The bride made a three-part promise to the groom on her wedding day, and the groom immediately broke off the engagement. What do you think of this?

Things happened suddenly. During the oath-taking ceremony of the wedding, the bride suddenly proposed a "three-chapter agreement."

The first agreement: From now on, all the husband’s money will be given to his wife for safekeeping, and he is not allowed to spend it at will.

Second Agreement: No random guests can come to the house, and both parents cannot stay overnight.

The third agreement: The wife has the final say regarding the birth of a child. If she wants to have a child, she will have one. If she does not want to have one, she will not have one. If she does, she will bear the mother's surname, and the man shall not interfere.

I don’t know what you think about this three-chapter agreement.

But in my opinion, only the first of the three chapters of this agreement can be barely accepted. As for the remaining two items, any normal person cannot agree to them.

Obviously, the groom is a normal person and very cool. He grabbed the microphone directly, apologized to everyone and ran home, leaving the bride and everyone in embarrassment.

That’s it for now. Let me share some of my own opinions.

First of all, marriage is a matter between two people. When faced with the issue of love, neither man nor woman should "advance" the man's temporary whims. The impact of temporarily breaking off an engagement can be said to be great.

The two families instantly became the laughing stock of their relatives and friends. It is not certain that the man and woman will turn against each other in the future.

In fact, whether you are a man or a woman, you cannot push yourself too far. There are some harsh conditions and it’s harmless to think of it as a couple’s joke. ?

However, as a public oath, something seems wrong. ?

Some people always think that there is no need for propriety in marriage, but this is actually wrong. For example, as a partner, never look down on your partner's parents. In principle, this is something you absolutely cannot do.

You must know that smart women know how to speak and act appropriately. Some people’s unhappiness is often caused by themselves.

Material conditions, living conditions, and spiritual conditions all have to play a corresponding role. Only when two people hit it off can marriage be put on the agenda.

If there are some conditions that are not suitable for each other, or there are fundamentally different views, then no matter how well-matched the new couple is in the eyes of others, their final outcome can only be to part ways.