Words and deeds can best reflect a person’s upbringing.

How is a person’s education reflected? In every detail of life, words and deeds can best reflect a person's upbringing.

I saw an article in Moments the other day - "Good education has something to do with family tradition, not family background." What really determines a person's education is not his family background, but his family. wind. Family tradition is an invisible educational force, and parents’ words and deeds are closely related to their children’s growth. It is said that parents are children's first teachers, because parents have been with their children since they were born, and their words and deeds will affect their children.

We often see "1. Don't spit everywhere; 2. Don't eat or drink in the bus; 3. Don't make loud noises in public; 4. Please take the initiative to help the elderly and the weak The sick, pregnant women and passengers with children should give up their seats; 5. Please ride in a civilized manner, etc." A series of slogans.

However, uncivilized behavior is still common. For example, when I was going home from get off work that day, I smelled a strong smell of stinky tofu and meat buns as soon as I entered the bus. Coming up, I followed the direction of the smell and it turned out to be a middle-aged woman sitting by the car window, eating steamed buns with relish. Next to her, there was a tall and strong little boy holding stinky tofu on skewers. Chewing over there.

To be honest, I was very angry about eating in the car, let alone eating something with flavor. Just when I was about to speak about these two people, someone stood beside me. A little girl of about four or five years old said to the two eaters: Auntie, brother, mom said you can’t eat in the car. This is uncivilized and will affect others. Mom, what do you say? Is that so? Mom listened and nodded. At this moment, there was a warm applause in the carriage, and everyone praised the little girl's behavior.

Just as we arrived at the station, the middle-aged woman said sheepishly to the tall boy next to her: Son, get off the bus quickly.

No wonder that tall man ate stinky tofu in public and did so leisurely. It turned out that the person eating in silence was her mother! Children's words and deeds are always influenced by their parents' behavior. Clearly they are uneducated.

When I took my father to the hospital for medical treatment last week, and when I was about to go back after watching it, I saw a long-haired woman passing by us in the outpatient hall on the first floor talking angrily on the phone. , and then a medical record fell out of her body.

The father picked it up when he saw it without saying a word, and chased her all the way: Hello, your medical record fell on the floor, but the woman was focused on talking on the phone and never heard it. My father's voice sounded. Later, my father chased me and finally returned the medical records. But not only did the woman not say a word of thanks, she angrily grabbed her medical record and turned around and left. ?

Facing my father, I was not thanked for doing good deeds, and his behavior was very inappropriate. Dad uses a tolerant attitude to understand that the other person may be in trouble. And tell me: do your own thing to help others, and don’t be affected by other people’s behavior.

At this moment, I suddenly felt that my father still had many advantages that I would never learn from in my lifetime.

This reminds me of what Van Dyck once said: Education is the habit of being satisfied with the best things, and knowing why.