Which do you think is more worthwhile, the abandoned chicken baby project or the chicken baby project you are still insisting on?

(It's all silver [tears])

1, Weiqi: 7 years old, studied for half a year, and gave up because of time+basic repeated defeats. The advantage is that little friends can kill some time and old mothers can enjoy a quiet time. )

2. Painting: I started at the age of 6 and studied for 3 years. The painting is still unrestrained, I can't see it. I don't want to waste any more time and give up.

3, table tennis: the brain helps to prevent myopia, studied for a year, heard that badminton is more conducive to growth, turned badminton.

4. Calligraphy: I started at the age of 7 and studied for 2 years. Found that the pen holding posture is not correct, the font is too firm, not suitable for girls. Stop loss in time and give up.

Adhere to the chicken project:

1, English: I started at the age of five and a half, and I am currently studying FCE in Cambridge, which is particularly worthwhile.

2, shallow Olympics: not the kind of Olympics, expanding in books. After three starts, the freedom of additional questions is realized. Since then, there is no need for chickens to fly and dogs to jump in mathematics, and the math scores are basically stable in the top 5 of the class.

3, reading and writing: the school class is too pale, you can only choose extracurricular chickens, start three times, one year has passed, the advantages of reading and writing are still quite obvious. The fourth grade is the first in the final grade group (there are more than ten classes in the fourth grade. If you want to know the learning method, see my top answer about "the secret of rapid progress in Chinese performance").

4. eloquence class: it seems to start a little late. She likes it very much, which really improves her self-confidence and aura. When she met a local broadcast teacher, she thought she was a great teacher.

5. Guzheng: I have learned it intermittently, and I want to give up countless times, but I have not made up my mind.

6. National Dance: At present, it is level 7, and I have not made up my mind to give up countless times. At the beginning of school, I got on the bus in a muddle because of the flexible requirements for counterpart primary school exercise and the need for various splits.

7, badminton: mainly for growing up, because it is a class with girlfriends, and it is also very popular at present.

8. Programming: I started to learn in the fourth grade, and there is no clear purpose, but it should be helpful for mathematical thinking. In the fourth and fifth grades, I have time for the time being, and I am right to learn as much as I can.

9, breaststroke and freestyle, 10 lessons each. For vital capacity+growth.

In a word, no course is required. She auditioned once and then signed up. At present, the only thing I can't bear to part with all the way down is the guzheng, so I'm too lazy to practice. As a result, her father said: People's Daily said that we should insist on letting guzheng enter every household.

Anyway, it's a small money shredder, no doubt.

4-year-old baby, attended several experience classes before becoming a formal chicken baby.

Say give up first:

Piano class: I usually hum at home and "create" all kinds of rap. I wanted to learn to sing, but the music in the experience class was piano. We tried several times and decided to give up, not this material;

Small anchor class: The reason is that there are many words at home, but the mouth shape is wrong. I want to practice, but it may be that the baby is relatively small and has limited knowledge and has never practiced anything. After several attempts, I decided to give up and talk about it later.

Taekwondo class: in order to exercise and keep fit, but the baby thinks it is not fun and the teacher is not serious in class. After several attempts, she decided to give up and talk about it later.

Street dance class: It is also to exercise and improve coordination, but after several classes, I found that I couldn't bear to look straight at the dance, and the teacher didn't give enough guidance and was not interested, so I gave up and talked about it later.

We gave up [covering our faces] so decisively.

Let's talk about persistence:

Go class: After the experience, Eva said that she liked it very much and was ready to sign up for study.

Physics class: the original intention is to exercise and improve coordination ability. After the experience, the baby likes it very much, but the cost is really high …

English class: Needless to say, both online and offline. After online, I will study offline for two years.

Thinking category: online category, this baby really likes it. She takes the initiative to open the tablet to study and review every day, and she also likes to teach us in life. This will be renewed after the expiration.

The important basis for choosing a course is whether the baby likes it or not. We didn't impose it on the baby. I like music better, and I always want my baby to learn it, but the baby says he is not interested. I am still a chicken myself.

What I can do is to create as many conditions as possible for the baby to experience, then choose one that the baby likes and we can bear, and then accompany me to solve the difficulties when I encounter difficulties in my future study.

So I think what I have learned so far is worthwhile, and I don't regret giving up.

Abandoned:

1. Electric piano: This really needs parents to practice. During the two years of study, I was busy with my work for half a year. Although I bought electrical steel at home, I don't have time to practice, so the more I learn, the harder it is. Later, I couldn't keep up and finally gave up.

2. Taekwondo: I signed up for class to exercise, but because of my poor physical fitness, I went to class in winter, changed my clothes and got pneumonia, and finally gave up after studying for a year.

3. Chess: I learned it well at first, but I didn't want to play it anyway. I finally gave up after studying for two years, and now I occasionally take it out to play chess. [I want to be quiet]

4. English: In just seven months, the training institutions came to an end under the pressure of the epidemic, catching up with the double reduction and not reporting for classes.

Insist on:

1. Art: Children prefer it. I've been studying for three years since grade one, and I haven't passed the exam yet. Consider it a hobby!

2. Robot: The kindergarten teacher class started to learn, which is my son's favorite course and I plan to stick to it all the time.

3. Calligraphy: My own calligraphy is not very good. I especially envy people who write well. I hope my son's handwriting is getting better and better.

Swimming: I just learned breaststroke in summer vacation, and my children like it very much. As the only sport he likes, he will always stick to it.

This book is simply learning, and adults are suffering in their hearts.

From the beginning, we gave up dancing and flute and insisted on writing and painting. I wanted her to learn dance since I was a child. When I was 5 years old, I signed up for a dance class. My child is tempted by me not to sign up. Children don't like burying mines. The registration fee is about 2800 yuan, but I forgot. Not bad for people who just started learning. About three months later, because of the internal contradictions in the dance class, the teacher quit and went out to work alone, trying to give us a hand. We don't agree. As soon as I saw it, it was unprofessional, so I asked around. One of her classmates is studying in that place, which is far from home. We changed another one and persisted for more than half a year.

There was a band in the school when the children were in the first grade. The child listened at school and was very excited. If she wanted to report it, she did. She studied flute for a year and experienced boxing and practice in the middle, but she really has no talent. This semester, because of the epidemic, I stopped practicing, and the flute lay quietly in the corner.

All-round development, it is useless for our baby to insist on what she is not interested in. It's no use reasoning in the middle and encouraging her to insist. [Cover your face]

Now painting and writing have persisted with my encouragement, but I have not given up learning musical instruments. I tried the guzheng once, but the children were determined not to go. I'm looking for which one she is suitable for. It's a long way to learn. Keep going! ! !

I was once full of pride on the road of chicken baby, and all kinds of tastes can only be deeply understood if I have experienced my mother.

After the boss was born, I really felt that the most beautiful adjectives could not be used too much on her [covering her face] [covering her face] [covering her face] She casually felt that she had a musical talent; Handwritten graffiti must be a painter in the future [tears run] [tears run] [tears run] so I made great strides on the road of chicken baby. Looking back now, the spilled money and my lofty sentiments will never come back.

Based on the famous saying that every child is a born artist, he signed up for an art class at the age of five. After about 10 class, you can draw in a good way. At that time, my heart was quite beautiful, and I felt that children were all plastic talents. Until one day I asked her to draw one at home, and she couldn't draw it. It turned out that the teacher drew the traces first and asked the children to follow them. In a rage, I dropped out of class and gave up my art class.

I learned to dance when I was about six years old. At this time, little girls love beauty. Sign up when you see a beautiful ballet skirt. At that time, I studied English ballet. When I applied for the exam, I felt interested, so I didn't carefully supervise her practice. And at first, Emperor Ballet wouldn't ask leg press to bend down, which was to teach children to stretch. After studying for about three years, my little swan became a fat swan. I think she worked hard every day, passed a junior exam, and was not forced. Give up ballet.

Guzheng is a training institution that went to school for a semester of public welfare classes. At the age of 8, I began to study formally and studied for six years. From the initial small class to the later one-on-one, it is a kind of accomplishment to practice guzheng with children. Later, my mind gradually calmed down. She really has no talent, and I'm not worried about failing the exam. Junior high school time is too tight, and the time for practice has shrunk. Now I play a song occasionally. Eva said that she would study after the college entrance examination, so I believed her. Guzheng temporarily gave up.

My baby's primary school is characterized by calligraphy practice, so she has always insisted on learning calligraphy. This is still quite effective. I stopped writing calligraphy recently, but I still insisted on practicing hard pen calligraphy during the summer vacation. Calligraphy is still persisting.

The breaststroke learned in the summer vacation of the third grade is also full of twists and turns. Don't go to large classes for this kind of technical study, which wastes time and money. At that time, the one-to-two tuition I chose was much more expensive than the big class. However, by the end of the first lesson, the baby was already swimming well. It's good for the children in the big class to swim a few meters, and they can only apply for consolidation for a while, so it's still suitable for the small class. Swimming is a success.

This is an interest group in the school. The teacher chose some children who studied calligraphy to learn seal cutting. There is no charge for public welfare, but the cost of materials is not a small expense. I haven't held a meat cleaver since I graduated from elementary school.

After graduating from primary school, the colorful amateur life has come to an end. Now the only thing Eva insists on is learning to cover her face. I hope I will never give up on the road of learning.

Abandoned projects:

In progress:

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