybe he can do it when encountering difficulties.

Just try to gain their sympathy as much as possible. For example, you can ask him: \"Uncle, do you have a child at home? How old is he? Can I play with him for a while? I like making friends very much. ." "A battle of wits and courage" and "Escape from the Golden Cicada" are to teach children that bad guys can be deceived, and they must escape decisively once they find an opportunity.

10. If you find that you have been abducted, teach your children how to save themselves

(1) If you find that you have been deceived or threatened in a public place, you should immediately approach a crowded place. and ask for help.

(2) If your personal freedom has been controlled, you should remain calm and try to understand the address (province, city, county, township, village, group) where you are, the number of suspects, accent and other basic information. Condition. (3) Promote national laws to traffickers, buyers and related personnel, inform them of the serious consequences, and wait for opportunities to go out for help or escape.

(4) Use methods such as passing small notes to hint to the outside world about your situation, ask for help, and try to get in touch with the outside world. (5) Constantly look for opportunities to report the case to the public security organs. Call the police as soon as possible by calling, sending text messages, or using the Internet and other methods that can communicate with the outside world. Explain your location, the name of the buyer (employer), or the contact number.