When a man and a woman are dating, how do they judge who they are?

A classic sentence:? As long as you have enough experience, in fact, people can judge by their appearance.

Character is written on the face; Character is engraved in the eyes. Lifestyle as shown in the figure; The voice reveals the ups and downs of emotions. The instructor looks at the standing posture; Taste depends on shoes. If you don't get along, just eat for a while! ?

When people get along with each other, when they are strange and unfamiliar, they are actually wearing masks.

I want to set up a good image for each other, so I hide everything. At this time, it is difficult for you to find out who the other person is.

Especially when men and women are dating together, the purpose is very simple, and they want to find a loyal and reliable life for themselves. Then many people said, when we first met, how did we know that each other was unreliable?

In fact, even if we meet for the first time, we don't need to get along. We can judge each other's character through some small details, especially at the dinner table. It is said that we can see our character at dinner and cultivate it at dinner.

On a blind date, having dinner together will make you see each other clearly! Look at four o'clock.

First, the attitude towards waiters.

In fact, if you want to see a person's character clearly, just look at how ta treats this society. Old, weak and sick? People's attitudes.

Often in front of these people, ta will subconsciously expose her true self and have an inexplicable sense of pride, and then look down on it, look down on it, look high, and have obvious disdain and disgust in her eyes.

It is said that customers are God, so when they go to eat, such people really think of themselves as God.

Just because I am not really capable, I finally seized an opportunity to highlight my image by belittling the waiter.

It is also an obvious manifestation of bad character and lack of respect. Both men and women, I feel that I am not at the same level as the waiter, and I am particularly proud.

His attitude is like that of his own servant, and there is a deep contempt and contempt between his words.

Second, see how the other party places an order.

Most people have handled this detail well and can give each other some attention.

And some individuals, when ordering, are not humble at all. When they get the menu, they don't ask each other's opinions first, they will take the lead in ordering their favorite dishes.

Even if you order it yourself, you won't ask the other person for advice. Just give the menu to the waiter directly. Let's go first!

Generally speaking, such a person is not only a manifestation of low emotional intelligence, but also a manifestation of selfishness. Most of them are self-centered, without considering the feelings of others, and they will not consider the feelings of others.

If you order a dish and then give you another chance, when you order it, I didn't expect that when you order a dish, unless it is a dish that ta likes, you will stop and say how bad your order is.

When the food is finally served, they will always complain that this dish is not delicious and that dish is not delicious. To tell the truth, this person is generally difficult to serve, and there is no way to get along.

Third, look at what the other party ordered.

First of all, if the man treats a woman, he deliberately orders a lot of precious and expensive ingredients, which is obviously beyond his appetite.

So this is not just a waste, or is it intentional? Murder? Dude.

This kind of woman is generally vain, and the so-called concept of mate selection is mostly to find a free ATM for herself, especially like to take advantage of petty advantages. Take advantage of men's weaknesses and know that they are all beautiful.

In order to show how noble you are, and to prove that you live exquisitely, it is vanity to let others pay the bill.

As for men, it is also very simple. All the behaviors of punching a swollen face and pretending to be a fat man are understandable, but if it is exaggerated, it is beyond their tolerance, which indirectly proves that this person is unrealistic, impetuous, insecure and immature.

People who meet for the first time, people who really want to meet, what to eat is secondary, or pay more attention to the understanding and understanding of two people together.

Fourth, look at the details when eating.

A frivolous person, in fact, does not need to speak, although it can be clearly detected from ta's attitude, but the details of eating are more representative.

This time is also the best time to see if two people are suitable.

Because when the other person is eating, it is easiest to expose his true self, and those are the real living habits of ta. Eating, shaking your legs, picking food with chopsticks, not knowing what you are looking for, and so on.

Also, when two people eat for the first time, one of them can answer the phone for more than ten minutes while eating. It's nothing important, just chatting. Then just hang up with each other again, without any concern or consideration.

Others like extravagance and waste, and often ignore their families.

Details don't lie. Even if a person pretends to be good, it can't be perfect. He always reveals his true colors in such a small matter.

When dating, two people eat together. By observing the above four points, they can see each other clearly.

A long time ago, I read a sentence about a person. His attitude towards the waiter before marriage is the attitude towards his wife after marriage. It may be exaggerated, but have you found that it is somewhat similar in invisibility?

To tell the truth, it is also the easiest to see each other's character when we meet for the first time.

Because in the process of getting along, everyone will gradually get carried away by the novelty, and getting along with each other obviously means that both sides have a good impression.

Only when they meet for the first time will their spirits be so tense and they will remain rational and sober.

Don't believe it, it's true. The first impression is often accurate, which is a true judgment without emotion and passion.

When dating, two people can try to be simple, but they just know someone they usually don't have a chance to know. People are more important than conditions.