Why do some people say that "there are fewer and fewer people attending class reunion and comrades-in-arms reunion"?

Reunion depends on age. The situation of class reunion is different at different ages. There are objective factors. Today, I will take my class reunion as an example to explain why fewer and fewer people attend class reunion and comrades-in-arms reunion. Of course, I have never been in the army, and I have no comrades. Take the class reunion as an example. )

A party ten years after school.

In the first ten years of my graduation, I kept in touch with three or two classmates who had already had a good relationship. None of the other students know the contact information. I was born in the 1970s. At that time, there was no WeChat, no QQ, only a landline number. The contact between classmates basically depends on writing letters. )

Because I entered the society after graduation, everything had to start again. Workplace, marriage and childbirth all need energy to deal with. At that time, no one advocated class reunion.

Ten years later, students' jobs and marriages have taken shape, life tends to be stable, and children can basically make money, so they can make time to think about other things. Remembering the friendship with my classmates before, I have the energy to attend the reunion.

As far as class reunion is concerned, the most contacted students are high school students. Ten years after graduation, I had a classmate party in 2003, and 80% people attended it, which was quite satisfactory. Students who didn't come to attend were inconvenient because of the distance. Besides, they are all at work and have no time.

All the students who came here, see you ten years later, still feel very cordial. It's so warm to meet, shake hands and hug. The lights are staggered, talking and laughing. There is not much gap between students' positions and the rich and the poor. Communication is basically at the same level. So after saying goodbye, I feel that there are endless words and endless days. Very enjoyable. Have a good time.

The short three-day party tour soon ended, and we still feel reluctant to part.

However, the party belongs to the party. After the party, although everyone has an address book, the people who often contact are still classmates with good relationships, and the classmates with weak relationships are still very weak.

Second, the reunion after 20 years of school graduation.

Ten years later, our class held another reunion in 20 13, and the number of participants reached 80%. Although many students have not contacted each other since the last party, this party is still very cordial. It's just that many students who attended the party last time didn't attend this time, while foreign students who didn't attend last time all attended this time. After all, we won't meet again in twenty years. It's a pity not to attend.

However, the atmosphere of this class reunion was not as harmonious as the first time. There is also a big gap between the rich and the poor among the students, and the positions are graded. The students began to flatter each other when they spoke. Rich students also unconsciously show off their wealth, and students with high positions also unconsciously talk big. In short, they all have the psychology of comparing with each other. Occasionally, there will be verbal conflicts, which is very unpleasant.

Of course, there are also students with good mentality and average mix. For example, if you have a book, I just want to see what kind of students are mixed up. There are many promising students from all walks of life, so it is best to have a book gentleman to take care of them. It is also a personal resource to have a classmate in charge of something in the future. It is realistic to have a book! It is easy to do things with acquaintances.

After this class reunion, little classmates get together more frequently. Large-scale primary school reunion, university reunion, are very boring, and they are unwilling to attend any more. Maybe people are old and like to be quiet or busy. Going is nothing more than getting together for a meal and eating and drinking in the sea. It's better to meet two or three favorite friends, sit together, have tea and talk about life.

When people reach middle age, they enter the age of no doubt. It has reached an important peak in life, with the old and the young, and the career is also at a turning point in life. Large-scale class reunion always feels that it has lost its original meaning. Students who mix well disdain to participate in this social form, and students who mix badly are not willing to add to their troubles. It is also possible for students with poor grades or bad grades to get together and have fun.

From this perspective, I think the number of class reunions actually has a lot to do with the age group. It is not generally believed that fewer and fewer people are attending. However, some scholars believe that it is fate to be classmates and comrades-in-arms, and the friendship between classmates and comrades-in-arms is the wealth of life. We should cherish it, no matter rich or poor, no matter high or low, students are equal. Focus on that love, everything else is outside, passing away. If you have the opportunity and time to attend the reunion, you might as well attend it! After all, I see you less once.