Is it bad to fall in love early?

As for puppy love, to be precise, it should be first love. On such a topic, nothing can be absolutely affirmed or denied. Personally, I think 15 is the limit. Nowadays, for citizens under the age of 18, as long as you fall in love, you will be labeled as "puppy love", and most of them are accompanied by eye-catching slogans: "Puppy love is not suitable for learning; puppy love is green; puppy love is It is a sign of immaturity; more seriously, it will tell you that early love can lead to mental depression. "If you first taste love as a teenager, sometimes the negative phenomena mentioned above will indeed occur, but first of all, I want to say. The problem is that those who put forward these views either put puppy love outside of love, or classified love into different categories. I think love is love, and puppy love is first love, the first love, and there are no categories. If love can be divided and planned in this way, then it will become a rational monster with a mask of sensibility. Love is the happiest laugh and the saddest cry. This is especially true for the first love. Since it is such a sweet trouble, sometimes it will inevitably conflict with your study and life. For example: you are distracted in class and can’t forget the beauty of the other person; after a quarrel, you feel depressed and do nothing. Can't cheer up. This will definitely delay your studies, and if not, it will also affect your interactions with the people around you; if you are introverted and delicate, you may sometimes be overwhelmed by your thoughts and do some drastic behavior. For those of you who are in adolescence, your thoughts and behaviors are not yet stable, and all kinds of possibilities may happen, so it is even more worrying and attracting attention. Only the effective combination of experience and experience can solve this problem, because with the development of time and the increase of experience, your thoughts and behaviors will continue to mature. Coupled with the lessons learned from your predecessors, you will be more appropriate. I have successfully handled the conflict between love and studies, and gradually realized that love does not possess, nor is it possessed, and love satisfies itself in love. Everything has its pros and cons, and first love also has its good side. It can help you learn how to get along with the opposite sex generously, relieve the curiosity and confusion about the opposite sex in adolescence, and release the sense of depression in your heart. Interaction with the opposite sex is irreplaceable for interpersonal communication in your entire life. part. Similarly, first-time lovers can also create a better learning atmosphere. The inspiration of love can make you aim further, work harder, study more diligently, and act more responsibly. In short, we cannot take a one-sided view of premature first love. At the age of studying, we cannot ignore other important aspects of life when we have love. In the spring when life is sowing, we cannot lose sight of one thing or the other. Only in this way can we have a fruitful autumn.