People learn from one thing, and when they meet someone, they know someone.

The vagaries of people's hearts and the truth and falsehood of feelings all need time to examine and see the truth clearly.

The more you experience, the more you know, the better your attitude and the better your life will be.

Life is a hundred years, but we grow up through experience and experience through growth.

If you learn something from one thing, you can understand someone when you meet them.

An abbot in Japan once wrote a slogan on the bulletin board of his temple:

I'm impressed.

I don't know the flat land until I go up the mountain, and I don't know the meaning of width until I go into the sea.

Life needs many opportunities for trial and error, and you need to taste it yourself to know the ups and downs.

People will learn with experience and gradually mature with experience.

Kazuo inamori once said:

How can plum blossom fragrance be without biting cold?

Every step you take when you come is very important.

Even if you take a crooked road, take a long detour, pass by the scenery, find a new direction unexpectedly, and waste time,

Will give it back to you in an unexpected way.

These experiences, whether happy or painful, will become unrepeatable wealth in life and help you to run towards a better future.

As Haruki Murakami said:

Only when a person has experienced setbacks can he grow better. After these experiences, he will cherish what he has.

Buddha said:

Some people appear, from the beginning, not for the finale, but to add an episode to life.

Just to let you know yourself better through that person, so the people you meet and what kind of stories you have are precious wealth in life.

What people are more afraid of is being moved by themselves, obviously paying the wrong heart and waiting for the wrong person, but still saying that they can have nothing for love.

Knowing that you have taken the wrong road, turn around; Knowing that you love the wrong person, just let it go.

But I always don't want to stop at once for what I have really given. I always feel that if I stick to it, I may find a way out.

The ending is often like slow water, day after day.

There is such a passage:

It is not easy for people to meet, and it is even harder to know each other.

Not every love will blossom and bear fruit,

But what is certain is that every love has turned into a growing force, silently warming us in countless nights.

The encounter in the vast sea of people has already surpassed all joys and sorrows.

Whether it is pain or beauty, it is an experience. Experience is gain, so why care about the result?

So don't be afraid to love, and don't be afraid to be loved.

I hope you understand that loving the wrong person is not terrible, because all experiences are growth.

As the saying goes:

Whether a person is worthy of communication can only be seen at a critical time.

Read such a story:

In the history of the late Qing Dynasty, Hu Xueyan, a businessman with red top, was a household name.

A businessman's business is ruined and needs a lot of money to turn around.

In order to save the emergency, he took the initiative to come to Hu Xueyan and offered to buy his own industry at a low price.

Hu Xueyan offered a normal market price to buy each other's industries.

The minions inexplicably asked Hu Xueyan why he didn't eat the fat delivered to the door.

Hu Xueyan said:

A fallen leaf knows autumn, but a friend in need knows it.

The real success in life is not who you know, but who wants to know you when you are down and out.

When you are at a low point, you know who is real and who is fake. After many hardships, you really see through people's hearts.

Believe in time and believe that it will eventually tell you who is a hypocritical face and who is a sincere partner.

For the rest of your life, leave your feelings to those who know you, to those who love you, not to make friends with people who can't make friends, and not to pay unworthy heart.