NPC's inspirational slogan

The feeling of Bi Shumin's inspirational story: accept inferiority and feel happiness.

Inferiority is a chronic disease that often recurs. Therefore, it is also a long way for each of us to fight against inferiority. Below, I will give some examples of the moment when inferiority complex appears.

1, look at the radiant successful people.

In our life, we always see many people who are much better than ourselves. If you always see people worse than you, then you should reflect on whether your life is constantly sinking. If you often meet people you expect in the process of progress, congratulations, you are making progress. You will feel inferior, but this inferiority can be turned into motivation.

2. See beautiful people.

In this world, there are many beautiful people, just like there are many beautiful scenery. Will you be happy to see the beautiful scenery? This is the ingenious work of nature, and it is a blessing to see it with your own eyes. When I see beautiful people, I will sincerely appreciate them. Don't always compare yourself with beautiful women, it is not only the birthplace of inferiority, but also makes you feel depressed and squanders a good time.

3. See luxurious scenes, such as big houses and villas. Look at the famous cars.

Women are particularly sensitive to houses, which may be related to their special needs for security.

Men have a soft spot for speed and strength, so they have a natural admiration for cars, especially good cars. When we see a good house and a good car, we can't help but think of our poverty, which is particularly easy to breed inferiority complex. The way to deal with it is to understand that this is human nature passed down from ancient times and there is nothing wrong with it. However, besides solving the most basic housing, there is no need to spend too much energy on this issue. The so-called house is the scope of your daily activities. I watched the animal program on TV, and said that a big beast like liger needs about tens of square kilometers of territory each, because they need to feed. The food of modern people in the city is basically ready-made, and the home is the place for sleeping and daily activities, so the home does not need to be too big.

A thief was once caught in Beijing. He went to the villa to steal things and slept in someone else's house, but the owner never found out. Because the villa is too big, the owner can't go. It can be seen that if the room is too big, it will lose the actual use effect, just hire more people to serve themselves and talk about greater ostentation and extravagance. And a person's self-reliance and taking care of himself is the minimum morality in life. If a person must depend on others in his daily life, he is either extremely old and weak or seriously ill. Besides, I don't think it's appropriate.

Facing the delicious food you have never seen before, the dining place is very luxurious.

It's easy to get discouraged at such a moment. From a person's diet, it is easy to judge the state of his childhood. Unless specially trained, you eat all your childhood photo albums.

However, even if you don't know some table manners, it's not your fault. You don't have to be ashamed. If necessary, you can deal with it by studying, and then practice makes perfect. It's no big deal. Moreover, I always think that the eating method should not be too elaborate, the cooking process should not be too complicated, and the ingredients should not be too vicious. Eating too strangely violates the evolution law of human digestive system and the circulation law of nature.

If someone shows off his rank and value by what and how he eats, where he lives and how luxurious this place is, ha! Then he is not completely away from the animal lifestyle, and he is still inferior in his bones. Your fear of eating and living is understandable, but you don't have to be overwhelmed by this feeling. You can't swear that you will eat better and live in a bigger place than him in the future.

If so, you are doomed to lose forever in the face of this material challenge. Knowing all this, you can be safe in front of all the strange and dazzling substances you have never experienced. You can appreciate, be surprised, sigh and be intoxicated, but you won't kneel.

5, facing jewelry stores and watch shops.

As soon as they appear, they strongly squeeze our self-esteem. Because there are too many zeros behind the listed numbers, it looks like a pile of falling Sugar-Coated Berry. My strategy is usually not to read it, although I won't back down after reading it. I know I can't afford them, but I won't be blinded by their bright light. The essence of clocks and watches is to indicate time. In this sense, the use value of an electronic watch with a price of 10 yuan is the same as that of a high-priced watch.

When I say this, someone must disagree. Will say you are a fox, you can't eat grapes. I am not a fox, I can't eat grapes, but I know that grapes, no matter how sweet, are still grapes, not fragrant pears.

Whenever I report where the sky-high mobile phone, sky-high computer, sky-high toilet and sky-high pen are made, I will be curious to know what they are made of. Sky-high price and? After a careful study of the materials, the result is still quite boring, but a large area is covered with diamonds. Of course, it is not reliable to set diamonds on the toilet, so it was changed to gold. In a word, these objects are not superior in function, but are attached with precious metals or gems that we all know. Being loyal to your ancestors is to show your identity.

Jewelry has a longer history than human beings. Soon after the birth of the earth, diamonds crystallized on the earth. From this perspective, human beings should pay tribute to diamonds. The youngest diamond is also 1 billion years old.

Unlike the fragile cycle of human life and death, once a diamond is formed, it is eternal life. This feature makes it a class and a symbol of status and wealth. At a glance, you need to carefully distinguish the level. In fact, no one can really own jewelry, just keep it for a while. For example, a bank employee spends a lot of money, but how much does that have to do with you? After work, I still have to go back to my home and live my own life.

It is said that there is a slogan in the geologist's office? Diamonds are only pressure-improved coal blocks, which are oxygen-deficient coal blocks. ? It can be said that it is right.

So, don't be discouraged in front of jewelry. Speaking of it, it is more difficult to identify yourself now than in ancient times. At that time, the chief was nothing more than putting towering feathers on his head. When the emperor arrives, he will wear a dragon robe embroidered with a specific pattern, and when he goes out, he will sprinkle loess on the street with clear water. There are certain rules on how to wear official products, which must not be exceeded. All these external signs are nothing more than making the level clear at a glance.

Modern society advocates equality for all, but ubiquitous discrimination still exists. They dress up in disguise and interpret ancient propositions in new forms. Rich people used to wear silks and satins, but now all kinds of cheap chemical fibers can imitate realistic silks and satins, so people should create famous brands. They are well-made, but no matter how good they are, they are not worth the expensive price. Therefore, it is called brand added value.

What do you mean? Added value? And then what? To put it bluntly, most people who wear this kind of clothes are rich, which shows an identity. Once this word-of-mouth is formed, the use value of these items will retreat to the second line, and the role of standing at the forefront is to show the identity of the owner. People used to show their status by wearing flowers, but modern people can't put stickers on their foreheads, saying how much property I have and how high my status is. Some rely on famous brands to set off their status. This is the psychological demand for famous brands.

Famous brands have become the feathers of vain people to express their wealth and status. When you figure this out, you will have confidence and will not become weak in the face of luxury. Or you can be a little bit better at Microsoft, but then you will go your own way firmly.

6. Facing clothes that you can't afford.

People don't have to dress too luxuriously, gorgeously and strangely, which goes against the original intention of clothing. There's always something I can't afford. My method is to walk quietly without turning my head. I don't give myself a timetable, so I decided to make some money and buy this dress before a certain time. People can't be slaves to anyone, let alone a dress.

7. A place where students from universities, primary and secondary schools meet.

China people cherish the friendship between classmates, and classmates have a special title? Classmate? . I like this word very much, and it has a feeling of vastness and snuggling. The window won't be very big. A window can only accommodate one or two heads overlooking the window. We can feel each other's body temperature and watch the clouds together. China people miss the past, especially as adults. First, they worked hard, but for a while, they seemed indifferent and couldn't hear each other's voices. Suddenly, everyone sprang up from the ground like mushrooms after rain, and after the news spread, they all joined forces. At this time, their respective economic situation, social status, marriage, etc. There are different boundaries. Originally, books were printed in batches together, but now some of them have become hardcover books, some pages are wrinkled, some bookmarks are beautiful, some have been folded and torn, some have been read in their hands, and some have almost been sold to waste collection stations.

On this occasion, most people who come are full of hesitation, and most people who are absent are poor. There is a folk saying that young people who go out stomp their feet and say, I will not come back to see my hometown if I quit. In fact, if you think about it carefully, this is unreasonable. The party is for friendship, not vanity fair. Therefore, even if you are just an ordinary person, you can proudly walk into the party place.

I wrote about such a woman in the novel "Woman Worker". There is such a scene in the TV series: she was the squadron leader in the class, later became a worker, and then got off the job. The students went to the teacher's house to attend the party. She helped the teacher clean and was busy in the kitchen. Everyone came, and she answered the door. The students didn't recognize her and thought she was the nanny invited by the teacher's family. In the face of that embarrassment, she took it easy. The students didn't underestimate her at all, but said they would learn from the squadron leader of that year.

I wonder if this is an idealized description. I sincerely hope that the place where classmates meet is full of warmth, equality and friendliness.

Time is an experience flowing in the blood and a story hidden in the hole of the soul tree. However, it will be easy to show it from your life posture and get a response. As long as you stop feeling inferior, everything will be calm.

8. Abroad.

When you go abroad, it's easy to envy people when you see their neat streets, clean squares, tall buildings, clear rivers, lush Shan Ye and clear blue sky. It is understandable that some people become inferior when they are jealous. I think envy is ok, but other people's land will not be given to you to live in, so I still directly turn envy into the driving force of struggle and do a good job in my country. You know, if you don't love your country, other countries won't love you. When you become a person without a country, you lose your sense of belonging. Sense of belonging is an extremely important feeling of human beings. Without this feeling, it's really hard for Bidiu to kill a dog.

9. When being accused by others, it is very easy to breed inferiority complex.

Nobody likes to be criticized. But no one can avoid being criticized at the same time. If everyone feels inferior when criticized, then we will live in the shadow of inferiority almost every day. If you fundamentally admit that you are not a perfect person and that perfection is an impossible state, then you also admit that it is normal to be criticized by others. Accept criticism and don't generalize. I especially agree with you on this issue? Just chatting? .

A long time? Just chatting? It seems to be a derogatory term, as if avoiding the important and ignoring the important, and refusing to dig deep into the ideological roots. In fact, most things should be practical, especially not to expand the failure of one thing into a failure of one person. Treat temporary failure as a lifelong failure. Criticism is only the evaluation of others, not whether this evaluation is fair or not. Even an impeccable evaluation only represents that person's opinion, and he cannot represent the world. Even if the whole world denies you (which is almost impossible), as long as you have confidence in yourself, things may change.

10, rejected by others, especially when you are lovelorn.

It's hard to be rejected! I believe everyone has experienced this. When we make demands on others, we all have a beautiful idea that follows us closely. Being rejected not only makes us disillusioned, but also induces many unpleasant associations. Do we think that people who reject us don't like us? You don't think we are important? Does it negate our whole plan? Do you have a bad impression of us from now on? Is it ... or not

I believe that as long as you follow this negative path blindly, you will come up with thousands of explanations to make you complacent, your pessimism will continue, and a cold bubble will emerge in the swamp of inferiority. The best way to deal with it is to admit that others have the right to refuse, and keep a normal mind about refusing. No matter what reason the other party refuses your request, you can find another way out. Don't turn others' rejection into your own.

I want to talk about lovelorn in particular here. If you can talk about other rejections, this lovelorn thing is really for you.

Lovelorn can be roughly divided into two sides. One party is an active rejecter, which means you chose it actively? Lost? The other side. This kind of loss is more acceptable because you made a decision after careful consideration. The hardest thing is the person who was rejected. Many people are just like in a disaster. They don't think about tea and rice, and their weight has dropped sharply. Of course, individuals may overeat and gain weight.

The perceptual tradition of China people is generally that they have no appetite, fall asleep and don't want to eat. The boy has sunken cheeks and fibrous roots. The girl is as thin as a bone. Some people abroad will have a surprisingly good appetite at the moment. Steaks and hamburgers will be eaten with seaweed, as if the world were ending. In recent years, when we ordinary people are in a mood, this kind of eating and drinking has also increased. Therefore, in the diagnostic criteria of depression, the sudden change of appetite, whether it is reduction or increase, is included in the abnormal category.

Losing love is a strong and painful rejection. People torture themselves on the barbecue of memory until the painful bone marrow falls out. However, please remember that it is only one man or woman who rejects you, not all men or women. You lost your lover, not yourself. The most painful person who is lovelorn experiences not the possibility of not being loved, but the profundity? Lost? . He (she) feels that he has lost the motivation of life, the recognition of others, the warmth of the whole world and the ability of self-affirmation.

List these feelings one by one, and people who are lovelorn may refute them, ha! It's not that serious!

It would be great if you could say so. Losing is really terrible, but all the losses are not as terrible as the fire in your heart. As long as you believe in yourself, all the losses will shed the terrible magic clothes and show your fragile nature. After the tears burst out, maybe a miracle will come.

1 1, suddenly unwell.

Have you ever suddenly felt unwell? I was at a loss, and the focus of my eyes didn't know where to gather. I immediately found myself with so many bad things, such as shorts, wrinkled clothes, the wrong color tie and long nails. I spat when I spoke. I forgot all the unreasonable questions that I could have answered. In fact, it is probably a kind of deep inferiority complex, triggered by a small fuse, which disturbs the compass of our whole mood and makes us panic and fail to play our due level.

12, thinks he is responsible for other people's troubles.

When this feeling overflows, we often fall into deep remorse. What do you blame yourself for? Sometimes it seems unclear. Many times, we are completely innocent. But even if you know rationally that other people's troubles are not your responsibility, you still can't let go. You think you must have done something wrong, because you haven't noticed it yet, so this mistake is even more unforgivable. This feeling is very painful. A friend told me that even on a bus she didn't know, even if there was a quarrel between the first row and the last row of seats, she felt that she must have done something wrong. Otherwise, how could anyone be unhappy?

I really deeply regret her. Because she grew up in a family full of quarrels, her parents would point to her nose and say, if it weren't for you, we would have divorced. All this is because of you!

Later, her parents finally divorced and she was awarded to her mother. Mom's mantra is that without you, I would have married the person I like. Without you, how can I age so fast? Without you, how can my body get sick?

These words, like a curse, deeply hurt her young heart. Over time, friends feel that they are sinners in the world and feel extremely inferior. Any noise will frighten her. Although she is very good at studying and friendly to people, she still feels redundant and annoying.

Remember, everyone is responsible for their emotions, not only for themselves, but also for those who let others take responsibility for themselves. Especially for parents, you have been wronged in the office. Please don't vent your anger on innocent children. You not only bullied a weak person, but also gave the child a seed of inferiority.

13, others.

Any time you don't believe in yourself, when you are in a bad mood. This last one, like a big basket, covers everything. It seems aimless, but remember this sentence, when you really can't find a reason to worry, but you are depressed, depressed, bored and depressed, don't think it's an accident without a trace. It is likely that there is a deep inferiority complex that is inflamed in the soul. Inferiority is sometimes like a tumor in the heart. It exists quietly most of the time, and there is no pain to bother you, but it will grow slowly and quietly. Suddenly, one day, it will become cancerous and kill you.

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