How to talk about reality

How we build interpersonal relationships with others is to integrate into the other person’s life. I am an employee of a coffee shop, so I must be very good at roasting coffee. People who come to drink coffee will ask for some knowledge about brewing coffee. As long as you tell others the method, it means that you have established a good relationship with them and you. relationships, then you can make friends. When we want to talk to others, we also need to know what the logic of things is, what the other person’s preferences are, what he hates, what kind of people he least likes to chat with, and what kind of entertainment he wants. Then if you know it, you can use it based on The other person's likes and dislikes establish a friendship.