Perception of famous sayings

indomitable perseverance can conquer any peak in the world! -Dickens

1. There are always some people around you. When you see her happy all day, she is really like a child, and everyone envies her; In fact, where do you know: one second ago, she was in tears, and the next second, she was filled with brilliant smiles. They really can't be alone. In the dead of night, they always sit at the window and meditate on the frustration in the night sky. They are like sunflowers, always bright and bright on the front of the sun, but they hide their sadness on the back that they can't shine.

Although a pessimist is still alive, an optimist will never grow old. -Byron

8. Sometimes, I'm in a bad mood for no reason, and I don't want to talk to anyone. I just want to be alone quietly. Sometimes, I want a person to hide and be fragile, and I don't want others to see my wounds. Sometimes, when you walk around the corner and see the back of your acquaintance, you suddenly think of a person's face. Sometimes, others misinterpret their careless words and feel depressed and embarrassed. Sometimes, I find myself growing up overnight. 9. If there is an afterlife, be a tree, stand in eternity, without the gesture of sorrow and joy. Half is peaceful in the soil, half is flying in the wind, half is cool, half is bathed in sunshine, very silent, very proud, never dependent and never looking for it. (BY San Mao)

It is true that gold is precious, but energetic and brave patriots are more precious than gold. -Lincoln

7. Every memory has a password. As long as the time, place and character combination are accurate, no matter how long it is dusty, that person's scene will be picked up again in oblivion. You might say, "Isn't it all over?" It's only time that has passed, and you still can't escape. If you think of it, you will smile or be sad. That kind of fate is called "powerless".

ideal is the beacon. Without ideal, there is no firm direction, and without direction, there is no life. -Tolstoy

6. If a person has been single for a long time, he will not want to fall in love, and he will feel that friends are becoming more and more important; When a person has been single for a long time, he doesn't want to go shopping and will like listening to songs at home more and more. A person who has been single for a long time will become mature and love his parents more and more than before; If a person has been single for a long time, he will buy a lot of shoes and travel to many far-away places alone. If a person has been single for a long time, he will shed tears inadvertently and quietly, and it doesn't matter what will happen in front of the world.

going towards a certain goal is "ambition", and never stopping halfway is "qi". Together, the two are "ambition". The success or failure of all undertakings depends on this. -Carnegie

5. Having someone who knows you is the greatest happiness. This person may not be perfect, but he can read you, go deep into your heart and understand everything in your heart. The people who know you best will always be by your side, silently guarding you and not letting you suffer a little injustice. People who really love you don't say much about loving you, but do a lot of things that love you.

don't expect the afterlife. If you can't grow in this life, you will still be a loser in the afterlife.

3. Don't complain that your woman is ugly, that you don't have a good father, that your job is poor, and that no one appreciates you. There are too many disappointments in reality. Even if life gives you garbage, you can still step on it and climb to the top of the world. The world only cares whether you have reached a certain height, not whether you stepped on the shoulders of giants or on garbage.

it's not fate that makes us lose anything, but what life wants us to learn; As long as you have the sun in your heart, the road of life will always be bright!

4. if you don't like others, you don't have enough self-restraint. At the moment when people are angry, their IQ is zero, and it returns to normal after one minute. The hinge of human elegance lies in controlling one's emotions. Hurting people with your mouth is the stupidest behavior.

In your hands, you should greet the dreamy future with an upright and manly spirit.

2. Always think that happiness is in the distance and in the future that can be pursued. Later, it was discovered that those who hugged, shook hands, sang songs, shed tears, loved, and so-called once were happiness. In countless nights, words spoken, phone calls made, people missed, tears shed ... we have all been touched by sight or invisibility, and then in the shuttle of time, everything becomes eternal!

Don't look at the past with sentimental eyes, because the past will never come back. The smartest way is to deal with your present-the present is in your grasp.

1. If life never met, I would still be the same person, dreaming occasionally, and then, I would start running around day after day and sink into this noisy city. I don't understand, there is such a you in this world, only you can make people aftertaste, and only you can make me enchanted. If life has never met, I won't believe that there is a kind of person who can never get tired of watching it, and there is a kind of person who feels warm when he is familiar with it.

In today's advocating individuality, the old saying that "modesty equals progress" has been forgotten by most people and replaced by boasting and showing off. Especially in the modern workplace with fierce competition, people are doing their best to make public, and many people don't know what modesty is. But I believe pride goes before a fall.

Modesty is our traditional virtue and great wisdom that leads us to a successful life.

1? Modesty comes from self-confidence

Many celebrities in the world are modest, and their modesty comes from deep self-confidence.

Hazel Park Jung Su wrote in a famous article: "Shakespeare is the most modest man. There is nothing surprising about him; But he has all the advantages of others, or he has all the advantages that others may have. "

Shakespeare thinks he is a member of all sentient beings, and he is no different from others. What others think is very surprising is not surprising to him. He was born with all kinds of talents, and he didn't seem to notice them at all. In fact, he has all the talents known to mankind.

The facts shown by many people can prove that the greater a person is, the more modest he is, and this modesty comes from his deep confidence in himself. Because the results speak for themselves, he doesn't have to advertise, let alone write a brief introduction to make a preview. Take Lincoln as an example. For a long time, people have been debating whether he believes in the history books. We now know that it's not that he doesn't want to do this, but that he doesn't think what he did is worth going down in history, and he doesn't have the qualification to go down in history! This is the real modesty.

if we are frank, natural and don't care about other people's opinions, we will become a lovely person. If we are open-minded, we will see our shortcomings and get help from others. Modesty brings us not only popularity, but also an opportunity for continuous progress.

2? In a threesome, there must be a teacher

"In a threesome, there must be a teacher" is a famous sentence of Confucius, a famous thinker and educator in Chinese history, which has been circulated for more than 2, years. From the sentence of "a threesome, there must be a teacher", we know that Confucius never forgets to learn from his teacher, and he is very modest, which is unprecedented; The spirit is precious, and it is a model for future generations.

China is known as "the state of etiquette". As a specific behavior, "courtesy" refers to the civilized behavior of people when they treat people, which is now called politeness. The essence of politeness is to show respect and friendliness to others. This psychological demand is beyond the times and lasts forever. Modesty is also the expression of humility and equality, and it is an important connotation of politeness. Modesty and politeness contains the pride of our ancestors in natural culture, and it is a noble character that China people have respected for thousands of years.

During the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius and his students traveled around the world to publicize their political opinions.

One day, Confucius took his students to the State of Chu, passing through a forest, and saw a hunchback old man holding a bamboo pole and sticking it to cicadas, as if he were picking something up from the ground.

Confucius asked, "You are so clever, you must have some clever tricks?" The hunchback old man said, "I have a method." I spent five months practicing cicada catching technology. If two projectiles can't fall off the top of a bamboo pole, the possibility of cicada escaping is very small when it is glued. If three projectiles can't fall off the top of the bamboo pole, the chance of cicada escape is only one in ten; If you put five projectiles in a row and can't fall off, sticking cicadas is as easy as picking up things on the ground. I stand here, strong and steady. Although the world is vast and everything is complicated, all I see and think is "wings of cicada". If you are distracted by the change of everything, how can you catch cicadas? "

Confucius then turned to the students and said, "Strange people are everywhere. He can be my teacher!"

It seems that Confucius put the virtue of modesty into practical life.

Zhuangzi? There is a thought-provoking fable in Autumn Waters: When water comes in autumn, all the mountains and rivers flow into the river. The river flooded the sandbar, so wide that you couldn't see the horses and cattle on the other side. Now, Hebo "happily complacent, take the beauty of the world as his own". But when Hebo went downstream to the North Sea, he found that the sea was much more beautiful than the river.

Pride makes people laugh.

3? The secret of a great scientist

Knowing humility is a sign of a person's maturity, and self-confidence and modesty are also the dialectical unity. The motto given to his son by the president of IBM appropriately combines the two-"The heart is like God, and the action is like a beggar". We should always have pride in our hearts, but like beggars in our actions, we should cherish and grasp all opportunities that contribute to our happiness and success in life.

"A wide river is calm, and a knowledgeable person is modest." All people who have made great contributions to human development have the virtue of modesty.

Newton, the pioneer of modern science, laid the foundation for the development of modern science with his three great achievements-optical analysis, law of universal gravitation and calculus. Whenever Newton made great achievements in science, he was never complacent and thought he was great. Newton worked hard to work out the "law of gravity", but he didn't rush to publish it. Instead, he continued to ponder and study tirelessly for several years, immersed himself in digital calculation and never said a word to anyone.

Later, Newton's friend, the great astronomer Harley (the discoverer of the comet), met with difficulties in proving a law about planetary orbits and made a special trip to ask Newton. Newton gave Harley his manuscript about calculating "gravity". After seeing it, Harley realized that the question he wanted to ask was exactly what Newton had already solved and calculated, and he admired it in his heart.

One day in November 1684, Harley visited Newton's apartment again. When it comes to academic issues related to astronomy, Newton took out a paper demonstrating "gravity" and asked Harley for advice. After seeing it, Harley was very surprised by this masterpiece. He said to Newton with joy, "This is really a great argument and a great book!" " He repeatedly persuaded Newton to publish this great book as soon as possible in order to benefit mankind. However, Newton did not listen to his friends' kind advice to easily publish his own works, but after a long period of meticulous repeated verification and calculation, he confirmed that it was correct, and in July 1687, he published the Mathematical Principles of Natural Philosophy to the world.

Newton was a very modest man, and he was never conceited. Someone once asked him, "What is the secret of your success?" Newton replied, "if I have a little success, there is no other secret, but diligence." He added, "If I see farther, it is because I stand on the shoulders of giants."

From these meaningful words, we can see the modesty of this great scientist, which vividly reveals the secret of Newton's great achievements, that is, standing on the basis of previous research results, being brave in dedication, diligently creating and opening up a new world of science.

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How to be a person: Make a perfect first impression

Sometimes a person will lose confidence in life within 3 minutes. Therefore, at the beginning of your career development, it is worthwhile for you to take some time to learn the skills of shaping a good image. This is not to teach you how to cleverly cover up your true face or obvious shortcomings, nor is it just to consciously pay attention to your appearance and behavior, so that the external self can keep clean and tidy and walk into the crowd. In fact, in a person's working environment, the opportunity to establish a professional image is everywhere. Your boss, colleagues, buyers and sellers, as well as interviewers, new buyers and sellers in job interviews, play your audience every day.

first impression?

If you always care about the impression you make on others, and if you always avoid making a bad first impression and then go back and try to eliminate the bad consequences, you will not only feel relaxed in your daily work, but also have a smooth and smooth career path. Perhaps we will think that we are very rational, and we are not deceived by attractive packaging and advertising; For a product, a service or a person, we prefer to trust our objective and fair judgment. But research shows that 9% of us still judge each other within the first few minutes of meeting. Since human beings are animals dominated by vision, our impressions of things come from what we see. Appearance accounts for more than 5% of personal impression-race, age, gender, height, weight, skin color, body language, clothes and dressing, all of which play a corresponding role as a part of appearance. In addition, the voice and way of speaking account for 38% of personal impression, while the content of information or speech only accounts for 7%.

suitability, reliability, attractiveness, property status and social status-the judgment of these factors is based on the combination of a person's "intuition" and objective observation, which is sometimes wrong. If you don't want to bother yourself to create a good personal image, you are running the risk of being misunderstood. So, look before you leap! ?

We live in a world called "3-second culture", which is filled with all kinds of persuasive images in TV, videos, Sunday supplements and tongue-twisting magazines, which makes us all experts in image analysis. Whether we like it or not, others will comment on our clothes, way of speaking, environmental layout and the influence on our colleagues.

image and visible factors?

Work quality and sense of responsibility account for only about 1% of your professional image, and the rest are your image and visible factors. This is why a person's appearance, especially in the first impression, really works. At the same time, this is why we should always pay attention to our own image when we meet for the first time, and we should always pay attention to the impression we leave on others in peacetime. Of course, there are always two sides to everything, and the image you create is no exception, and the audience may not necessarily respond as you expect.

clothing language?

We met people. Before we started chatting, we actually talked in an ancient and universal language. Its vocabulary is our clothes, decorations and all personal decorations. Clothing language, as one of the branches of semiotics, that is, suggestive science, is composed of hints and signs.

dress hints are easy to read because they