How to avoid divorce

How to avoid divorce? In the process of maintaining a long-term relationship, two people will certainly encounter many different things. Whether you are married or not, you need two people in the relationship to work together. Here are some ways to avoid divorce.

How to avoid divorce 1 paranoia and jealousy of marital infidelity? Under normal circumstances, women will be suspicious and jealous of men's marital infidelity. This kind of thing can also make men angry. Catch shadows, interrogate day and night. This life is really not suitable for people. A man divorced his wife after more than ten years of marriage. His wife said every day that she suspected that he was having an affair, questioned him every day, followed him and forced him to report the case. He couldn't stand being interrogated every day, so he divorced. In order to prove that he is not having an affair, he is not married. No need to explain, those women who are having an affair with their partners. It doesn't matter if you don't have children. Break up with a pat. Having children, both of them are in trouble. Make do. Life is worse than death. Make a clean break. The child has become a victim again. A friend divorced quietly. After the divorce, he didn't mention it to anyone. It was a year before his friends knew that he was single.

Countermeasures: Before you get married, you must ensure your loyalty to love. Marriage is no joke. You must make sure that he is the person you have been looking for all your life before you decide to marry her and deny cheating after marriage. This is a disrespect for marriage ethics.

Measures to prevent divorce

1, solve the contradiction between husband and wife, and don't make it public easily.

Husband and wife should respect each other and often carry out criticism and self-criticism.

Don't fake divorce for some benefits, otherwise it's easy to fake divorce.

4. Do more transformation work, eliminate barriers in time and melt the ice and snow in your heart.

5. Husband and wife should be open-minded and take the initiative to solve conflicts.

6. Don't talk nonsense and threaten each other with the word "divorce" at every turn.

7. Don't intensify contradictions and make the relationship between the two sides tense and rigid.

8, don't be hot-headed, on a whim, treat marriage as a child's play.

9. Don't indulge in singing and dancing, playing blogs, or even staying home at night.

10, don't fight when the husband and wife quarrel, otherwise it will add fuel to the fire and expand the contradiction.

1 1, both parties agree to divorce, but they should think twice before acting, think deeply about whether the relationship really breaks down, and don't play with each other.

12 As the saying goes, listen to people and have enough to eat. Couples should also listen to the advice of parents, relatives and friends when divorcing.

13, be good at self-control, don't be overbearing and impulsive. Even if you're divorced. We should also deal with it coldly, and don't solve it quickly in anger to prevent regret.

How can I avoid divorce?

As long as husband and wife are loyal and respect each other, no one has the right to break up. Therefore, as a husband or wife, as long as you are truly loyal and respectful to your spouse, you can avoid divorce. In the case that the relationship between husband and wife has not yet broken down, even if one party files for divorce, the people's court will not grant divorce after finding out the facts. The following are the legal provisions. Article 3 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China: Arranging, buying and selling marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage are prohibited. It is forbidden to claim property through marriage. Bigamy is prohibited. Spouses are prohibited from living together with others. Domestic violence is prohibited. Abuse and abandonment between family members are prohibited. Article 4: Husband and wife should be faithful to each other and respect each other; Family members should respect the old and love the young, help each other, and maintain equal, harmonious and civilized marriage and family relations. Article 32 If a man or a woman requests a divorce, the relevant department may mediate or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. When trying divorce cases, the people's court shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has really broken down and mediation is ineffective, divorce should be granted.

How to avoid divorce II. Running a marriage: three minefields to maintain a long-term relationship

First, always criticize others for not doing things.

In the process of maintaining a long-term relationship, two people will certainly encounter many different things. When facing differences, it is very important to be able to treat things rather than people. However, many long-term relationships are on the verge of breaking up, because when two people start quarreling about something, they will inevitably rise from this incident to life attack. When a problem arises, we should restrain our emotions and deal with it as much as possible. For example, it was another person's turn to clean the house today, but he didn't do it. You can express your feelings directly and say: You should clean up today, but you didn't do it. Dirty at home makes me feel very uncomfortable. And when some people are angry, it is easy to say: Why don't you clean every time it's your turn, why are you so lazy, etc. But this is a personal attack.

Secondly, two people have zero communication.

Many times when two people have conflicts, some people are used to self-protection through silence and refuse to communicate effectively with each other. People who use this means of self-defense are always used to shutting out people who want to communicate, and you don't want to hear other people's thoughts. It is a person hiding in his own world, and sometimes he feels wronged why he is treated like this. But in the other half, you can't bear to deal with the bad relationship between two people. If two people with problems don't communicate, the interaction between them is zero communication. Two people in a long-term relationship will gradually develop negative emotions and gradually evolve into a cold and violent war. Then when one party can't resist the long-term cold violence, it will want to escape from this long-term relationship. If you really want to run a good marriage, maintaining a long-term relationship between you will avoid zero communication.

Third, expose each other's "scars."

Maintaining a long-term relationship between two people is not like the US presidential election. The two candidates really spared no effort to expose each other's old roots. But seriously, this campaign has been criticized by many media, and two people should not expose each other's scars in a long-term relationship. On the contrary, we should go hand in hand to create a better tomorrow. However, it often backfires. If some people see something unpleasant in their life, they will easily think of the past or some other shortcomings of each other, and then they will criticize each other's shortcomings together. Of course, if the other person is irritated or can't stand your criticism, they may come together to expose their scars. It is very harmful for the other party to expose their scars in this way. Exposing each other's scars is bound to hurt the long-term relationship between two people.