As a veteran! How do we adapt to society?

Let me talk about my own situation first. 13 to 15 I am a soldier in Lhasa. After I left the army, I studied in a junior college. Now I just came out as an intern. It's almost two years since I was discharged from the army. I think it is more appropriate for me to talk about this problem.

First of all, I want to say that military life is completely different from social life, which can be said to be reflected in all aspects. For myself, in the army, we all need to get up on time, do exercises, train, eat, study, watch the news broadcast and sleep. In social life, without these rules and regulations, I am more free and can arrange my own time and things. But it comes with a problem: self-discipline. Our army has rules and discipline. Everyone abides by the rules and there will be no differences. However, in society, everyone is an independent individual and can arrange their own time to do what they want, and their thoughts and behaviors will no longer be unified by external reasons.

Imagine that in my university, my three roommates play games until late at night every day. Can I keep the habit of going to bed on time every night? It is obviously unrealistic. Man is a gregarious animal. It is said that birds of a feather flock together, eat, live and travel together. It is hard to say that they are not influenced by others. Veterans are relatively better, can control themselves to a certain extent, and are not addicted to bad hobbies such as games and gambling.

Let's talk about how to integrate into society. In fact, it's not difficult, because it's easier to integrate into the society now. It can be said that as long as you are calm and don't think too positively, you can blend in. Of course, when people hear that you are a veteran, they usually say, "Ah, so you are a veteran. Awesome. " In this case, don't take it to heart. People who have never been a soldier will never know what people in the army have experienced. The plots in those film and television dramas are all false and can only fool some people who have no brains to eat melons. And now, after leaving the army, the local government will provide some training opportunities, such as drivers, chefs and other technical positions.

Of course, you can also find something to do by yourself. Now the retirement fee is getting higher and higher. It is not impossible to do a small business with tens of thousands of dollars yourself, provided that you have carefully understood it, rather than blindly investing. If there are several comrades-in-arms in an area, you can try to pay the veterans' fee and open a small restaurant together, such as Mala Tang and maocai, or open a tea shop or a fruit shop. After all, the risk of catering is relatively small, and several old comrades are more motivated together. I believe that if they do well, there will be some ways out.

Besides, you can also find a school like mine, which is one of the ways to connect with the society. Students in school are not as complicated as people in society and easy to communicate with. It is also a good idea to study for two years before going out to work.

In fact, the advantages of veterans are still great. Compared with their peers, they are more sensible and calm, and they will not panic when they encounter things. They have certain processing ability and eyesight. If they want to integrate into society, in fact, it is very simple as long as they are modest and low-key.