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It is said that there is a family history museum in Changlai village of Zimenqiao, which was interviewed by Hunan TV and CCTV. I was curious, so I invited handsome Zhu Peng to visit.

From Tsinghua Village in Apricot to Changlai Village, the roads are wide and tidy, and villas are row upon row.

"Lian Bi motto" has a cloud:

Diligence is the foundation of family management;

Heshun, the foundation of home;

Caution is the foundation of protecting the family;

Poetry, the foundation of entrepreneurship;

Loyalty and filial piety are the foundation of family heirlooms.

In the past 200 years, Zeng Guofan's family has been prosperous and talented. None of its 240 descendants is a black sheep, relying on its original family education theory and its own family style.

And five of the epigrams were also used by Zeng Guofan, which made the rare phenomenon of "enduring after eight generations" in China history.

Diligence is the foundation of family management.

As the saying goes, "Diligence leads to failure, extravagance leads to failure", which is an eternal truth.

There is nothing extraordinary about Zeng Guofan's family management. He only upholds the word "diligence and thrift".

He once mentioned in Zeng Guofan's letter such a way of managing the family:

"First, your brothers are in harmony; Second, your filial piety; Third, we must practice the word diligence. "

He also has a "16-character motto":

"If you are frugal, you will prosper; If you are diligent, you will be healthy; If you are diligent, you will never be poor. "

Zeng Guofan applied the word "thrift" to the whole process of running a family.

He asked his family not to sit in sedan chairs, not to ask people to fetch water and add tea, and even to collect firewood, dung and plant crops in the fields, he had to do it himself. As for his daughter's needlework, cooking, spinning and making clothes, he can't be faked by others.

In terms of diet, Zeng Guofan is a man with low requirements. He paid no attention to the prime minister's ostentation and extravagance. He only eats one dish per meal, never more than one set, so he got the nickname of "Prime Minister of One Product".

In terms of clothes, his shoes and socks were sewn by his wife and daughter-in-law.

In terms of residence, Zeng Guofan does not have the demeanor of a prime minister. His brother once built a new house outside the Zeng family's old house on the grounds of increasing family population, which cost more than 3000 strings.

Zeng Guofan was very unhappy when he learned that he would never live in a new house again in his life.

Zeng Guofan adhered to the word "diligence and thrift" all his life, and his career flourished. The Zeng family miraculously avoided the fate of "being rich for three generations".

02

Harmony is the foundation of home.

The so-called home and everything, Zeng Guofan for "harmony", also has a unique understanding, he said:

"The way to stand is just inside and soft outside; The way to a fat family lies in obedience. If you don't agree, you can't pick things up. If you are not strict, you can't manage it. "

In his letter to Ceng Guoquan, Zeng Guofan also quoted the classics and emphasized the importance of "home harmony". He said:

"You can maintain harmony in a few minutes without disappointment; No peace, no defeat. "

Zeng Guofan has nine brothers and sisters. He is the eldest son of the Zeng family. He has made great efforts to love his brothers, but he does not tolerate them.

In daily life, he often sets an example and takes the lead in setting an example, regardless of personal gains and losses, but puts family first.

He often said: "Brothers live in harmony, although they are poor and self-sufficient, they will prosper;" Brothers don't agree, although the family will fail. "

Meng Ziyun: "The way of Yao and Shun is filial piety."

As a model of Confucianism, Zeng Guofan's efforts to pacify the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom and save the Qing Dynasty from chaos are all based on his daily "housekeeping", which can be described as a model of "housekeeping well and then governing the country well".

03

Caution is the foundation of family protection.

Zeng Guofan is a very cautious person. He thinks prudence is a first-class skill in dealing with people.

After he became a big official, many people in his family took "four big sedan chairs" when they went out, so Zeng Guofan warned them: "Everything should be cautious and simple."

This is not only a habit of thrift, but also a cautious and unobtrusive behavior.

In "to the emperor, the heyday should be convergence", Zeng Guofan once again stressed:

"I think it is always advisable for our family to converge here in its heyday and not to carry it forward too much. I hope my brother has been paying attention. "

This means that the more prosperous a person is, the more cautious he should be.

Caution is Zeng Guofan's thought of managing the family, and when his official position is getting higher and higher and his reputation is getting bigger and bigger, the more he pays attention to cautious convergence.

Because he knows the truth that "it is too cold at the top" and "it is too cold at the top", if people are too proud, disaster is likely to come soon.

It is with this caution that the Zeng family can be preserved for a long time and thrive.

04

Poetry is the foundation of entrepreneurship.

Zeng Guofan attached great importance to cultural education for future generations. In his letter to his younger brother, he mentioned that if a person can "stand on his own feet", even if he can't become famous, he is also a "big helper for men".

He even said that, for example, the great sages and great scholars in his hometown are not famous because of their great fame, but live happily and are famous in the village.

He also encouraged his son to say, "I don't want to be a big official, but I hope to be a gentleman who is sensible."

In reading, Zeng Guofan himself set an example. He turned reading into a daily habit. No matter how busy a day is, reading three pages is a firm plan. Even in the army, he insists on reading every day.

In Zeng Guofan's letters, there are also many contents that teach his siblings and descendants to keep the family tradition of "farming and reading".

He warned his children not only to read the Four Books and Five Classics, but also asked them to read more history books and be familiar with Chen Hongmou's Four Disciplines for Fan Fan and Five Legacy Rules.

In the family style of "farming and reading", Zeng Guofan himself gradually grew into a generation.

At the same time, he also combined his own way of reading and integrated new ideas into it, further carrying forward the tradition of "farming and reading".

It is precisely because of the teaching of poetry and calligraphy that Zeng's later talents come forth in large numbers.

05

Loyalty and filial piety are the foundation of family heirlooms.

Zeng Guofan has a famous saying: "There are hundreds of treasures, and loyalty and filial piety are endless."

As the saying goes, loyalty and filial piety have never been satisfactory since ancient times.

However, Zeng Guofan did it.

On the one hand, he is a filial son and attaches great importance to filial piety culture. In his view, filial piety is more important than reading and becoming famous.

He once said: "If filial piety is done one point, you will learn one point, and if it is done ten points, you will learn ten points."

At the same time, he also believes that filial piety is an important rule in dealing with family relations and an important factor in family harmony and auspiciousness. He said:

"Filial piety is an auspicious symbol of the family. If what goes around comes around, he may not be able to test everything. If he is alone, he will win good luck. On the contrary, he will win the disaster without test. "

He is a great national loyal minister.

Zeng Guofan was conscientious and devoted to the country, taking the affairs of the country as his own business.

He once said, "If you do something important, you should take it as your own business. In the future, for the country, for the people, and for kindness, it is also appropriate to regard it as a picture everywhere. "

It is precisely because the Tseng family abides by the principle of loyalty and filial piety that their brothers, sons and nephews take care of each other in the long-term ups and downs of their official career, and honor and disgrace are distinct from * * *, so that they can keep a clear head in front of the country's sense of honor, thus ensuring the long-term development of the family.

Today, although society is changing with each passing day, human nature has never changed.

Some people are crazy when they are in power, and some people have raised "rich second generation".

Don't say "you can't be rich for three generations". "Seeing tall buildings and seeing buildings collapse" is staged every day.

How can it be like the Zeng family's "eight dynasties, a hundred years without a black sheep"?

Let's have a look. I hope we can learn a thing or two from the family style of ancient sages, so that our families will be happy and harmonious and our children will thrive.

Joo Won? has a strong family style, simple folk customs and a mighty national style. On September 27th, on the occasion of National Day and Mid-Autumn Festival, Fufeng Family Style Museum officially opened in Banfu, the ancient town of Chengxifu, Xinxian County. Party member and vice chairman of the Provincial Women's Federation, Party Jie, deputy secretary of the municipal party committee, standing committee member of the municipal party committee and secretary of the county party committee Zhou attended the event.

Fufeng has a long history and culture. Since ancient times, there has been a fine tradition of respecting ceremony and valuing morality and being kind to others. Known as "the cradle of ritual and music civilization, the country of moral and political thought". Fufeng's family education has a long history, which not only has Li Bai's reputation of "Fufeng Hero, Wonder of the World", but also Wu Zetian's praise of Su Hui's Map of Xuan Ji, which is "brilliant and extraordinary". More importantly, it was inspired by Gan Tang's love for Zhao Gong and Wang Lun's diligent love for people, honesty and justice. Fufeng is full of the blood of Chinese civilization and deep feelings of home and country.

It is understood that Fufeng Family Style Museum aims at "excavating cultural resources, carrying forward excellent family style, inheriting traditional virtues and leading social fashion" and covers an area of 1 000 square meters. The museum is divided into four functional areas: exhibition area, office area, reading area and experience area. The exhibition area is divided into 1 1 small exhibition areas by using modern acousto-optic technology. From the source of Chinese family style, China women's school, diligent and honest culture, civilized national style and excellent family style collection, the rich family style culture of Fufeng is fully displayed, including 35 family styles, 35 ancient celebrities, 4 1 modern figures and 660 modern figures. The office area is equipped with high-standard meeting rooms, which can accommodate 100 people for study and training at the same time. The reading area is equipped with 100 kinds of books and materials related to family style and family training for visitors to learn to read. The Duoxian Academy in the experience area is simple and elegant, imitating the ancients to recite classics in Hanfu, and experiencing the profoundness of Chinese excellent classics from a distance. At the same time, the County Family Style Pavilion has opened an online family style pavilion, which adopts 5D holographic technology, and can fully understand the family style culture through the special effects of the network observer pavilion.

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Xichong Family Style Pavilion is divided into family style courtyard and indoor exhibition hall. Family style courtyard includes "family style inscription", "front door couplet" and "door style relief". The indoor exhibition hall covers an area of about 300 square meters, including theme exhibition halls such as "* * * Party Family Style View" and "Persistence and Inheritance", covering China traditional family style family training, * * Party family style inheritance and Xichong traditional family style culture.

The exhibition hall publicizes and displays excellent family style through words, pictures, exhibition boards, objects and videos.

Xichong Family Style Pavilion is an important base that integrates the education of cadres' party spirit, clean government, teenagers' ideological and moral education and civil socialism core values in party member. It aims to guide the broad masses of cadres and people in party member to draw spiritual strength from the traditional family style and family training, further spread family style, establish family rules and cultivate new styles, and create a good atmosphere with good family style, pure folk customs, upright party style and clean political style.

"A few days ago, my father accompanied me to watch the first lesson of school. This course includes not only the stories of Zhong Nanshan, Zhang Boli and Zhang Wenhong, but also the contents of "Saving Food and Opposing Waste" in Xinjiang Family Style Museum. Yuan Yimeng of Yuepuhu Primary School in Kashgar, Xinjiang, told the reporter of China Women's Daily and China Women's Network. Yuan Bin, her father, said, "During the epidemic, my children and I learned a lot about family education, family style and family training in Xinjiang Family Style Museum. Recently, the' CD Action' has been implemented at home, and children are no longer picky eaters and their habits are getting better and better. "

The Xinjiang Family Style Pavilion mentioned by Yuan Bin and Yuan Yimeng is an educational position carefully created by Xinjiang Women's Federation, which values family, family education and family style. In June this year, 5438+ 10/8 was unveiled, and before the official opening of the museum in May 15, family education activities were mainly carried out online. Since the unveiling, family education and family style training have been promoted to more than 7 million families and related units in Xinjiang through online and offline methods, which has been widely praised.

Three generations have practiced good family style for decades.

"In May this year, the Xinjiang Women's Federation commended me, and my deeds were selected to be exhibited in the Xinjiang Family Style Museum. I am very happy. The old people in the nursing home are also happy for me. I also want to show the old people when I have the opportunity. " Shanihan Aitamu, a representative of the national civilized family in fukang city, Xinjiang, told reporters.

"We are very busy these days. The nursing home has just returned to normal, and the work is very complicated, but it is very happy and fulfilling. " Shanihan said. There used to be many empty nesters in Wenhua Road Community, Fuxin Street, fukang city, where Shanihan lived. As soon as she has time, she invites them to her home. After a long time, her family became an "elderly club", just like a family.

Yue Hua Su told reporters that although the family was difficult when I was a child, my mother was always willing to pour a bowl of hot tea for thirsty passers-by, talk with them about family life, and give a cake to herders who came home late with sheep. Mother's words and deeds deeply influenced Shanihan. Now, she has passed on these good family styles to the children. For decades, three generations have been filial to the elderly, loving their loved ones and being grateful to the society.

It is understood that on 20 10, Wenhua Road Community of Fuxin Street in fukang city set up a home care service point in Shanihan Aitamu's home. Since 10, Shanihan Aitamu has taken good care of many elderly people of Han nationality, Kazak nationality, Uygur nationality and Hui nationality in the community every day, providing them with daily diet, leisure and entertainment, poverty alleviation and other services. From 2065438 to February, 2006, the home-based care service project was rated as the four "Best Volunteer Service Projects" in China 100, and Shanihan Aitamu successively won the honorary titles of "model of filial piety and respect for the elderly" and "national civilized family".

In 20 17, fukang city invested10.3 million yuan to build a new Shanihan home care service center, with a total area of 780 square meters, equipped with Shanihan studio, Chinese medicine health care room, indoor care service area, outdoor activities and entertainment area and green area, which can provide higher-quality care services for 60 elderly people in its jurisdiction. Today, Shanihan Aitamu has become a business card of fukang city. Inspired by her, a large number of national unity models and good deeds have emerged one after another, forming the "Shanihan Aitamu Team".

Shanihan's love is imperceptibly influencing and infecting her children. Filial piety is the best "heirloom" she left for her children. "There is a big pot in our house, and dozens of people eat in it." shockley kurban is most proud of "showing off" his family to outsiders. Shockley, the youngest son of Nisha Khan, graduated from xinjiang university of finance. His ambition is to be a policeman. Shockley takes care of the elderly in the home care center when he has time, and he has also developed the habit of helping others for many years.

Inherit good family style and cultivate good family education.

A few days ago, the Xinjiang Women's Federation's "Visiting Huiju" resident team held a unique family story meeting for the villagers in Naizerbagh Town, Kashgar City. The person in charge of the task force told the reporter that it was the summer vacation during the epidemic. The cloud classroom of the online family style museum of Xinjiang Women's Federation provides children and villagers with a lot of content about family style tutoring, saving food and opposing waste, which is very popular and loved by everyone. This time, the evening school will be used to show the learning achievements and contents of the Family Style Pavilion online, so that people around us can form a good interaction online and offline.

With the theme of "patriotism and family harmony", Xinjiang Family Style Museum has set up five special exhibition areas: gentle idioms, handed down family style, red family style, harmonious new style and clean family style. It is a comprehensive base that practices socialist core values and integrates family education, family education lecture hall, family culture cultivation and family education guidance. Through video, text, pictures and other ways, the whole museum shows the family styles of historical celebrities and excellent families in Xinjiang, and guides more people to tell their family history well, establish good family rules and remember their family styles. Up to now, Xinjiang Family Style Museum has welcomed a visiting team of 69 batches 1752 people composed of party and government organs, enterprises and institutions, localities (prefectures and cities) and other relevant units and individuals in the autonomous region, and held activities such as theme party day and family style lecture hall.

"Family harmony, home and, what good things will follow up. Xinjiang Family Style Pavilion provides us with a good position, which is of great significance for educating children and driving one party's atmosphere upward. " China's most beautiful family representative, Hai Ju, director of Fangjiazhuang Village, Shuixigou Town, urumqi county, said this.