Funeral ritual terms

Wedding officiants can’t say hello and goodbye. They can learn how to sing and make fun of themselves. However, funeral officiants have regulations on their speech and behavior. They must learn these on the first day they enter the industry. . We must speak plainly

We cannot say "Hello, Goodbye"

Wedding officiants can learn to sing and talk, and they can be amused as they please; but funeral officiants, their words and deeds are all different. It is stipulated that they must learn these on the first day they enter the industry.

"We must use Mandarin, and the voice must be loud and low. There are many taboos in our industry. When meeting the family members of the deceased, we cannot say 'hello'. They came in tears. If we say' "Hello," someone with a bad temper will immediately say, "What's good?" After the memorial service, we must not say "goodbye," let alone "welcome again next time," Tian Ye told reporters. , the process of communicating with the family of the deceased is difficult. You have to "coax" the family of the deceased. Even words such as "bury", "burn" and "cremate" are forbidden words. The most commonly used ones are "I'm sorry" and "I kept you waiting for so long." "Wait a minute" and other language.

You may get beaten if you pronounce your name wrong

After working for a long time, you will meet all kinds of people. Tian Ye said that it's fine if you meet someone who is reasonable, but if you meet someone who is unreasonable, you will get slapped in the face if you are not careful. Some funeral directors have even knelt down to the family members of the deceased. "I saw an intermediary help the family of the deceased to conduct the funeral. The deceased was an old gentleman. Maybe we didn't communicate well before. When hosting the funeral, the funeral director changed the old gentleman into an old lady. The old lady was still alive and well. , Isn’t that a curse? The family of the deceased immediately slapped the host twice. "The name is also important," Tian Ye said. He had personally seen the funeral director invited by the family of the deceased mispronounce the name of the deceased. Those who were asked to kneel down and apologize were even asked to pay money.

"Funeral Culture Ceremony Hall"

In the future, when you attend memorial services, what you will see when you walk into the hall will no longer be simple wreaths, elegiac couplets, "three bows" and "walk around" The mourning scene at the end. Yesterday, Nanjing Funeral Home Director Cui Aimin revealed that Nanjing will promote personalized funerals: "We plan to place a life history display board at the door, or play the life history of the deceased through DV, and then replace it with neutral and warm main colors. In the past, the memorial hall was decorated in blue, black and white, and flowers were chosen to decorate the entire hall according to the preferences of the deceased. I hope these measures can psychologically alleviate the grief of the mourners and reflect humanistic care. "This group of college student emcees also said. He will become the first batch of funeral directors and will participate in the "Funeral Funeral Director" professional title evaluation organized by the Ministry of Civil Affairs.

Funeral and condolence terms

(1) Obituary terms

1. Obituary terms for bereaved father

An unfilial man; Misfortunes are delayed

The family is strict; the boss. He was born on March 5, 1936. Unfortunately, he died on October 26, 2009, at the age of seventy-three, due to an illness that failed to cure. In honor of this order, we have decided to lay a memorial service at our house on the day of the month. The funeral will be held at that time and the house will be laid in the shade of the mountain.

Everyone who belongs to the family

Wen from relatives and friends

Unfilial orphan weeping blood

2. The obituary language of the bereaved mother

An unfilial man; if he commits serious sins and does not perish on his own, the misfortune will be extended

The concubine; the mother; the old child, suffers for years; the month, the day, the life expectancy, and the person dies. He was born in AD; year, month and day, and died at the age of eighty-four years. The unfilial man knocked on the ground and cried to heaven, grief-stricken, and saw the coffin in person. He stopped the coffin in the hall and paid homage to it. Weeping divination month, the day the family laid a memorial ceremony, then helped the tree to settle down in the shade of the mountain.

If Meng

Wen from the marriage clan

The mourning son weeps blood to judge the head

When the Qi Dynasty declines, the grandson weeps the blood to judge the head

Xiao Gong serves his nephew; he wipes his tears and looks at his head

The son-in-law wipes his tears

(2) Terms of wreaths and inscriptions

1. Wreaths You can buy it or make your own, writing condolences on the left and right white paper strips. On the white paper tape on the upper right, there are written: "Mr. Eternal", "Teacher passed away", "Father-in-law, old man Eternal", "Mourn my mother-in-law; I am going west on a crane" and so on. On the white paper tape at the lower left, it is written: "My nephew, I would like to express my condolences", "